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Amaholide nabangani abanezingane: qaphela lapho izinto ziphuma esandleni!
Yebo, iholide lasehlobo liyasondela. Kulo nyaka, sinqume ukuhamba nabangani kanye nezingane zabo. Ngemva kokubhuka indawo ekahle yokuvakasha, siqala ukubheka imininingwane eyengeziwe, njengesigqi sezinsuku nezingane ezincane kanye nokudla. Kuthiwani uma amaholide ehlangene eba yiphupho elibi ngempela? Kwenzekani lapho ukungqubuzana kungenakugwema? Sithatha isitoko ngoSidonie Mangin kanye nomhlahlandlela wakhe wokusinda ngamaholide nabangane.
Lapho izingane zisencane
Ekuqaleni, uSidonie Mangin uyachaza encwadini yakhe, ehlekisayo futhi ekugcineni enengqondo kakhulu, ukuthi sonke sinezizathu ezinhle zokuhamba nemibhangqwana eminingana nezingane: abangane bethu bahle, sizokwabelana ngezindleko, futhi njengoba sisho okwengeziwe. singabamnandi lapho sihleka kakhulu… Kungase kube nezizathu ezimnyama, njengokubalekela ubudlelwano bobuso nobuso phakathi kwabashadikazi bebodwa nezingane zabo ezisacathula, ukugwema ukuya eholidini nabasemzini, njll. Nokho, ukuhamba nezingane, ikakhulukazi uma emancane, angashintsha ngokushesha abe ukungakhululeki okuvamile lapho izinto zingahambi kahle. Ingozi enkulu ukugula, okuqala lapho uhamba noma ngokushesha nje lapho ufika. “Izifo zezingane zihlala izinsuku eziyi-15 ngqo, ngamaholidi. Badinga ukunakwa okukhethekile kakhulu: ukuvinjelwa, isibonelo, ukuzichaya elangeni noma ukugeza. Kuhle uma useholidini! », Icacisa uSidonie Mangin. Okunye ukungezwani okusongela iqembu: izifiso zamakhanda ethu amancane ahlotshisiwe. Kuye ngemfundo yomunye nomunye, banelungelo noma bangagingqiki phansi uma becasukile. Okungase, vele, kucasule abanye ngokushesha. Indlela yokuphila iyiphuzu eliyinhloko lokungavumelani phakathi komkhaya nabangane.
Izigqi ezahlukene zokuphila nezingane
Izimiso, ukudla, imfundo umuntu ayinikeza ikherubi kuyehluka kumzali oyedwa. Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, wonke umuntu unemikhuba yakhe: "Unelungelo lokubuka i-TV, angadla u-ayisikhilimu ...". USidonie Mangin uchaza ukuthi “amahora amisiwe noma imithetho yenhlanzeko ebekwa abazali abathile ingaba yimbangela yokungezwani. Kukhona abaqhubeka nokulalisa izingane zabo ngezikhathi ezimisiwe kanti abanye bazivumela ukuthi zilale ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ”. Imikhuba yokudla nayo iyibhomu lesikhathi. Ngokusho kwabazali, ezinye izingane zizoba nelungelo “elikhethekile” lokudla i-Nutella, uswidi noma ukuphuza i-Coca-Cola ngamahora ashaqisayo. Okungacabangeki kwabanye. “Inhloso wukuhamba nabangani abanezingane ezilingana nabo, siphile ngesivinini esifanayo. Mayelana nemfundo, kufanele sibeke phambili inkhulumomphendvulwano ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze sigweme ingxabano ” kuchaza uSidonie Mangin.
Yini okufanele uyenze lapho ingxabano ingenakugwenywa?
Ngemva kwezinsuku ezingashiwongo, zokucasuka, imininingwane ethukuthele, ingxabano ilele ekulindeni abangani abanokuthula kakhulu. Kunamandla noma kuyadlula, ukungqubuzana kukuvumela ukuthi usho yonke into oyicabangayo. USidonie Mangin ubonisa “ukunqwabelana kokungezwani, imininingwane emincane ephazamisayo noma isamba sokugxeka okungacacile kungaholela engxabanweni. Ngokuvamile kuhamba ngokushesha njengoba kwenzekile! Ebunganeni njengakuyo yonke into, okubalulekile inkhulumomphendvulwano. Ukukhuluma izinto wedwa kubalulekile. Isixazululo ? Unganqikazi ukuthatha ikhefu phakathi nosuku. Ukuqhela eqenjini lapho kuqala ukuba yinkimbinkimbi kungaba yinzuzo. Awudingi ukwabelana ngayo yonke into ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ungakwazi futhi ukuyophumula nomndeni, ukuhamba ngezinyawo, isibonelo ”. Enye ingozi iwukuthi lapho izingane zixabana, abantu abadala kufanele bazame ukuthola ukuvumelana. Nalapha futhi, uSidonie Mangin unikeza iseluleko esilula: “basize bathole imidlalo evamile ngisho noma bengalingani ngeminyaka. Gwema ukugxeka imfundo yabangane. Bheka ukuyekethisa ukuze ugweme ukungezwani kokwelashwa kusuka kwengane eyodwa kuya kwenye, futhi iseluleko sokugcina, esibaluleke kakhulu: uma konke kungasebenzi, yenza ingane yakho iqonde ukuthi bonke abazali bahlukile ”. Amaholide amahle!