Okuqukethwe
Uyabona, ingane yakho ihlale ilingisa ! Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi u-Alizée olandela uBaba wakhe ngomshini wakhe wokugunda utshani lapho egunda utshani noma uJoshua othi kumfowabo omncane okhalayo: “Sthandwa sami, kuzolunga, uJoshua ulapha, ufuna ukuncelisa?”, Ingane yakho encane ikhiqiza noma yikuphi ukuziphatha kwakho. Kungani elangazelela ukukulingisa kanje? Le nqubo iqala ngokushesha lapho ekwazi ukuqondisa izenzo zakhe ngamabomu: yithi sawubona noma sawubona, isibonelo. Cishe izinyanga eziyi-18, isigaba somdlalo ongokomfanekiso siyaqala. Kule minyaka, ingane icabanga into eyodwa kuphela: aphinde ahlele akubonayo nalokho akuqophayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngamathoyizi, ukulingisa noma ukudlala indima ethile, konke kuyilapho ezijabulisa, kunjalo!
Amakhono omntwana njengomlingisi
Kudala ngaphambi kokuba baqale esikoleni, ingane yakho encane isebenza ubuchopho bayo. Uyababuka abahambe naye ngokunaka okukhulu, futhi ukufunda kwakhe kuyaqala. Ekuqaleni, ukopisha izenzo ezenziwa kuye, njengokugqoka, ukuphakela, ukuwasha. Bese elingisa indlela othatha ngayo imidlalo yakhe, uyithathe ngendlela efanayo, futhi ekugcineni, ukhiqiza izimo azibonayo nxazonke zakhe. Ngokwenza kanjalo, uyazibamba, aziqonde, futhi kancane kancane ahlanganise imiqondo. Ngakho-ke ingane yakho yenza ukuhlola ukuze ihlole ukuthi ikuzwisisile yini lokho ekubonile. Futhi kungukudlala lapho ezofanisa zonke lezi zimo amaphrojekthi aphathekayo awahambelayo.
Nina bazali niyisibonelo esihle, njengoba nje izingane zakubo zingenza. Amaqhawe opopayi ikakhulukazi wezinganekwane nawo ayizinkomba ezingathi sína nezinjini zokulingisa. Yile ndlela ingane yakho ezokhuthazwa ngayo futhi kancane kancane izazi ukuthi ingubani. Uzozama ukulingisa akubona kwenziwa ekhaya, epaki, ebhikawozi… Ngakho-ke unesibani esiluhlaza sokuletha imidlalo ethile ekamelweni lakhe, ezomsiza ukuba abeke esimweni angakubona.
Zilungiselele futhi ukubona i-lipstick yakho inyamalala ngokuzumayo… ukuze uyithole ebhokisini lamathoyizi lentombazane yakho encane, ukumamatheka okuvela endlebeni kuye endlebeni. Ngokufanayo, indoda yakho encane izoqala ukugingqa izimoto zayo zokudlala ephasishi lakho, ilingise amazwi kaBaba wayo (noma kaNoddy). Ngokuphambene, angakwazi nokuphekela ingubo yakhe yokulala, noma uku-ayina, njengonina. Ngaleso sikhathi, okubalulekile ukuzama, ziningi izinto ezintsha!
Ukubaluleka kokudlala indima ethile
Ingane yakho ingumdlali okwazi ukudlala zonke izindima zempilo ngaphandle komkhawulo wobulili noma izinga lomphakathi. Ukubuka kuvusa kuye isifiso sokudlala yonke into efika emkhakheni wakhe wombono futhi evusa isithakazelo sakhe. Ukulingisa kuzomvumela futhi baqonde ubudlelwano obungaba khona phakathi kwabantu, kanye nezindima ezihlukene zomphakathi: unkosikazi, amaphoyisa, umhlengikazi, njll. Ukuze umsize kule nqubo, ungangabazi ukuphindaphinda imidlalo yendima, ngaphandle kokugxeka ukukhetha kwakhe.
Ingubo yengane: i-outlet ephelele
Ekulingiseni, kukhona nemizwelo! Ingane yakho izozimbandakanya emidlalweni yayo ukuze izame ukwenza lokho okungenzeka ukuthi yakuzwa. Eqinisweni, uyakudingahlanganisa okuhle nokungavunyelwe, yini emjabulisayo noma cha futhi ngenxa yalokho, kufanele akukhumbule. Uma egone ingubo yakhe, yingoba ethanda uma umgona, imkhumbuza izikhathi ezimnandi. Uma ethethisa unodoli wakhe, kuwukuqonda ukuthi kungani umthethise ngayizolo, nokwazi ukuthi ikuphi lapho angakwazi ukukwenza noma angakwazi ukukwenza. Umdlalo ungaphezu kwakho konke owakhayo, ngoba kumvumela ukuthi afake ngaphakathi ukuvinjelwa, kungaba onodoli, i-Lego, imidlalo ye-dinette, kodwa futhi nemidlalo yokudlala indima. Ngempela, ama-mime kanye nokuzifihla kuyingxenye enkulu yokuzijabulisa kubo: isikhova, leli yithuba lokushintsha ubuntu babo!
Izindaba omtshela zona kanye namakhathuni azomkhuthaza kakhulu. Lungiselela ukuzwa intombazanyana yakho ifuna imiqhele, izinduku zomlingo nezingubo zenkosazana “ezifana Nobuhle Bokulala” kuwe. Abancane bathanda ukuchitha amahora benakekela unodoli wabo, ingubo yabo, besho imisho efana neyakho ngendlela exakile futhi bephinda amasiko abawathola nsuku zonke. Konke lokhu kuyingxenye yenqubo yokulingisa, umgomo ongelutho ngaphandle kokuzakha kancane kancane, ngokuzihlukanisa komunye.