Okuqukethwe
Yebo, ogogo bayathanda ukutotosa izingane zabo...
Izimo zempilo:
Ngemva kokuvakashela ugogo wakhe, waba "psycho" ingane
Lapho indodana yakhe iya kugogo nomkhulu wayo, ifika yonke i-cocked, i-psychotic, ingafunga, i-snap: yena, uyabona, idluliselwe emandleni kagogo wendawo. Umfowethu wakhuthazela, wakhuthazela, wazama «figure it out» futhi «inkulumo» - lutho kusiza. Futhi nganquma, kanye nomkami, ukungafaki ukuvakashela ugogo wami unyaka (angikhumbuli ukuthi indodana yami yayineminyaka emingaki, 4 noma enye into). Ugogo wathukuthela wakhononda kuwo wonke umuntu ngokuthi “umfana uphuthuma kithi, kodwa uyise akamvumeli” (yize kungekho owayejahile), kodwa ingane ithandeka kakhulu kumfowabo kunombono womphakathi.
Futhi ngokuvamile, umzalwane kusadingeka acacise ngokucacile, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngokhahlo, amake imingcele ugogo okungafanele ahambe ngayo.
Indodana yami ina-2 futhi icishe ibe nezinyanga ezi-3 ubudala. kwenzeka ukuthi uma kufika ugogo, uthembisene umshado nendodana yakhe, okungukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngaphandle kokuhamba (kuyilapho ngezinsuku ezijwayelekile umama unezinto eziningi okufanele azenze futhi akakwazi ukuhlala naye adlale). Ngalesi sikhathi umama akadingeki ku-FIG, siphenduka izithulu ezicelweni zikamama bese owesifazane eba phambili, igunya likamama liyaphela. Indlela yokushintsha isimo? Indlela yokusabela? Ugogo uzama ukwenza konke ngendlela efanele, njengoba umama edinga, KODWA indodana icabanga ngendlela ehlukile! Usizo!
Isixazululo
Ubani ophethe endlini?
Inhloko yendlu ngubaba, phakathi nohambo lwakhe lwebhizinisi - mina. Ogogo nomkhulu - udinga ukuhlonipha, ngisho noma bengajabulisi kakhulu kuwe, izingane ezithandekayo, ngento ethile. Ngoba ugogo nomkhulu omama nobaba bethu, futhi ngelinye ilanga niyoba obaba, thina sibe ogogo nomkhulu. Futhi akukaziwa ukuthi bazocabangani ngathi nokuthi bazohamba kanjani ukuze bahlole ukuziphatha kwethu, ngakho-ke siyabahlonipha ogogo nomkhulu bethu futhi asifundisi (nakuba ungacela ukuthi unganiki amakhilogremu amabili amaswidi ngesikhathi esisodwa).
ukuhlalisana ngokuthula
Mayelana nogogo - ogogo - bayadingeka, ngokutotoswa kwabo. Kulula (nakuba ngezinye izikhathi oh kunzima kakhulu) ukuchazela ingane ukuthi ingakwazi ukuxhumana nogogo wayo ngokomthetho owodwa, futhi nabazali bayo ngokusho kwabanye. Asikho isidingo sokwephula nokwenza ugogo - lokhu kuwubuntu obuphelele bomuntu omdala, futhi njengabazali, ufuna umntwana abe muhle, ngendlela yakhe, ngendlela kagogo. Ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuchazela ingane, ngokombono wamathemba esikhathi eside, ukuthi isimo sengqondo kuye ekuphileni komuntu omdala sizoba "yikho konke" ....
Ngokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu, kule minyaka akukabikho ukuzethemba okukhulu kokuthi ngingumama “omuhle,” futhi kwakubonakala sengathi ingane ithanda ugogo wayo kakhulu, futhi ingaphansi kwami… .