Kuhle kakhulu uma imizwa ihambisana futhi umbhangqwana wakho unoSuku Lwezithandani nsuku zonke futhi ufuna ukuqabulana cishe usuku lonke. Hhayi-ke, uma uzovulela othile inhliziyo yakho, uFebhuwari 14 usanda kwenzelwa lokhu.
Kuyini ukuqabula
Ukuqabula okumnene
Ezothando nezivusa inkanuko. Indlela yokuqabula? Izindebe zikhululekile futhi zinde kancane. Thinta udebe olungenhla noma oluphansi lomlingani wakho bese ucindezela kancane ngezindebe zakho imizuzwana embalwa. Ncamela emuva, vula amehlo akho bese uyamamatheka. Uzakwethu ujabule? Kuhle, qabula futhi, kodwa ngokugcizelela kakhulu. Okunye ukuqabula odebeni olungezansi, phezulu ... Ukumunca, ukuluma kufanelekile. Shintsha ukutsheka kwekhanda lakho, uphulule izinwele zakho noma isihlathi, ugone intamo yakho.
IsiFulentshi (noma ukuqabula kothando)
Kujulile futhi kunothando kakhulu, okungabandakanyi izindebe kuphela, kodwa nolimi. Zicabange usogwadule olushisayo futhi womile. Futhi ngokuzumayo - i-oasis. Khathesi donsa umoya uqabule isithandwa sakho kube sengathi uncike emthonjeni ophilisayo. Ungacindezela umlingani wakho eduze kancane ngokubeka intende yesandla sakho ngemuva kwekhanda lakhe. Kodwa ungaweqisi: akuwona wonke umuntu othanda ukuqabula "okumanzi", okujule kakhulu noma okude kakhulu. Ubumnene bungaphezu kwakho konke. Aqede ukuqabula kancane kancane. Babukane emehlweni, amamatheke. Isho into emnandi.
kaPlato
Lokhu ukuqabula kobudlelwano obuvele bukhona. Akuyona inkanuko njengokumnene, futhi ayijulile njengesiFulentshi. Kufana nokuqabula emoyeni futhi kuphetha “nge-smack” ehlukile. Ukuthinta izindebe kungaba kokubili okuminyene futhi okungokomfanekiso.
Ungahlukanisa kanjani?
Ukuzijwayeza okuncane futhi wena ngokwakho uzoqonda ukuthi yini evula wena nomlingani wakho. Into esemqoka - zama ukuphumula futhi "vala ikhanda lakho" ngesikhathi sokumanga. Okusho ukuthi, udinga ukuyeka ukuhlaziya okwenzekayo noma ucabange ngezakho (lokhu ngokuvamile akumukeleki uma umlingani wakho ethandeka kuwe). Vele uvumele imizwa yakho. Wena ngokwakho uzomangala ngomcabango wakho kanye nobuhlakani bakho. Futhi futhi - bukela ama-melodrama othando. Yilapho inqolobane yemibono yokuqabulana.
Kiss ngaphandle kwemvula
Ama-movie aqabulayo agqama kakhulu - kanjalo nje, uyaqaphela? “Ibhulakufesi kwa-Tiffany” efanayo no-Audrey Hepburn noma “I-Notebook” no-Rachel McAdams. Ungazikhawulela ekukhotheni okuthambile kwamaconsi amanzi ezindebeni nasezilevuni zomlingani. Futhi ungaqhubeka nokuqabula ngokuqiniseka.
Kiss ezindaweni ezingalindelekile
Khumbula ukuqabula kuka-Rhett kokuvalelisa no-Scarlett ku-Gone with the Wind ebhulohweni elicekelwe phansi yimpi? Nokuqabula okudumile ngemuva kwe-Titanic? Vooooot. Ngendlela, kukholelwa ukuthi uthando luyaphela uma, ushiywe wedwa komunye nomunye ku-elevator, ungaqali ukugona nokuqabula.
kiss omnandi
Ifanele isidlo sakusihlwa sothando. Gcoba i-champagne (iwayini, utshwala, i-cappuccino ... - noma yisiphi isiphuzo esimnandi nephunga elimnandi) ukuze kusele kancane ezindebeni zakho, futhi uqabule umlingani wakho. Ungawakhumbuli kanjani "amasonto ayisishiyagalolunye nesigamu"?
Isinyathelo esakhonjiswa yintombazane
Kodwa ikakhulukazi - isinyathelo sithatha isikhathi eside. Tshekisa ikhanda lakho kancane ohlangothini olulodwa, ubheke ngendlela ekhangayo othandiweyo wakho, bese uvala amehlo akho bese uqala ukusondela ezindebeni zakhe kancane ngangokunokwenzeka. Njengo-Marilyn Monroe ku-"Only Girls in Jazz" - isigcawu esihle sokuyenga ku-yacht.
Kiss intamo, indlebe, amehlo avaliwe, intende yesandla
Nokunye okuningi njengokuqabula emgodini we-jugular (i-dimple phakathi kwama-collarbones). Lokhu kuchazwe kahle kakhulu efilimini ethi "The English Patient".
Ungathuli
Hleba amazwi amnene, izincomo, azwakala evusa inkanuko ikakhulukazi ekukhipheni umoya nasendlebeni yakho. Ngisho nokungezwakali bubula, gquma, khala izokwengeza ukugqama kanye nenkanuko ekwangeni.
Imibuzo nezimpendulo ezidumile
Inzuzo yomzwelo – lokhu okusobala kakhulu: bonisa uthando, yehlisa umoya, khululeka ekugoneni okuthandayo ... Ukuqabula kubangela ukusabela kwamakhemikhali ezinto eziphilayo okwehlisa izinga le-cortisol (i-hormone yokucindezeleka) futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kwandise ukukhiqizwa kwe-oxytocin. Ngakho uma udangele, ukhathele, noma wethukile, qabula ngokushesha.
Naka amandla okuqabula kwasekuseni okunothando. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu emadodeni. Ngemva kokuthola icala elifanele elingokomzwelo lokukhuthazwa ekhaya, balungele ukuhambisa izintaba emsebenzini, bathole impumelelo enkulu futhi bathole okwengeziwe.
Uchungechunge oluhle lokuqabula yehlisa umfutho wegazi futhi iqede ubuhlungu bekhanda. Inhliziyo ifinyela kaningi (ukushaya okungu-110 ngomzuzu), imithambo yegazi iyavuleka, ukugeleza kwegazi nokunikezwa kwegazi kuzo zonke izitho nezinhlelo kuyathuthuka.
Ukuqabula kuhle ukuvimbela i-caries. Amathe amaningi akhululwa, usawoti, amaminerali kanye nemithi elwa namagciwane engokwemvelo equkethwe kuyo ijwayele i-asidi emgodini womlomo futhi iqinise koqweqwe lwawo lwamazinyo.
Futhi, lena indlela yokuya ukwandiswa kwentsha. Ukuqabula okunamandla kusebenza imisipha eminingi yobuso, ngenxa yalokho, intamo nesilevu kuyaqiniswa futhi amakholori angu-8 kuya kwangu-16 ashiswa.
Ukutheleleka okunamandla kokuphefumula kanye negciwane, umkhuhlane, i-tonsillitis nakho kungasakazwa ngokuqabula okungenacala ekhaleni. Uma abaqabulayo benezilonda noma ama-microcracks emlonyeni wabo, kunengozi yokubamba i-hepatitis kanye ne-syphilis.
Cha, cha, ungajahi ukuba yi-paranoid. Izingozi ezibaliwe ziyizaba zokuqapha impilo yakho futhi ungajahi echibini ngaphandle kokumazi kahle umuntu omthandayo.
Kiss impilo futhi ujabule!