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Akuthina sonke esathola ukukhuliswa kwakudala, kodwa ngisho noma siziphatha ngendlela eyisibonelo, kufanele sikhulume nabantu abavamile, abavamile. Futhi abantu abavamile, ngisho nalapho bengaziphathi ngokungqubuzana, okungenani ekukhulumisaneni ngokuvamile bavumela ukungqubuzana. Gu.e.st, amazwi abukhali, ukunganaki okuhlaselayo, imishwana enesikhundla esiphakeme — konke lokhu akujabulisi futhi awufuni ukuphuthelwa yikho. Futhi kanjani ukusabela kukho?
Kuyacaca ukuthi into eyinhloko ukusabela ngaphakathi ngokuzola, khona-ke kuyoba lula ukukhetha uhlobo olwanele lwangaphandle lokusabela. Ukuthula kwangaphakathi kuyinto ebizayo, kodwa ingokoqobo. Okokuqala nje, umhumushi wangaphakathi uyasiza lapha — ikhono lokuzwa umuntu oseduze kwethu ngendlela eyakhayo noma eqondayo. Kude nokuthi ama-contagnogens andiza njalo esiqondisweni sethu ngamabomu, kwesinye isikhathi umuntu umane nje usemizwelweni noma akalandeli ukuthi uthini futhi kanjani. Kodwa uma engazange akhuliswe ngokwanele ukuba akhulume ngendlela efanele, singase sibe nokuhlakanipha kokuhumusha amazwi akhe njengoba angase azwakale ngendlela eyamukelekayo. Ngakho-ke, bamba kahle inqubo yokuhumusha kwangaphakathi, futhi kunoma iyiphi ingxoxo uzozizwa uqiniseka kakhulu.
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Kukhona neze imithetho efanelana nawo wonke umuntu: yini ephelele komunye ayifanele enye. Nokho, bheka, mhlawumbe kukhona okuzokuthakasela.
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Umbuzo. Ngicela, ungitshele, udade omncane (umehluko uneminyaka engu-9) uvame ukuzivumela ukuba enze ubuso obunesizungu engxoxweni futhi awise ngokunganaki: Anginasithakazelo. Lokhu uma isihloko sengxoxo singaphakanyiswanga nguye. Kimina kubonakala sengathi lesi yisikhundla esiphezulu. Lokhu akungijabulisi kakhulu, ngoba izihloko azikhethi, azinandaba. Ngicela ungitshele ukuthi ngingakhuluma kanjani nodadewethu ukuze angazivumeli isikhundla esinjalo. Into kuphela efikayo emqondweni wakho wukuba uqhelelane futhi ungayiqalisi ingxoxo kuqala. Ngizoyibonga impendulo.
Imphendvulo. Kunezinketho eziningi: ezihlekisayo, ezifudumele, ezibucayi, neziqinile. Kuhlala kungcono kakhulu ukuqala ngemfudumalo, kodwa uma lokho kungasizi, kungase kudingeke ukuthi ukusetha okulindele kube nzima, futhi. Okunye okuhlukile okumaphakathi kungazwakala kanje:
“Lena, nginesicelo kuwe … saxoxa nawe, ngaqala ukukhuluma ngokutshala ezweni, futhi walungisa ubuso obunesizungu wathi awunasithakazelo. Kujwayelekile ukuthi ube nentshisekelo esihlokweni, kodwa indlela osho ngayo, isitayela sokuphawula kwakho — angiyithandanga. Uma unganganga futhi ungicele ngokufudumele ukuthi ngikhulume ngokuthile okuthakaselekayo kuwe, yonke into izohluka ... Musa ukwenza ubuso obunjalo. Lena, ubungaqondile ukungicasula, akunjalo?"