Imidlalo yamantombazane noma imidlalo yabafana?

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Amakhathalogi amaningi amathoyizi anamakhasi anikezelwe amantombazane noma abafana. Kunokuba kube yinto encane, lokhu kuzithonya kakhulu izingane. Kubalulekile ukuthi wonke umuntu akwazi ukudlala ngebanga elibanzi kakhulu ukuze athuthukise amakhono akhe.

Njalo ngonyaka, kuwumkhuba ofanayo. Emabhokisini ezincwadi nezitolo ezinkulu, izinhlu zamathoyizi kaKhisimusi ziyanqwabelana. Ama-ovens amancane, izimoto ezilawulwa kude, onodoli noma imidlalo yokwakha, imibala ihlukaniswa kabili: epinki noma eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.. Awukho umthunzi, njengokuthi "oluhlaza-mpunga" kubafana abancane abanamahloni noma "owolintshi okhanyayo" kumantombazane angama-daredevil. Cha. Emakhasini nasemakhasini, izinhlobo zihlukaniswe kahle. Banokudla, izidingo zasendlini noma izingubo zomhlengikazi (akukho dokotela, ungenzi ihaba!) Noma nkosazana; kubo izimoto, ama-backhoe loaders, izikhali kanye nezinto zokufihla izicishamlilo. NgoKhisimusi odlule, ikhathalogi yezitolo ze-U kuphela edale umsindo ngokunikeza amathoyizi abonisa ubulili bobubili. Ukubuyela emuva ekuziphendukeleni kwemvelo komphakathi, kusukela ngeminyaka yawo-2000, isenzakalo sokuhlukaniswa kwentombazane nabafana sigcizelelwa.

I-Lego enezinwele ezinhle zezinwele

Ngawo-90s, wawungathola inhloko ebomvu efana namaconsi amanzi amabili njenge-Pippi Longstocking, ngokuziqhenya ibonisa ukwakhiwa kwe-Lego okuyinkimbinkimbi. Namuhla, uhlobo oludumile lwamathoyizi okwakhiwa, oluseneminyaka ehlala e-unisex, lusungule i- "Lego Friends", okuhlukile "kwamantombazane". Izibalo ezinhlanu zinamehlo amakhulu, iziketi nezinwele ezinhle zezinwele. Bahle kakhulu, kodwa ukubabona kunzima ukungakhumbuli iminyaka yama-80s, lapho sasidlala khona amahora amaningi, amantombazane nabafana, nabafana abadumile abanekhanda eliphuzi, abanezandla ezinezinzwane kanye nokumamatheka okungaqondakali. UMona Lisa… Umfundi we-PhD kwezokuhlalisana kwabantu, uMona Zegaï ukubonile lokho umehluko wobulili kumakhathalogi uvela ngisho nasezimo zengqondo zezingane. Ezithombeni ezibonisa izingane ezisacathula zidlala, abafana abancane banesimo sobudoda: bama ngezinyawo, izibhakela ezinqulwini, lapho bengayiphathi inkemba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amantombazane anesimo somusa, ku-tiptoe, ephulula amathoyizi. Akukhona nje ukuthi amakhathalogi anamakhasi apinki naluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kodwa izitolo ziyakwenza. Ama-aisles abhaliwe: imibala emibili yamashalofu ikhombisa ngokucacile indlela yabazali ngokushesha. Qaphela lowo othatha umnyango ongalungile futhi anikeze ikhithi ekhishini endodaneni yakhe!

Imidlalo yamantombazane noma imidlalo yabafana: isisindo sesimiso

Lokhu kumelelwa kobulili emidlalweni kunethonya elikhulu ekwakhiweni kobunikazi bezingane kanye nombono wazo womhlaba.. Ngalawa mathoyizi, angase abonakale engenangozi, sithumela umlayezo ovamile: akufanele sisuke kuhlaka lomphakathi olunikezwa umphakathi. Abangeneli emabhokisini abamukelekile. Phuma kubafana abaphuphayo nabahlakaniphile, wamukele umsindo oxokozelayo. I-Ditto yamantombazane amancane, amenywe ukuba abe yilokho angeyikho wonke: athambile, azithobile futhi azicimayo.

Imidlalo “Yobulili”: ubungozi bokukhiqiza kabusha ukungalingani phakathi kwamantombazane nabafana

Umgomo wokuqala esiwabela amantombazane: ukujabulisa. Ngama-sequin amaningi, amaribhoni kanye nama-frill. Nokho, noma ubani owake waba nengane yangempela eneminyaka engu-3 ekhaya uyazi ukuthi intombazanyana ayihlali (uma kwenzeka!) Inomusa noma intekenteke usuku lonke. Angaphinde anqume ukugibela kusofa athi yintaba noma akuchazele ukuthi “ungumqhubi wethangi” futhi uzokusa kwaGogo. Le midlalo esiyidlalayo noma esingayidlali kuye ngobulili bethu, ingaba nomthelela ekwandiseni ukungalingani.. Ngempela, uma kungekho insimbi noma i-vacuum cleaner enikezwa ngokuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, enesithombe somfana ohlanzayo, indlela yokuguqula ukungalingani okuphawulekayo ekuhlanganyeleni imisebenzi yasekhaya eFrance? Abesifazane basawenza u-80% wawo. I-Ditto ezingeni lomholo. Ngomsebenzi olinganayo, owesilisa emkhakheni ozimele uzohola ngama-28% ngaphezu kowesifazane. Kungani ? Ngoba uyindoda! Ngokufanayo, intombazane encane engazange ibe nelungelo lokugqoka i-Spiderman ingakwazi kanjani ukwethemba amandla noma amakhono ayo kamuva? Kodwa-ke, ibutho selivuleleke kwabesifazane isikhathi eside ... Laba besifazane banemisebenzi emihle lapho, abasashiyi abafana babo ensimini kunozakwabo besilisa. Kodwa ubani onikeza intombazanyana isibhamu esiwumshini omncane, ngisho noma isikhala? I-Ditto ohlangothini lwensizwa: ngenkathi imibukiso yokupheka nabapheki iphindaphinda, i-loulou inganqatshwa umpheki omncane kuphela ngenxa yokuthi i-pink. Ngamageyimu, sinikeza izimo zempilo ezinomkhawulo : ukuyenga amantombazane, ukuba ngumama nemisebenzi yasekhaya namandla abafana, isayensi, ezemidlalo nobuhlakani. Ngokwenza kanjalo, sivimbela amadodakazi ethu ekuthuthukiseni isifiso sawo futhi sivimbela amadodana ethu kamuva afuna: “ukuhlala ekhaya ukuze anakekele izingane zawo eziyi-10”. Ngonyaka odlule kwashuthwa ividiyo ku-inthanethi. Sibona intombazane eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala esitolo samathoyizi igxeka ngokuzwakalayo lokhu kuhlukaniswa, kuyilapho kuyo, izinto zihluke kakhulu: “” (“Amanye amantombazane athanda iziqhawe, amanye amakhosazana; abanye abafana bathanda iziqhawe, abanye amakhosazana. ”) URiley Ividiyo kaMaida mayelana nokumaketha ezoyibuka ku-You Tube, okumnandi.

Vumela izingane ukuthi zidlale ngakho konke!

Phakathi kweminyaka emi-2 nengu-5, ukudlala kuthatha ukubaluleka okukhulu empilweni yengane. amathoyizi emoto umsize athuthuke, asebenzise ukusebenzelana kwezingalo nemilenze yakhe. Nokho, yomibili ubulili idinga ukuzivocavoca, ukugijima, ukukhuphuka! Iminyaka emibili iyisiqalo ikakhulukazi "imidlalo yokulingisa”. Banikeza izingane ezisacathula ithuba lokuziqinisa, ukuzibeka endaweni yazo, ukuqonda izwe labantu abadala. Ngokudlala "ukuzenzisa", ufunda ukuthinta kanye nesimo sengqondo sabazali bakhe futhi engena ezweni elicebile kakhulu lemicabango.. Usana, ikakhulukazi, lunendima engokomfanekiso: amantombazane nabafana banamathele kakhulu kulo. Banakekela encane, bakhiqize lokho abazali babo abakwenzayo: ukugeza, ukushintsha inabukeni noma ukuthethisa ingane yabo. Izingxabano, ukukhungatheka kanye nobunzima umfana omncane abhekana nabo buvela ngaphandle ngenxa kanodoli. Bonke abafana abancane kufanele bakwazi ukuyidlala. Ingozi, uma sigcizelela imibono yocansi, ngokusebenzisa imvelo nemidlalo, ukunikeza abafana (namadoda azayo!) Ukuzijwayeza ngobudoda.. Ngokuphambene, sasithumela amantombazane amancane umlayezo mayelana nokungaphansi kwawo (okuthiwa).. Enkulisa yase-Bourdarias eSaint-Ouen (93), ithimba lasebenza iminyaka eminingana kuphrojekthi yokufundisa ephathelene nobulili. Umqondo? Hhayi ukusula umehluko phakathi kobulili, kodwa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi amantombazane nabafana bayalingana. Futhi lokho kwenzeka kakhulu ngokudlala. Ngakho, kule nkulisa, amantombazane ayevame ukumenywa ukuba enze imisebenzi yezandla. Ngaphansi kokuqondisa komuntu omdala, babethela izipikili ezingodweni zokhuni, beshaya kanzima kakhulu ngesando. Baphinde bafundiswa ukuziphoqa, ukuthi “cha”, lapho bexabene nenye ingane. Ngokufanayo, abafana babevame ukunxuswa ukuba banakekele onodoli futhi baveze imizwelo nemizwa yabo. Kusukela lapho, osopolitiki sebeyibambile. Ngonyaka odlule, i-General Inspectorate of Social Affairs yahambisa umbiko kuNgqongqoshe uNajat Vallaud-Belkacem mayelana "nokulingana phakathi kwamantombazane nabafana ezinhlelweni zokunakekelwa kwezingane". Ngaphezu kokuqwashisa ochwepheshe bezingane ezisakhula mayelana nezinkinga zokucabanga ngendlela engaqondile, kusukela ekuqaleni konyaka wesikole ka-2013, incwajana kanye ne-DVD ekhuluma ngokungalingani kufanele kunikezwe abazali kanye nobaba ikakhulukazi.

Ubunikazi bobulili abuthintwa imidlalo

Ukuvumela abafana namantombazane ukuthi badlale ngazo zombili izinhlobo zemidlalo, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngemibala (noma ukufuna imibala "engathathi hlangothi": i-orange, eluhlaza, ephuzi) kubalulekile ekwakhiweni kwabo.. Ngamathoyizi, kunokuba zikhiqize kabusha izwe elinokungalingani, izingane zithola ukuthi zingakwazi ukunweba imingcele yobulili kabanzi: noma yini ingenzeka. Akukho okugcinelwe okukodwa noma okunye futhi ngayinye ithuthukisa amakhono ayo, izicebisa ngezimfanelo zobulili obubodwa noma obunye. Kulokhu, kunjalo, akufanele wesabe wena : ingquza edlala ngonodoli ngeke ibe isitabane. Ingabe kufanele sikukhumbule? Ubunikazi bobulili abuthonywa imidlalo, "kungokwemvelo" yomuntu, ngokuvamile kusukela ekuzalweni. Sesha inkumbulo yakho ngokucophelela: awuzange yini ufune ithoyizi elingagcinelwe uhlobo lwakho? Basabela kanjani abazali bakho? Wazizwa kanjani ngemva kwalokho? Sibhalele ehhovisi labahleli, imibono yakho ngalolu daba iyasithakasela!