Okuqukethwe
Lezi zibonelo ziyizisusa ezinhle kakhulu!
Unyaka Omusha yisikhathi soshintsho nokugcwaliseka kwezifiso! Kunini, uma kungenjalo manje, kufanele uzibekele imigomo yokuguqula ukuphila kwakho kube ngcono? Ingabe uyesaba ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala somuntu omusha? Khona-ke udinga "Qalisa kabusha"! Thola ugqozi ngezibonelo zamaqhawekazi ombukiso abeze kuphrojekthi ukuze ajabule. Futhi bakwenza. Manje wena.
Ingxenye endala bese uqala entsha
U-Lisa waphupha ngothando olumsulwa - olulodwa nokuphila. Lapho ehlangana naye futhi wabeletha ingane, wazama ngawo wonke amandla akhe ukugcina le nkohliso yenjabulo, kodwa insizwa yakhe ayizange ibe yinkosana enhle, futhi izenzo zayo zazikude ne-chivalrous. U-Lisa wanquma: kukhona okumele kushintshwe! Futhi kuyisimo sengqondo esiqondene nawe uqobo. Uma kukhona ubudlelwano empilweni yakho obukuthwalisa kanzima, akufanele uhlupheke kubo. Unyaka Omusha yisikhathi esihle sokuhlukana nomdala futhi uqale omusha. Kuthiwani uma uthando lwakho olukhulu lukulindele ngo-2020?
Ukufakwa - ukufaneleka!
U-Katya wahlala eyintombazane yokugcina engashadile phakathi kwabo bonke abangani bakhe. Futhi uyaqiniseka ukuthi iphuzu likuphelela. “Ngize ngibuze abafana mina ngokwami, kodwa abahambi.” Kodwa ingabe isisindo esiningi siyinkinga ngempela? Uma ungafuni ukuzimba futhi uthole imbangela yezinkinga nabafana, ungaqala ngokulula. Isibonelo, thembisa ukuya ejimini kusukela ngoJanuwari 1st. Kulungile, ungakwenza ngo-10! Kunoma yikuphi, ukuphila kuzoshintsha nakanjani kube ngcono!
Landela izifiso zakho
Ingabe usuyintombazane endala, kodwa usancike embonweni kamama wakho? Intombazane enhle uLena ibilokhu iphila ngemiyalo. Wathola imfundo unina ayeyifunela yena, wakwazi kahle upiyano, okuyinto unina wakhetha, wafunda ukukhuthazela futhi kuhlehlise izifiso zakhe ngenxa kanina othandekayo. Ngisho nangemva kokushada nokuba ngumama ngokwakhe, uyaqhubeka ethobela yonke imiyalo yabazali bakhe. Kodwa kuthiwani ngombono wakho kanye nokufezeka kwezifiso zakho? Sizofunda lokhu ngonyaka ozayo!
Qala ibhizinisi lakho futhi ... uze empumelelweni!
U-Anna useshade no-Yura iminyaka eyi-10. Ungumculi. Ungumama, unkosikazi kanye … nomgcini wasendlini. U-Anya ukhathele ukuba yisithunzi somyeni wakhe futhi ukholelwa ukuthi unamahloni ngaye. Akammemi emicimbini yokuzijabulisa futhi akakaze aphume naye. Mhlawumbe lokhu ukwenza ngamabomu ukuze umkakhe ahlale eyinceku yakhe? Akufanele ulahlekelwe ukuphila kwansuku zonke nokukhulisa izingane, ngoba amadoda ahlale ebabaza impumelelo yowesifazane othandekayo wabo. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokuqala ibhizinisi lakho? Isibonelo, isiqalo osucabange ngaso isikhathi eside.
Ungalokothi ulahle ithemba, ngoba konke kungashintshwa
Ukuphila kwethu kuyinto engalindelekile. Kuze kube yiminyaka engu-35, konke kwakuhamba kahle noNatalia, kodwa imoto eyayindiza eduze nendawo ehamba ngezinyawo ngesivinini esikhulu yaphendulela impilo kaNatasha. Ukulimala okungathi sína akuholelanga nje empilweni ebuthaka kanye nezinguquko eziqinile zangaphandle, kodwa futhi nokucindezeleka okubi, lapho ukuya esitolo kuphela ukuze uthole ukudla kungamenza aphume endlini. Intombazane yayinamahloni okuya emsebenzini noma ukuvela kubangane bakudala. Ngisho noma kwenzeka okuthile ekuphileni okwashintsha unomphela inkambo yayo evamile, kuyohlale kukhona labo abakulungele ukusiza. Umuntu kufanele abukeke kahle kuphela futhi angazivali kulo mhlaba!
Zivumele ubuthakathaka obuncane besifazane
UDasha Korpusyeva unomlingisi wangempela wesilisa. Usebenza ngokwenkontileka, ujwayele ukuqondiswa ingqondo esikhundleni senhliziyo futhi akawethembi amadoda. Le ntombazane yayivele ishade nensizwa okuvele ukuthi iyindodana kamama. Umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu kaDaria ukuthi owesifazane onamandla angaba buthakathaka kanjani. Ukuba ngowesifazane oqinile futhi ozimele, kuhle, kodwa noma kunjalo akufanele ubulale inkosazana nentombazane efuna ukuphathwa ngokwakho. Ngonyaka Omusha, sikweluleka ukuthi wehlise ijubane kancane futhi uvumele ubuthakathaka obuningi besifazane. Ngakho-ke ihhashi neqhugwane elivuthayo liyakhanselwa ngo-2020!
Shintsha ikhabethe lakho nesitayela!
Uma ufuna ushintsho, qala ngezingubo zakho. Kuthiwani uma ukuguqulwa okuphelele kwesitayela kukusiza ukuthi ushintshe impilo yakho? Udokotela wezingane uNadezhda wathuthela eMoscow edolobhaneni elincane, ngenkathi ezama ukuthola umsebenzi emtholampilo enhloko-dolobha, lona wesifazane wabhekana neqiniso lokuthi ngaphandle akazange ahlangabezane nezindinganiso zedolobha. “Ngiyidolobhana, futhi akekho onendaba nekhono lami lomsebenzi,” kusho uNadya ngaye. Nokho, ukungabi khona kwemvume yokuhlala eMoscow akusona isizathu sokwenqaba umsebenzi omuhle oneholo elihle. Qiniseka ngalokhu mathupha!
Zithokozise kakhudlwana
UChristina uyi-oncologist futhi, ngokusho kwakhe, ushadelwe ukusebenza. Akafuni ukuqala ubuhlobo nodokotela abahlinzayo abashadile abashadile, kuyilapho yena engekho ndawo ngaphandle komsebenzi. Intombazane inesiqiniseko sokuthi kuzomele ibelethe ingane kumnikeli. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha izinto eziza kuqala? Umsebenzi muhle, kodwa kusihlwa awukwazi ukubuka ifilimu naye ngaphansi kwengubo ethokomele futhi awukwazi ukwakha umndeni. Ungazikhawuli emzileni oya ekhaya emsebenzini. Thola isikhathi sabangane ezithakazelisayo, ukuxhumana nezinsuku.
Uma uzibone okungenani ukusinye salezi zimo, sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha igxathu elibheke enjabulweni yakho! Phela, la mantombazane asevele ashintsha ukuphila kwawo ngenxa yombukiso othi "Qalisa kabusha", lapho isiqephu ngasinye siqukethe ama-hacks empilo awusizo mayelana nendlela yokubukeka isitayela ngaphandle kokusebenzisa izimali ezinkulu. Kodwa into eyinhloko iseluleko esikusiza ukuba ube ngcono, uphumelele, uqiniseke futhi ujabule. Awukwazi ukushintsha ukubuka umuntu? Woza futhi ube yisibonelo sokulandela!