Okuqukethwe
Ukulumula omunye umuntu kuma-contactogens kuwumsebenzi wokudala, akuwona umsebenzi olula. Ungase ucasulwe yizingxabano ekhelini lakho, kodwa uma uqala ukukhomba umuntu ezingqubuzaneni zakhe futhi umfundise ukuxhumana kwe-syntonic ngokumelene nentando yakhe, mhlawumbe wena ngokwakho uzoba ngumuntu ophikisana kakhulu.
Ukungqubuzana okubi kakhulu kuyinkomba kwabanye abantu bezinto zabo ezingqubuzanayo
Ukukhipha omunye umuntu kuma-contactogenics - lapha ungakwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwemisebenzi ehlukene: noma ukumkhipha nhlobo ukuze angaxhumani nanoma ubani onjalo, enye into ukuthi akakhulumi nawe siqu. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kungenye into ukulumula abantu esingabazi, okunye ukulumula esibathandayo, kuyilapho ukulumula izingane zethu kungokunye kunokulumula abazali bethu.
Indlela yokulumula abangani nezihlobo kuma-contagnogens
Indlela elula futhi enokwethenjelwa kakhulu yokulumula abangani nezihlobo kuma-contagnogens ukuphendukela kubo ukuze uthole usizo, ubacele ukuthi bakulandele, ngoba ufuna ukuqeda ama-contagnogens. Uma unobuhlobo obuhle, uma ibhizinisi lingenzima, limnandi futhi linenzuzo - bazoqala ukukwenza, futhi lokhu kuzoqinisekisa ngokuzenzakalelayo into eyinhloko - ukunaka kwabo kuzodonselwa kulesi sihloko. Ngokuzenzakalelayo, bazoqala ukuzibheka, futhi kancane kancane inkulumo yabo izohlanzeka futhi ihlanzeke.
Ungalumula kanjani abantu ongabazi kuma-contagnogens ekhelini lakho
Kunezikhathi lapho kuphumelela khona ukukhomba ama-contagnogens ekhelini lethu kumuntu. Cishe uzosizwa futhi lokhu cishe kuzoba nomphumela. Futhi kunezikhathi lapho ukukhomba kuye mayelana nokungqubuzana kwakhe ngeke kunikeze lutho ngaphandle kokungezwani kanye nezinkinga ebudlelwaneni. Ngakho:
Ngokushesha ngaleso sikhathi lapho umuntu evumela i-contactogen ekhelini lethu.
— Lesi yisikhathi esisebenzayo impela. Lapha ungakwazi ukuma, ume kancane. Bheka umuntu. Phinda ngokuzwakalayo lokho okushiwo, njengokungathi ulinganisa okushiwo, ulalele okushiwo: "Kubonakala kimi sengathi lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ... (ngokukhahla)" - Futhi ungaphawula ngobumnene: "Ngicabanga ukuthi ukwakheka okunjalo akufanelekile. ifomu lokuxhumana kwethu nawe «. Kodwa ukucindezela, ukufuna isivumelwano nokuxolisa lapha kungase kungasebenzi: ungabhekana nokuphikiswa, izincazelo, ukuphikisa, nokunye, okufiphaza umzuzu osebenzayo. Kungcono ukumamatheka, ubheke futhi ngokucophelela bese uqhubeka nengxoxo.
Emizuzwini embalwa ngemva kokufika kwama-confanaogens, lapho uhlangabezana nawo futhi waqaphela ukuthi kwakubuhlungu futhi kuhlambalaza.
- Isikhathi esingesihle neze, esingasebenzi kahle. Usuvele unqenqemeni, futhi uzakwethu usevele usishiyile isimo.
Emahoreni ambalwa noma ngolunye usuku, uma kungenzeka.
- Isikhathi esihle sengxoxo, kodwa udinga ukusichitha ngomoya ophansi futhi ngaphandle kokucasula.
Izifiso ngekusasa:
Ngokuzayo lapho umuntu eza kuwe nesicelo noma isiphakamiso esithakazelisayo (iphrojekthi) yakhe, futhi ufuna ukuxoxisana nawe.
- Isikhathi esiphelele! Uyakujabulela ukuxoxa ngesiphakamiso sakhe, kodwa khumbuza ukuthi bekunezikhathi ezineshwa ezingxoxweni okokugcina, futhi ucele iziqinisekiso zokuthi kulokhu ukuxhumana kuzobe kulungile.
Umhumushi we-Intergalactic
Kunezilimi ezihlukahlukene zamazwe ngamazwe emhlabeni wethu. Ngaphezu kokwehluka kwezilimi, kunemikhuba nezitayela ezahlukene zokuxhumana. Abantu bangakhuluma: ngokuthula nangokuzithiba, ngokucasuka nangokujabula, ngokuphoqeleka nangokuzethemba. Omunye ukhuluma ngokuthula, futhi omunye phezulu, kungazelelwe nangezwi lokucula. Izindlela zokukhulumisana zinenhlonipho, ziyaxosha, ziyadlala, zibucayi, zinenzondo futhi zinomusa. Amagama asetshenziswa abantu ekuxhumaneni nawo angahluka.
Isibonelo: ingane iphotha esidlweni sakusihlwa futhi ikhulumela phezulu. Ngithini kuyena ngimehlise umoya?
— Ngicela ungakhulumi etafuleni;
— Yeka ukukhuluma ngokushesha
— Thulani manje;
Noma ubani osho izwi ngeke abe nomzuzwana. Noma ubani ophimisela igama ngokuzwakalayo ngeke athole i-compote;
— Vala umlomo wakho masinyane;
- Yeka ukukhuluma;
Noma okubi nakakhulu, "Thula."
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