I-Psychology

Ungakwazi ukuphupha? Cabanga ukuthi ukucabanga kuwumbhedo wengane? Umqeqeshi u-Olga Armasova akavumelani futhi uphakamisa ukuthuthukisa umcabango ukuze ubhekane nengcindezi.

Emsebenzini wami, ngivame ukusebenza ngemicabango yamakhasimende. Lesi yinsiza yokukhulisa isimo sengqondo kanye nethuba lokuphazamiseka. Ngiqaphele ukuthi amanye amaklayenti akuthola kunzima ukuzicabangela esendaweni ecatshangelwayo nezimo, avale ukucabanga okujulile futhi aphuphe.

Le mikhawulo ivela ebuntwaneni, lapho ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okubukwa kwavinjelwa abantu abadala "abalungile". Bethethisa ingane ngezindlovu ezinsomi namaxoxo andizayo, abazali bawehlisa izinga lezwe lemicabango.

Amaklayenti anjalo ngokuvamile enqaba ukusetshenziswa kwezindlela ezihlobene nokunikezela. Kodwa umcabango uyimpahla esinikezwe yona ngokwemvelo, futhi yini emangalisa amaklayenti lapho, ngokusebenza, beqaphela ukuthi bayakwazi kakhulu ukucabanga.

Ngisebenzisa ukubona ngamehlo engqondo ukubeka umuntu esimweni sokuzindla. Kuyasiza ukuxhumana nomuzwa wokuthula nokuvikeleka.

Udinga ukuqala kancane. Izithombe zengqondo zingavusa imizwa nemizwa yangempela. Cabanga ukuthi usika futhi uluma ulamula. Ngiqinisekile ukuthi abanye benu baze baququda, sengathi umlomo umuncu. Kusukela ekushiseni okucatshangelwayo ungakwazi ukufudumala, futhi kusukela emakhazeni acatshangelwayo ungaqhwa. Umsebenzi wethu uwukusebenzisa umcabango ngokuqaphela.

Ngisebenzisa ukubona ngamehlo engqondo ukubeka umuntu esimweni sokuzindla. Kuyasiza ukuxhumana nomuzwa wokuthula nokuvikeleka. Ngenxa yalokho, izimo zangaphandle, izinkinga nezinkathazo ziphela ngemuva, futhi umuntu angahlangana nengane yakhe yangaphakathi futhi anqobe isipiliyoni esibuhlungu. I-imagination isiza ukubona umphumela osuvele ufinyelelwe, okhuthazayo futhi ojabulisayo.

Ukujula kokucwiliswa kuhlukile. Umuntu akanalo ukugxilisa ingqondo, futhi umcabango wabo «awulaleli», ubuyela eqinisweni. Labo abenza lo msebenzi hhayi okokuqala bayakwazi ukucabanga imininingwane eyengeziwe, ukushintsha izindawo zabo. Bayancipha kancane kancane ukulawula ukuthuthukiswa kwezenzakalo, ngaleyo ndlela bazivumele ukuba baphumule.

Ukuqeqeshwa kokucabanga kunikeza imiphumela emihle. Ungaziqeqesha wedwa noma nozakwenu.

Amakhasimende ami athanda ngempela lapho ngiwacela ukuthi azicabange eselwandle eMaldives. Abesifazane ngokujabula nangokumomotheka bangena ezimeni ezihlongozwayo. Lo msebenzi ulungele imisebenzi yeqembu futhi usiza ekudambiseni umoya, uphumuze ababambiqhaza futhi ubakhombise ukuthi umcabango wabo uyasebenza.

Izithombe amakhasimende abelana ngazo ngemva kokuzivocavoca zimangaza ngobuhle bazo, ubuntu bazo, kanye nobuhlakani bazo bezixazululo! Futhi ukuvivinya ngeso lengqondo okusetshenziselwa ukusebenza ngokuqulekile kuvame ukuqeda ukuxazululwa kwezimo ezinzima zempilo, kunikeze izimpendulo zemibuzo ebibonakala ingaxazululeki.

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