Ukunqanyulwa kokukhulelwa ngokwezokwelapha ngokuvamile kuhlanganisa ukubeletha ngesitho sangasese sowesifazane.
Isiguli siqale sinikezwe imithi “yokumisa” ukukhulelwa. Ukubeletha bese kuqalwa ngomjovo wamahomoni, okubangela ukufinyela, ukuvuleka komlomo wesibeletho nokuxoshwa kombungu. Umama, ukuze abekezelele ubuhlungu, angase azuze ku-epidural.
Ngemuva kwamaviki angama-22 we-amenorrhea, udokotela kuqala "ubeka ubuthongo" ingane esibelethweni, ngokujova umkhiqizo ngentambo ye-umbilical.
Kungani kugwenywa ukuhlinzwa?
Abesifazane abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukuhlinzwa ngeke kube nzima ukubekezelela ngokwengqondo. Kodwa odokotela bayakugwema ukusebenzisa lokhu kungenelela.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kulimaza isibeletho futhi kubangele ingozi yokukhulelwa okuzayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhlinzwa akusizi ukuba lusizi. UFlorence uyafakaza: “Ekuqaleni, ngangifuna ukulaliswa ukuze ngingaboni lutho, ngingazi lutho. Ekugcineni, ngokubeletha ngesitho sangasese sowesifazane, ngaba nomuzwa wokuthi ngangiphelezela ingane yami kwaze kwaba sekupheleni ...«