Umfana ngokwakhe wakhetha indlela yakhe yokuphila, kodwa akazange aphumelele.
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Imfundo yamahhala, njengomthetho, iyazigqaja ngeqiniso lokuthi njalo ishiya ukukhetha kwendlela yokuphila kumfundi ngokwakhe: "Ukuzikhethela kwendlela yokuphila kuyilungelo lemvelo lomfundi ngokwakhe."
Ubani okufanele abe nguye: umkhandi wezikhiye noma usomabhizinisi - uyazinqumela.
Uma kuqhathaniswa nokugunyazwa kwabantu abadala, abacabanga ngezinhlelo zabo kuphela futhi abangabheki eduze izithakazelo namakhono ezingane, isikhundla esinjalo semfundo yamahhala sikhuthaza kokubili ukuqonda nenhlonipho. Nokho, ezimweni lapho umntwana ekhulela emkhayeni lapho abazali bengabantu abahlakaniphile, abanothando nabaphumelelayo ekuphileni, ngokuvamile abazali abangcono kunomntwana bangasho ukuthi iliphi ikusasa lomntwana eliyoba injabulo kuye, nokuthi iyiphi eyoba efile. ukuphela. Okwenzeka empilweni akukakakhanselwa.
Abalandeli bemfundo yamahhala bathi umsebenzi wabo wukukhulisa umuntu ojabule, nokuthi yimuphi umsebenzi ezowuthola, ingane izikhethele yona. Akulona neze iqiniso lonke. Isela nalo liwumsebenzi oyingqayizivele, kodwa abalandeli bemfundo yamahhala abacabangi ukukhetha okunjalo kwempilo, ukukhetha okunjalo kwengane kubhekwa njengomshado wokufundisa.
Kukholelwa ukuthi umntwana ojwayelekile onokukhuliswa kwamahhala akakwazi ukukhetha okunjalo, ngoba, ngokwemibono yendlela yobuntu, isimo somntwana ekuqaleni silungile.
Eqinisweni, othisha be-orientation yamahhala bazolwa kuze kube sekugcineni, ukuze umfana ojabule, othweswe iziqu, angangeni ebhizinisini lobugebengu, angaqali ukuthola imali njengobugebengu, futhi intombazane, iziqu zabo, ayihambi. ukusebenza njengesifebe.
Ukukhetha indlela yokuphila kanye nezinga lokuthuthuka komuntu siqu
Ukukhetha okuqaphelayo kwendlela yokuphila kudinga izinga eliphezulu lokuthuthuka komuntu siqu.
Kodwa ingabe abantwana bethu, bememezela isifiso sabo, bahlale beqaphela izifiso zabo zangempela kanye nezifiso zabo? Ingabe siyayikhumbula indima edlalwa imizwa lapha, imizwa engahleliwe, isifiso sokusuka nje lapha, noma isifiso sokumane senze yonke into ngokudelela? Ingabe lokhu kuyinkomba yokuqwashisa, izinga eliphezulu lokuthuthuka komuntu siqu? Bona →