Okuqukethwe
Uke wayibona intombazane ekhangayo, kodwa ingabe uyesaba ukuthi izokwenqaba ukuhlangana nawe? Ukubambiswa udonga. Uma ulandela imithetho ethile, khona-ke ukujwayelana nanoma yibuphi ubuhle bamahhala kuzobhujiswa ngempumelelo. Indlela yokuhlangana namantombazane ngendlela efanele - satshelwa umqeqeshi wokuyenga ochwepheshe, umbhali we-Pickup Encyclopedia U-Andrey Oleinik.
Ithiphu 1. Khumbula: babingelelwa izingubo
Into yokuqala ebonwa intombazane, yiqiniso, ukubukeka kwakho. Akumele ube ngu-Apollo. Kodwa qiniseka ukuthi uzilungise kahle futhi ucocekile.
Ithiphu 2. Khetha indawo enhle ongahlangana kuyo
Indawo yomhlangano wokuqala iyingxenye ebalulekile yombono ngawe. Ngakho-ke, akufanele usondele emantombazaneni eminyango noma emaphaseji angcolile angaphansi komhlaba. Amathuba okuthi sazane ngempumelelo aphakeme kakhulu emigwaqweni emihle, eduze kwamafasitela ezitolo ezinhle, kumakhefi athokomele nasemapaki aluhlaza.
Icebiso 3. Dweba intombazane engxoxweni ngombuzo
Kungcono uqale ngombuzo. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuthi udonse intombazane ngokushesha enkulumweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sonke sijwayele ukubuza imibuzo yabantu esingabazi futhi asesabi lapho sizwa. Isibonelo, wonke umuntu uvame ukubuzwa ukuthi ufika kanjani endaweni ethile, lapho ungathola khona isikhungo esifanele, njll. Kodwa noma kunjalo kungcono ukuthi umbuzo wawungowokuqala. Khumbula ama-classics kanye nombuzo othi "Iphi i-nofelet?" *. Yini eyayinhle ngaye: wakhanga, amantombazane aba nesithakazelo, kuyilapho efuna ngobuqotho ukusiza! Ungaphinda ubuze umbuzo nganoma yiluphi ulimi lwangaphandle. Isibonelo, buza umbuzo ngesiNtaliyane. Lapho intombazane imangele, mtshele ukuthi wayebonakala engumNtaliyane kuwe ngenxa yezinwele zakhe ezimnyama zikanokusho.
KUBALULEKILE!
Kunoma yikuphi, ungabuzi intombazane umbuzo: "Ngingahlangana nawe?" Ususa umthwalo wokuqomisana nomuntu wesilisa awubeke kowesifazane. Futhi akekho noyedwa ummeleli wobulili obubuthakathaka okudingayo lokhu. Lapho amantombazane ebhala ukuthi yiziphi izimfanelo afuna ukuzibona emadodeni, ahlala (!) Abeka umthwalo wemfanelo ezindaweni zokuqala.
"Iphi i-nofelet?" - Amahlaya aseSoviet. Abalingiswa abaqavile babuze lo mbuzo emantombazaneni ukuze bazane. Igama elithi “Nophelet” liguqulelwe emuva elisho “ifoni”.
Ithiphu 4. Into esemqoka ukuzethemba
Uma ungazethembi ngokwakho, akukho neyodwa kulawa macebiso angenhla azosebenza. Lokhu ubuncane okufanele wonke umuntu obala ukwazana naye ngempumelelo abe nakho. Kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi udinga lokhu kwazi, ukuthi uyayithanda le ntombazane ethile. Futhi lokhu ukuzethemba kufanele kukhonjiswe kuwo wonke amagama ngisho nangezenzo - awukwazi ukuvala izandla zakho, ukufihla amehlo akho, ukudonsa ikhala lakho ... Futhi, awukwazi nhlobo ukububula, unamahloni okubuza imibuzo, ungabaza.
By the way, uma intombazane ivume umuntu amaziyo, udinga ukumenza usuku lokuqala ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Njengoba isisho sithi, shaya insimbi ishisa! Ngoba njengamanje, umuntu omaziyo omusha uzwa uzwela noma isithakazelo kuwe, futhi kamuva angase aqale ukungabaza.
Sifisela nina nonke enibajwayele emnandi!