I-Psychology

Ubaba washona isikhathi eside kanzima. Indodana yayimnakekela ngokuzinikela, ingumhlengikazi kanye nomhlengikazi. Kungani esezisola? Ngokuphuthuma ngaso sonke isikhathi, nakuba izinsuku namahora okugcina kayise amphoqa ukuba ehlise ijubane. Kukangaki ubaba ebuza: “Ndodana, hlala isikhashana!” "Isikhathi!" waphendula. Wase ebaleka.

Kudokotela - ukuthola incwadi kadokotela entsha, emakhemisi efuna umuthi olahlekile noma amanabukeni abantu abadala, emhlanganweni othile ophuthumayo. Umsebenzi wawudinga ukunakwa, isikhathi, ukuxhumana namakhasimende. Ikhehla laze laqala ukumcasula kwesinye isikhathi ngokugxila ekuguleni nasekufeni, ukungafuni ukungena ezimeni zendodana yakhe. Kodwa wayesephelelwe amandla.

Futhi manje kwavele kwacaca endodaneni yakhe ukuthi, mhlawumbe, wayengawufezanga umsebenzi wakhe oyinhloko. Hhayi umhlengikazi noma umhlengikazi, kodwa indodana. Idlulele engxoxweni. Ezikhathini ezibaluleke kakhulu washiya uyise yedwa. Akuwona umzimba kuphela, kodwa nomphefumulo kufanele unakekelwe. Nokho, wayengenaso isikhathi esanele salokho. Isikhathi namandla engqondo. Ngokusho kuka-Akhmatova, wayengenwe idemoni lejubane. Ubaba wayevame ukulala emini. Washeshe walala. Khona-ke wayezokwazi ukwenza konke okudingekayo. Kodwa ukukhathazeka kokungabi nesikhathi noma isifiso sokufika ngesikhathi kwakumqhuba njalo. Manje akukho okuzobuya.

Yonke imizwa idinga ukuvuthwa, okungukuthi, isandiso, isikhathi esincane. Kuphi?

Ingqikithi yecala kubazali ingunaphakade. Futhi izikhalazo mayelana nejubane lokuphila nazo azintsha: asikho isikhathi esanele sanoma yini. Ukwakheka kwezwe kulokoza ngaphandle kwefasitela lesitimela, indiza edla isikhala, ukushintsha izindawo zesikhathi, ukukhala kwewashi le-alamu ekuseni. Asikho isikhathi sokuhogela imbali, ingasaphathwa eyokucabanga ngempilo. Konke lokhu kuyiqiniso, kodwa sesikujwayele.

Nokho, ijubane liye labangela enye inkinga, esicabanga ngayo kuphela lapho kushonelwa othandekayo noma ukugula kwethu. Siyizidalwa eziphilayo. Futhi ngokwengqondo. Futhi yonke imizwa idinga ukuvuthwa, okungukuthi, isandiso, isikhathi esincane. Kuphi?

Kuyafana nokuthintana. "Unjani?" - "Yebo, konke kubonakala kuyize." Le kholi isiphenduke umkhuba. Ukuqokwa kothintana nakho kuyadingeka, kodwa izenzakalo ziyenzeka ezidinga amanye amagama, zidinga ikhefu lengxoxo: indodakazi inothando, othile wone indodana wafa, ukugodola phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, umama noma ubaba uzizwa sengathi abangabazi emndenini wendodana. Futhi akukhona ukuthi awukwazi ukukuthola lokhu kuphumula, kodwa ikhono lengxoxo enjalo lilahlekile. Ayikwazi ukuthola amagama. I-intonation ayinikezwa.

Sijwayele ukuxhumana ngokushelelayo, siphila ngesigqi esingenabuntu. Ngokwezwi nezwi: kusigqi esingamfanele umuntu. Konke esingakwenza nesikwaziyo kusele nathi. Sisanda kufunda ukuthi isetshenziswa kanjani. Abanikazi bengcebo engenakubalwa bacwile. Futhi ungabi namuntu ongamsola ngaphandle kwakho.

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