Kuyahlekisa, kodwa lapho sengingumuntu odla imifino, ngakhathazeka ngokuthi abangane bami bazothini. Uma kuyile ndlela ozizwa ngayo, khona-ke cishe ulindelwe isimanga esijabulisayo. Iningi lentsha liyaqonda ukuthi ukudla imifino kuyisinyathelo esihle esizosiza ukusindisa izilwane eziningi.
Lokhu akusho nokho ukuthi bazofuna ukukujoyina, kodwa abanye babo bazoya kuleyo ndlela. UGeorgina Harris, isakhamuzi saseManchester esineminyaka engu-XNUMX ubudala, uyakhumbula: “Bonke abangane bami babecabanga ukuthi ukudla imifino kuhle. Futhi abantu abaningi babethi, “O yebo, nami ngingumuntu ongadli imifino,” noma ngabe babengenjalo ngempela. Yebo uyohlangana nabantu abazokwenza imizamo edabukisayo yokuhlola ukholo lwakho ezinkolelweni zakho. “Ukudla kukanogwaja yikho kuphela akudlayo”, “Nasi isithandwa sikanogwaja esiza.” Ikakhulu abantu benza lezi zinhlobo zokuphawula ngoba ungesabi ukuvula nokukhuluma. Kudingeka ube nesibindi sokuhluka, futhi ubonise abantu ukuthi unamandla, kodwa akunjalo, futhi kuyabakhathaza.
ULenny Smith, intombazane eneminyaka eyishumi nesithupha, uhlukunyezwe umngani kayise ngokuphawula kwakhe. “Wayehlala engikhathaza ngamazwi akhe mayelana nokudlulela kwemizwelo, ethi angiphili ezweni langempela. Wangidlalisa, noma wayemamatheka, ngangazi ukuthi kwakungahlekisi lokho, wakusho ngokucasuka. Lokhu wakwenza ngoba ngingowesifazane futhi ngibuthakathaka, noma ngezinye izizathu. Wayevame ukuyozingela kwathi ngelinye iSonto waya kuyise wafike waphonsa unogwaja ofile phezu kwetafula lasekhishini phambi kwami wahleka. “Nangu unogwaja omncanyana omuhle kuwe,” kusho yena. Nganginengekile kangangokuthi ngamtshela okokuqala, ngendlela ehloniphekile, lokho engikucabangayo ngaye, kodwa kwakungeyona into engathandeki. Ngicabanga ukuthi uthukile.”
Indaba kaLenny ifundisa wonke umuntu isifundo. Noma yini oyenzayo, yehlisa umoya! Ngeke kuthathe isikhathi eside ukuthi wonke umuntu ajwayele ukuthi ungumuntu ongadli imifino, amahlaya ngawe azocika aphele. Ukusabela esitatimendeni sakho sokuthi awudli imifino kuzoba nentshisekelo yangempela. Inani labantu abadla imifino emhlabeni wonke likhula ngokushesha, ngakho-ke zilungiselele imibuzo enjengokuthi: "Udlani?". Isakhamuzi saseNorthampton uJoanna Bates, XNUMX, uthi: “Ekuqaleni abangani bami bangibuza ukuthi ngiyayikhumbula yini inyama, baze babona ukuthi bakhetha ukudla kwami kunokwabo. Baqala nokuhlobanisa inyama nezilwane ezifile, kanti ezine kweziyisihlanu nazo zaba abantu abadla imifino.”
Abanye abafisa ukudla imifino bayayeka ngoba bonke abangane babo babuthana ezindaweni zokudlela zendawo. Lokhu kwakuyinkinga engathi sína ngalezo zinsuku lapho imifino ingekho futhi ngisho nama-chips ayephekwa ngamafutha enyama yenkomo. Ungabona ukuthi ungakanani umthelela wokudla inyama okube nawo ngoba elinye lamaketango okudla amakhulu manje lidayisa amabhega emifino futhi lenza amaships kawoyela we-veggie.
Uma umenywe ukuthi uvakashele abangani, ungakubheki lokhu njengenkinga. Uma sebethole ukuthi ungumuntu ongadli imifino, abazali abaningi bazozama ukungenzi inkinga. Ungabasiza ngokubanikeza amacebiso, njengokufaka uphaya “wenyama” yemifino kuhhavini nokudla kwabo bese uwudla nabangani bakho. Ngezinye izikhathi abangane kanye nezitha cishe njalo bazama ukuthola ubuthakathaka ezinkolelweni zakho. Into ehlekisayo ukuthi wonke umuntu ucabanga ukuthi unezingxabano zokuqala nezingxabano. “Ngizimisele ukubheja uzodla izilwane uma uphelela esiqhingini esiwugwadule futhi ungenayo enye indlela.” Impendulo - "Yebo, mhlawumbe ngabe ngikwenzile lokho, kodwa kunalokho bengizokudla uma ukhona" - le mpendulo ayihlangene nokukhiqizwa kwemikhiqizo yenyama, kanye nombuzo. Futhi manje umbuzo othakazelisayo kakhulu: uzomanga umuntu odla inyama? Uma kungenjalo, khona-ke ungase ucabange ukuthi ukukhetha kwakho kunomkhawulo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu omangalisayo usekhona, futhi umuntu odla imifino angase abe eduze kwakho, ekhoneni, noma eklabhu oya kuyo. Uma ufuna ukuhlangana nomuntu odla imifino osemusha, hamba uye endaweni lapho abantu abanjalo bebuthana khona: imiphakathi yendawo edla imifino, noma amaqembu emvelo noma abalwela amalungelo ezilwane. Uma ufuna ukuhlangana nentombazane yemifino, sebenzisa imithetho efanayo, umehluko kuphela ukuthi kulula kakhulu, ngoba kunabesifazane abadla imifino kabili kunamadoda. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungazinqumela ukuthi uzomanga umuntu odla inyama, kodwa zama ukumkholisa futhi umlethe eceleni kwakho. Sebenzisa zonke izindlela ezifanayo ngokuphathelene nabazali - bonisa amavidiyo ezimo lapho izilwane zihlala futhi zifa khona. Thatha isinqumo futhi ugcizelele ukuthi uye kuphela endaweni lapho ungakhetha khona ukudla kwemifino. Uma umlingani wakho enqaba ukushintsha indlela adla ngayo, noma usuzame konke, khona-ke unenkinga enkulu futhi kufanele wenze isinqumo esinzima - uzomziba noma uzomsiza? Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ehlonipha imibono yakho ngokwanele ukuba adle ukudla kwemifino phambi kwakho, khona-ke ungasho ukuthi ungumnqobi. Ngike ngahlangana nabadla imifino abazama ngisho nokukhuluma nabadla inyama. Ngethemba ukuthi awuyisebenzisi le ndlela ukuze uthole abantu ohlangothini lwakho. Ngingasho ngokuqinisekile, ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, ukuthi abaningi bakwazile ukukholisa abangane babo ukuba benqabe inyama.