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Inkulisa, isikole. Ngabe la magama afana ngani? Kunjalo, iwashi le-alamu. Futhi nezinyembezi, intukuthelo nokukhala ngokuthi ngingakwazi yini nje kancane. Uma imizwa yakho iphela, khona-ke le mithetho emihlanu yokuphakamisa kalula ingeyakho.
Ngobusuku obubodwa, iwashi lomzimba lomzimba, elijwayele ukukhululeka ehlobo, alikwazi ukwakhiwa kabusha, futhi abazali kuzodingeka babekezele ukuze bajwayele ingane yabo esimisweni esisha.
I-PhD ku-Psychology, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esisebenza
“Cabanga nje ukuthi ingane icindezeleke kanjani: abafundi bebanga lokuqala kudingeka balukhulume uhlelo olusha ngokuphelele lokufunda nobudlelwano esikoleni, abafundi abadala banomsebenzi omningi. Ukukhathala kuyanqwabelana, kungena ukukhathala okungokomzwelo - konke kufana nabantu abadala. Izingane kuphela ezingasongelwa ngokuxoshwa, kodwa ngamamaki aphansi nokulahlekelwa yintshisekelo yokufunda. Noma nezinkinga zempilo.
Izingane eziningi zivuma obala ukuthi ziyasizonda isikole. Futhi iningi - impela ngenxa yokuvuka kokuqala. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi abantu abadala bakwazi ukwakha inqubo efanele yosuku lwengane futhi bayilandele. "
Umthetho # 1. Abazali bayisibonelo esihle.
Kungakhathalekile ukuthi kuzwakala kukubi kangakanani, udinga ukuqala ngomama nobaba. Kuze kube yiminyaka eyi-8, ingane ikopisha ngokuphelele isimilo esitholwe emndenini. Ukulindela isiyalo enganeni yakho - mkhombise isibonelo. Hlela ekuseni kwakho ukuze imibuthano yesikole yezingane nokusebenza kwabantu abadala ihambe ngaphandle kwamawala, kodwa ngayo yonke inqubo edingekayo.
Umthetho wenombolo 2. Kusasa kuqala kusihlwa
Fundisa ingane yakho ukuhlela isikhathi sayo kusengaphambili. Khuluma naye ngamathemba osuku olulandelayo, mbuze imibono yakhe ngezingubo nezinto ezidingekayo (mhlawumbe kusasa kuzoba netiye esikoleni futhi udinga ukuletha amakhukhi, noma kuzobakhona umatine omncane enkulisa, izingane ziza namathoyizi azo azithandayo asekhaya). Lungisa izingubo zengane zosuku olulandelayo bese uzibeka endaweni evelele, futhi uma ingane ingumfundi wesikole, kufanele izenzele yona. Akunjalo? Mkhumbuze. Qiniseka ukuthi uqoqa iphothifoliyo kusihlwa. Qiniseka ukuthi uma uguqulela lesi senzo ekuseni, ingane eleleyo izoshiya uhhafu wezincwadi nezincwadi zokubhalela ekhaya.
Umthetho # 3. Dala isiko
Ngendlela ethile, usuku nosuku, udinga ukuphinda izenzo ezifanayo: uvuke, ugeze, wenze izivivinyo, udle ibhulakufesi, njll. Lokhu kumayelana nokuthi kuhamba kanjani ekuseni komfundi wesikole. Futhi abazali kufanele balawule ukuthi ngabe ingane iphumelele kukho konke. Vele, bambalwa abantu abathanda “ubushiqela” obunjalo, kepha ayikho enye indlela. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngokuzayo, umfundi, bese kuba ngumuntu omdala, ngeke abe nezinkinga zokuziqeqesha nokuzihlela.
Umthetho # 4: Guqula isiko libe ngumdlalo
Ndawonye nendodana noma indodakazi yakho, qhamani neqhawe lakho elizosiza ekwakheni isiyalo ngendlela yokudlala. Ithoyizi elithambile, unodoli, labafana - irobhothi, isibonelo, noma umfanekiso wesilwane ozokwenza. Konke kuncike eminyakeni yobudala nasekuthandweni kwengane. Nikeza iqhawe igama elisha - isibonelo, uMnu Budister. Ungakwazi ukushaya ukukhethwa kwegama ithoyizi bese uhleka izinketho ezihlekisayo ndawonye. Ukuthi umlingiswa omusha uzosiza kanjani ingane ukuthi ivuke kuncike emcabangweni wabazali: bonisa indawo encane, bhala amanothi ngomyalezo (njalo ekuseni - okusha, kodwa njalo egameni laleli qhawe: “UMnu. uphuphe namhlanje ”).
Ngendlela, lolu hlobo lokuzilibazisa luyisikhathi esihle sabazali nezingane. “Imisebenzi” ehlangene ifundisa ingane ukwethemba umuntu omdala: ingane ijwayela ukubonisana, ukukhombisa ukuzimela, nokuxoxisana.
Konje
Esikhathini esingengakanani esidlule, ososayensi baseSwitzerland bathola ukuthi "izikhova" kanye "nama-lark" ahlukile komunye nomunye ngejubane lewashi lezinto eziphilayo elise-hypothalamus. Ijubane laleli washi, njengoba kwavela, lifakwa ezingeni lezakhi zofuzo. Imiphumela yocwaningo lwesayensi ikhombisa ukuthi cishe wonke amaseli omzimba anewashi lawo lezinto eziphilayo, ukusebenza okuvumelanayo okunikezwa yi-hypothalamus. Ngakho-ke uma uhlanjalazwa ngokulala isikhathi eside kakhulu, ungaphendula ngokuphepha: “Uxolo, ngiwusikhova”, futhi lokhu kunqunywa kusengaphambili ngofuzo lwami! ”
Umthetho # 5. Engeza izikhathi ezimnandi
Ngabe ingane yakho kade yakucela ukuthi uthenge iwashi isikhathi eside? Isikhathi umcimbi uqondane ekuqaleni kwekilasi. Khetha imodeli enemisebenzi ehlukile futhi njalo iwashi le-alamu. Ingane izovuka yodwa. Dlala umculo wakhe owuthandayo ngasikhathi sinye. Vele kufanele kuzwakale kuthule, kube mnandi endlebeni. Bhaka ama-muffin noma amabhanisi ngebhulakufesi, iphunga le-vanilla nezimpahla ezibhakiwe ezintsha kunomphumela omuhle kumzwelo, ingane izofuna ukunambitha izinto ezimnandi ngokushesha. Kodwa okokuqala, konke kwahamba ngokohlelo.
Zonke lezi zeluleko zilula, ubunzima bukhona kuphela ekusebenzeni kwabo njalo. Futhi lokhu kuncike kuphela ekubekezeleni nasekuzihleleni kwabantu abadala ngokwabo. Kepha uma wenza konke, kuzodlula isikhathi esincane, iwashi lezinto eziphilayo lizoqala ukuzivumelanisa nohlelo olusha, futhi ingane izofunda ukuvuka yodwa ekuseni futhi ilungele amakilasi.