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Umngani ocabangayo: kungani izingane ziza nomama ohlukile
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi izingane azihlali zibheka abangane abaqanjiwe njengezinto eziqanjiwe. Kunalokho kungabonakali.
Ngokuya ngocwaningo, izingane zivame ukuba nabangane abazicabangayo abaneminyaka ephakathi kwemithathu kuya kwemihlanu. "Ubungane" bungahlala isikhathi eside, kuze kufike eminyakeni eyi-10-12. Kaningi, abangane abangabonakali ngabantu. Kodwa ezimweni ezingaba ngamaphesenti angama-40, izingane zicabanga izipoki, izidalwa zasenganekwaneni, izilwane - izinja, ngasendleleni, kaningi kunamakati njengabangane. Lesi simo sibizwa nge-Carlson's syndrome.
Ochwepheshe bathi asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka ngabangane bokucabanga. Ingane ayizi njalo nazo ngoba inesizungu. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi akekho umuntu ongadlala naye, kwesinye isikhathi udinga ukutshela umuntu "imfihlo esabekayo kakhulu", futhi kwesinye isikhathi umngani ongabonakali uyinguqulo yakho uqobo noma nomndeni wonke. Akukho lutho olungahambi kahle ngalokhu, futhi ngeminyaka yobudala, ingane isazokhohlwa ngomngani ocabangayo.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, izinganekwane zinezinto ezihlanganisiwe: ukulalela ukuthi ingane yakho ihlala kuziphi izimo nomngane ocabangayo, uzoqonda ukuthi iyiphi inkinga akhathazeke ngayo njengamanje, empeleni. Mhlawumbe udinga ukuvikelwa, mhlawumbe unesithukuthezi kakhulu, noma mhlawumbe yisikhathi sokuba abe nesilwane. Futhi - yiziphi izimfanelo ingane ezithathela okuhle kakhulu futhi ezibaluleke kakhulu.
U-Blogger Jamie Kenny, esezwile ukuthi indodakazi yakhe inomngani ongabonakali kangako - uCreepy Polly, uyisigaxa, udla izicabucabu futhi uyayithanda i-Halloween - uthathe isinqumo sokuxoxisana nabanye abazali athole ukuthi ezinye izingane “zingabangane” nobani. Imiphumela yayihlekisa kakhulu.
Kusuka kudrako kuya kwesipoki
“Indodakazi yami ine-Unicorn endizayo iPixie. Zivame ukundiza ndawonye. UPixie unengane, ingane encane ye-unicorn egama linguCroissant. Usencane kakhulu, ngakho-ke akakwazi ukundiza okwamanje. "
“Indodakazi yami ibidlala nodrako omncane ocatshangelwayo. Nsuku zonke babeba nohlobo oluthile lokuzijabulisa, oluhlukile njalo. Bake basindisa inkosana nenkosazana ehlathini elijulile. Udrako wayenezikali ezibomvana nezinsomi, ezihlotshiswe ngamatshe ayigugu. Kwesinye isikhathi umngani wedrako wayehamba aye kuye.
“Abangani bendodakazi yami bayizinyoka! Kuningi, amakhulu abo. Bayakwazi ukushayela imoto. Kwesinye isikhathi indodakazi ihlela izifundo zemfundo lapho izinyoka zingaziphethe kahle. "
“Indodakazi yami yangitshela ukuthi inomngani esasingamboni, futhi lokho kwangicasula. Nginqume ukumbuza ukuthi ubukeka kanjani. Kwavela ukuthi ngushaka onsomi omhlophe onsomi, igama lakhe nguDidi, futhi ufika ngokuqabukela. "
“Indodakazi yami inomngani - ikati lesipoki elibizwa ngoTT. Indodakazi yami iyigoqa ekujikeni futhi ivame ukulahla ubuqili bayo kuyo. "
Idolobha lonke
“Indodakazi yami ayinaye umngane onjalo, kodwa inomndeni ophelele wokucabanga. Uhlala ethi unomunye ubaba ogama lakhe linguSpeedy, onezinwele zothingo, ihembe elibubende namabhulukwe awolintshi. Ubuye abe nodadewabo, uSok, nomfowabo, uJackson, kwesinye isikhathi kuvele omunye umama, igama lakhe nguRosie. "Ubaba" wakhe uSpeedy ungumzali ongenankinga. Uyamvumela adle uswidi usuku lonke futhi agibele ama-dinosaurs. "
“Umngani wendodakazi yami ongabonakali ubizwa ngokuthi uCoco. Uvele lapho indodakazi yakhe icishe ibe neminyaka emibili ubudala. Bafunda badlala ndawonye sonke isikhathi. UCoco wayengesiyona into eyisiphukuphuku, wayengumngane wangempela futhi wahlala nendodakazi yakhe cishe izinyanga eziyisithupha. Ukuze uqonde, uCoco uvele lapho ngiphuphunyelwa yisisu. Uma ngabe ukukhulelwa kungalethwa, bengizobiza indodakazi yami yesibili uCollette, futhi ekhaya besiyibiza ngokuthi uCoco. Kodwa indodakazi yami yayingazi nokuthi ngikhulelwe. "
“Indodakazi yami inedolobha lonke labangane bokucabanga. Kukhona nomyeni, igama lakhe uHank. Ngelinye ilanga wangidwebela: intshebe, izingilazi, amahembe asheke, uhlala ezintabeni futhi ushayela iveni emhlophe. Kukhona uNicole, ungumcwali wezinwele, omude, mncane ngomzimba ngezingubo ezibizayo futhi enamabele amakhulu. UDkt Anna, uthisha womdanso kaDaniel ofaka izinhlelo zemidanso nsuku zonke. Kukhona ezinye, kepha lezi zihlala unomphela. Bebehlala bonke lapha ekhaya kwazise indodakazi ibineminyaka emibili, sonke besazana futhi sikhuluma nabo sengathi bangabantu bangempela. Manje indodakazi yami isineminyaka engu-7,5, futhi abangane bayo abafiki njalo. Ngize ngibakhumbule. "
“Indodana yami ineminyaka engu-4 ubudala. Unomngane ocabangayo ogama lakhe linguDatos. Uhlala enyangeni. "
“Indodana yami inentombi engacabangi egama lingu-Apple. Asikwazi ukungena emotweni ngize ngiyibophele, asikwazi ukubeka isikhwama endaweni yaso. Uvele ngemuva kokushona komngani wethu kungalindelekile. Futhi u-Apple ubelokhu efa ezingozini, futhi. Ngicabanga ukuthi le yindlela indodana ezame ngayo ukubhekana nemizwa yayo ngemuva kokushona komngani. Futhi indodakazi inomama ocabangelayo oxoxa naye njalo. Uyichaza ngemininingwane emincane kakhulu, isitshela ngakho konke "umama" akuvumela ukuba akwenze: udle i-dessert eyengeziwe, ube nekati. "