Okuqukethwe
- Imindeni ehlanganisiwe: ukuya eholidini
- Zilawule wena kuqala!
- Cabangela umndeni oguquguqukayo wejometri
- Yabelana ngemisebenzi
- Khetha indawo yokuvakasha eduze kwesiteshi sesitimela noma sezindiza
- Gwema ukuncika komunye nomunye
- Zivumele izikhathi zokuphumula
- Hlela imihlangano emikhulu ndawonye
- Ungakhohlwa "isikhathi sokusayina"
Imindeni ehlanganisiwe: ukuya eholidini
Zilawule wena kuqala!
Ningahambi nonke ngaphandle kokuthi nibe nesikhathi sokujwayela izingane zakhe naye nezakho. Kungaba ngcono ukuhamba usuku olulodwa noma ezimbili ngaphambi kwamaholide. Lolu hlobo lokuphindiselana phakathi kukababa ongamzali noma usingamama nezingane zokutholwa kufanele lwenziwe ngobumnene, ngeziqephu, futhi kungabi konke ngesikhathi esisodwa ngokuhlala ndawonye isonto lonke.
Cabangela umndeni oguquguqukayo wejometri
Ingabe unamasonto amathathu ekhefu? Hlela isonto lothando, isonto elilodwa nezingane zakho (ukuhlangana kabusha okudingekayo, ikakhulukazi kumzali ongenalo ukugcinwa kwezingane njalo), kanye nesonto lonke: lokhu kungaphezu kokwanele. Unganikeli ephusheni elikhohlisayo lokwakha isizwe esibumbene ngokushesha.
Uma kunjalo, indodana yakho izobuya ijabule ngokuthi ithole ukugibela amatshe nendoda entsha empilweni yakho, inqobo nje uma yona ingazami “ukubuyisela” uyise. Ditto for umamezala nomalokazana wakhe. Ungamsiza enzela unodoli wakhe izingubo, isibonelo.
Khetha indawo yokuvakasha eduze kwesiteshi sesitimela noma sezindiza
Phakathi nezinsuku zakho zokuvakasha, lezo zabafundi bakho abahlukene, noma yimaphi ama-internship namakamu ehlobo lapho izingane zakho zibamba iqhaza khona, ukuba seduze nokuthutha ohambweni lokubuya okungase kube ngcono kungathuthukisa kakhulu iholide lakho.
Gwema ukuncika komunye nomunye
Isikebhe, isikebhe esinesivinini, inqola noma indawo yokukhempa: lesi sitayela seholide sidinga abantu abadala nezingane abangenakho ukunambitha okufanayo noma izifiso ezifanayo zokuphila nokuhamba ndawonye kuyilapho behlala phezu komunye nomunye. Ukuziphatha okuxekethile kubangela ukungqubuzana nakanjani. Kodwa yonke inkinga inesixazululo sayo. Isibonelo, ngokukhempa, hlela amatende azimele ukuze uthole ukuzimela okukhulu kwawo wonke umuntu futhi ugweme izingxabano.
Zivumele izikhathi zokuphumula
Ingabe iholide lakho leholide lineklabhu yezingane noma iklabhu encane? Thatha ithuba lokuphefumula nomlingani wakho amahora ambalwa. Ungaphinda ukhethe ifomula yedolobhana leholide: ingane ngayinye ingathola iklabhu ehambisana neminyaka yakhe, umsebenzi ofanelana nokuthanda kwakhe futhi wonke umuntu uhlala ngokuzimela. Ukuhlangana kabusha ngesikhathi se-aperitif noma ukudla kuzoba ngcono.
Hlela imihlangano emikhulu ndawonye
Kanye noma kabili, ngesikhathi samaholide, ukuze uphule isimiso, unikele ngepikiniki endaweni enhle noma usuku epaki lokuzijabulisa, ukuze nje wakhe izinkumbulo futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuhlola amanzi ukuze ubone ukuthi wonke umuntu uyithola kanjani indawo yakhe ngaphakathi iqembu.
Ungakhohlwa "isikhathi sokusayina"
Bacele ukuthi babhalele owakwakho (ubaba noma umama) ikhadi elincane noma umdwebo, ukuze nje ubonise umusa wakho futhi ugweme isobho elinomunyu kanye nezinkulumo ezibhuqayo lapho ubuya.