Ukukhuluma ngama-smartphones namakhompyutha, siyingxenye: kuyasiza futhi kuyadingeka, kodwa kubi. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo somndeni uKaterina Demina unombono ohlukile: amagajethi anama-pluses amaningi kunama-minuses, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu, awakwazi ukuba yimbangela yezingxabano emndenini.
IPsychology: Kusihlwa ekhaya — umama uxoxa nesigijimi, ubaba udlala kukhompuyutha, ingane ibukele i-YouTube. Ngitshele ukuthi kulungile?
U-Katerina Demina: Lokhu kuhle. Kuyindlela yokuphumula. Futhi uma, ngaphezu kokulenga kumagajethi, amalungu omndeni ethola isikhathi sokuxoxa, kusho ukuthi kuhle. Ngikhumbula ukuthi wonke umndeni - izingane ezintathu kanye nabantu abadala abathathu - bahamba bayophumula olwandle. Ukuze bonge imali, baqasha ifulethi elincane edolobhaneni elincane. Kusihlwa, sasiya endaweni eyodwa yokudlela yasogwini futhi, silinde i-oda, sahlala, ngamunye engcwatshwe ocingweni lwakhe. Kumelwe ukuba sasibukeka njengomkhaya omubi, ophukile. Kodwa empeleni, sachitha amasonto amathathu ikhala ekhaleni, futhi i-intanethi yabanjwa kuphela kule cafe. Amagajethi ayithuba lokuba wedwa nemicabango yakho.
Futhi, indaba yakho cishe imayelana nentsha. Ngoba ingane yasenkulisa ngeke ikuvumele ukuthi uhlale engxoxweni noma emdlalweni we-inthanethi. Uzokhipha umphefumulo kuwe: kuye, isikhathi esichithwa nobaba nomama sibaluleke kakhulu. Futhi kumuntu osemusha, isikhathi sokuzilibazisa nabazali siyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni. Kuyena, ukuxhumana nontanga kubaluleke kakhulu.
Futhi uma sikhuluma ngombhangqwana? Indoda nomfazi bafika ekhaya bevela emsebenzini futhi, kunokuba baziphonse ezingalweni zomunye nomunye, banamathela kumathuluzi ...
Esigabeni sokuqala sobudlelwane, lapho yonke into ivutha futhi iyancibilika, akukho lutho olungakuphazamisa othandekayo wakho. Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ibanga phakathi kozakwethu liyakhula, ngoba asikwazi ukushisa ngaso sonke isikhathi. Futhi amagajethi ayindlela yesimanje yokwakha leli banga ngababili. Ngaphambili, igalaji, ukudoba, ukuphuza, i-TV, abangane, izintombi zazifeza injongo efanayo, “Ngaya kumakhelwane, futhi ugovuza iphalishi njalo ngemizuzu emihlanu.”
Asikwazi ukuhlala sihlangene nomuntu. Ekhathele, wathatha ucingo, wabheka i-Facebook (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia) noma i-Instagram (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia). Ngesikhathi esifanayo, singalala silinganisene embhedeni futhi ngamunye afunde iteyipu yakhe, ebonisana izinto ezihlekisayo, sixoxa ngalokho esikufundayo. Futhi lolu uhlobo lwethu lokusondelana. Futhi singaba ndawonye ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo sizondane.
Kodwa ingabe amafoni nama-computer awabangeli yini izingxabano lapho othandekayo “ebalekela” kukho, futhi singakwazi ukumthola?
Amagajethi angeke abe yimbangela yokungqubuzana, njengoba nje imbazo ingenakusolwa ngokubulala, nepeni alinakusolwa ngokubhala ithalente. Ama-smartphone namathebulethi ayithuluzi lokuthumela imiyalezo. Kuhlanganisa ne-metaphorical — amazinga ahlukahlukene okusondelana noma ulaka. Mhlawumbe ubuhlobo buye baqhekeka isikhathi eside, ngakho umyeni, lapho efika ekhaya evela emsebenzini, ekhanda ikhanda lakhe kukhompyutha. Wayengathola unkosikazi, aqale ukuphuza, kodwa wakhetha imidlalo ye-computer. Futhi unkosikazi uzama ukwelula isandla..
Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu akanabo ubuhlobo obuseduze, amagajethi kuphela, ngoba kulula nabo. Lokhu kuyingozi?
Ingabe sidida imbangela nomphumela? Sekuhlale kukhona abantu abangakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano. Ngaphambili, bakhetha isizungu noma ubudlelwano ngemali, namuhla bathola isiphephelo emhlabeni virtual. Ngikhumbula saxoxa nensizwa eneminyaka engu-15 ubudala ngendlela ezibonela ngayo ubuhlobo obuhle nentombazane. Futhi ngokudabukisayo wathi: “Ngifuna ibe sendololwaneni yami lapho ngiyidinga. Futhi lapho kungenasidingo, akuzange kukhanye. Kodwa lobu ubuhlobo bomntwana nomama! Ngazama ukumchazela isikhathi eside ukuthi kwakunganengane. Manje insizwa isikhulile futhi yakha ubudlelwano babantu abadala ...
Ukubalekela emhlabeni we-virtual ngokuvamile kuyisici salabo abangakavuthwa futhi abangakwazi ukuthwala omunye umuntu eduze kwabo. Kodwa amagajethi abonisa lokhu kuphela, hhayi ukukubangela. Kodwa entsheni, ukuluthwa kwegajethi kuyisimo esiyingozi ngempela. Uma engafuni ukufunda, akanabo abangane, akahambi, udlala ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukhalise i-alamu futhi afune usizo ngokushesha. Kungase kube uphawu lokucindezeleka!
Ekusebenzeni kwakho, zikhona yini izibonelo lapho amagajethi engazange aphazamise umndeni, kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, asize?
Njengoba uthanda. Umakhelwane wethu oneminyaka engu-90 ubiza abazukulu bakhe nesizukulwane usuku lonke. Ufundisa nabo izinkondlo. Isiza ngesiFulentshi. Ulalela ukuthi badlala kanjani izingcezu zabo zokuqala kupiyano ngobunono. Ukube iSkype ayizange isungulwe, ubezophila kanjani? Futhi ngakho uyazazi zonke izindaba zabo. Elinye icala: indodana yelinye lamakhasimende ami yangena enkingeni enzima yentsha, futhi yashintshela ekukhulumeni okubhaliwe, noma ngabe basendlini eyodwa. Ngoba “Ngicela wenze lokhu” kusithunywa akuzange kumthukuthelise njengokugqekeza ekamelweni: “Susa ingqondo yakho emdlalweni wakho, ungibheke futhi wenze engikutshela khona.”
Amagajethi enza kube lula kakhulu ukuxhumana nentsha. Ungabathumela noma yini ofuna bayifunde futhi bazokubuyisela okuthile. Kulula kakhulu ukuwalawula ngaphandle kokungena. Uma indodakazi yakho ingafuni ukuthi uye esiteshini sesitimela ukuze uhlangane nayo ebusuku, ngoba inkulu futhi ihamba nabangani, ungayithumela itekisi futhi uqaphe imoto ngesikhathi sangempela.
Ngeke yini ukukwazi ukulandela kusenze sikhathazeke kakhulu?
Futhi, amagajethi angamathuluzi nje. Ngeke zisenze sikhathazeke kakhulu uma ngokwemvelo singakhathazeki.
Yiziphi ezinye izidingo, ngaphandle kokukhulumisana nethuba lokuba wedwa, ezizanelisayo?
Kimina kubonakala sengathi into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi amagajethi anikeza umuzwa wokuthi awuwedwa, ngisho noma uwedwa. Kuyi, uma uthanda, indlela yokubhekana nokukhathazeka okukhona kanye nokulahlwa. Futhi angikwazi ngisho ukusho ukuthi inkohliso. Ngoba abantu banamuhla banamaqembu ezithakazelo, futhi mina nawe sinozakwethu nabangane esingase singababoni, kodwa sizizwe sisondelene. Futhi beza ukusiza, basisekele, bahawukele, bangathi: "Yebo, nginezinkinga ezifanayo" - ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kuyigugu! Noma ubani onendaba ngokuthola isiqinisekiso sobukhulu bakhe uzosithola - uzonikezwa ukuthandwa. Ubani onendaba nomdlalo wobuhlakani noma ukugcwala kwemizwelo, uzobathola. Amagajethi ayithuluzi elinjalo lomhlaba wonke lokuzazi wena nomhlaba.