Okuqukethwe
Iyabhajwa kuthisha!
Ingane yakho isanda kubuyela esikoleni. Unyaka obalulekile: kude nawe, ingane yakho izovuka kancane iye emhlabeni, inothise izindlela zayo zokukhuluma futhi ithole imisebenzi emisha. Inkinga ukuthi ukuxhumana akudluli nenkosikazi. Uyazi ukuthi imizwa yakho incike ngokuphelele kodwa naphezu kwakho konke, unombono wokuthi ukubambisana kuzoba nzima phakathi kwalo wesifazane nawe. Iphuzu nephuzu, sikusiza ukuthi unqobe ukukhathazeka kwakho.
“Uyabubula ngaso sonke isikhathi”
Le misho ifakwe izimpawu zokuthi “Ukube besinezindlela ezengeziwe”, “siyaxolisa, ayikho indawo yokulala” … Kuyaqiniseka ukuthi kukhona okungcono njengesiqalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kubonisa ukuthi ufuna ukuhileleka nokuthi angathanda ukwenza izinto eziningi nezingane.
“Akakhulumi kakhulu”
Mnikeze isikhathi sokuthatha amamaki akhe, kujwayelekile ukuthi uma kuqala unyaka angakugezi ngolwazi nangemininingwane ngenzalo yakho. Ngaphandle kwalokho, angase angakwenzi. Okungamenzi uthisha omubi.
“Uyangigwema”
Misa i-paranoid! Kungani unkosikazi angakugwema? Sekuqala unyaka, kumele azi umzali ngamunye. Ukubekezela.
“Lapho ngimbuza ukuthi zihamba kanjani ngengane yami, wathi angihlele! “
Kuwuphawu oluhle lokuthi uncamela ukukhuluma nawe ngengane yakho ubuso nobuso kunokuba ekhoneni ledeski. Ngokusobala, uwuthatha enhliziyweni umsebenzi wakhe.
"Ayizwani nabanye abasolwa"
Wumsindo osukile esikoleni. Izwi leseluleko: ungalaleli amahemuhemu, ngokuvamile awanasisekelo.
“Angikwazi ukungena ekilasini ekuseni”
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi i-reception ivame ukubanjelwa ekilasini, ngaphandle kwalabo abafika sekwephuzile. Mhlawumbe ngenxa yezizathu zenhlangano, inkosikazi yakho ikhetha ukubangabavumeli abazali bangene. Ungangabazi ukumbuza izizathu zalokhu. Ngemva kwalokho, awusenaso isizathu sokuhlala ekilasini isikhathi eside.
“Wathi:” amathoyizi athambile, kuphelile “”
Ngokusobala ifomula ayilungile. Cishe wayesho ukuthi ingane yakho ayiseyona ingane nokuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi ihlukane nengubo yayo (okungenani emini).
“Ingane yami ayithandi”
Selokhu kuqale unyaka ukhala ngothisha wakhe. Ngisho noma ungacabangi kangako, awudingi ukugxilisa iphuzu futhi umtshele ukuthi awumthandi naye. Mbuze ngezizathu zakhe. Ungangabazi ukumtshela ukuthi wenza izinto ezijabulisayo nenkosikazi yakhe. Uma ukungakhululeki kuqhubeka, phakamisa umhlangano nothisha kukhona ingane yakho.
Funda futhi: Izihibe ezincane zonyaka wangemuva kwesikole