Izinyanga zokuqala zesikole, wazi kanjani ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle?

Emuva esikoleni: mnike isikhathi sokuzijwayeza

Kuyinto evamile emasontweni ambalwa okuqala ukuthi ingane ibonise izimpawu ezingavamile ezibonisa eyakhe ubunzima bokujwayela, ukucindezeleka kwakhe ebusweni bezinto ezintsha ... " Ukungena esigabeni esincane senkulisa kanye nesebanga lokuqala kuyizigaba ezimbili ezidinga isikhathi esiningi sokuzijwayeza. Kuze kube yizinyanga ezimbalwa! kusho u-Elodie Langman, uthisha wesikole. Ngihlale ngichazela abazali lokho kuze kube uDecember, ingane yabo idinga ukuzivumelanisa nezimo. Ngisho noma kunezimpawu zokuthi akakhululekile, noma ukuthi ulahlekile kancane ekufundeni, izinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala azivezi kakhulu. “ Kodwa uma lokhu kuqhubeka noma kukhula ngale kukaKhisimusi, vele sikhathazekile! Futhi qiniseka. Ngokuvamile, uma uthisha ebona okuthile ekuziphatheni noma ekufundeni, utshela abazali ngo-October.

Ungakugwema kanjani ukukhala esikoleni?

Kuvame kakhulu esigabeni esincane. U-Nathalie de Boisgrollier uyasiqinisekisa: “Uma efika ekhala lokho akusho ukuthi izinto azihambi kahle. Uveza iqiniso lokuthi kunzima kuye ukuhlukana nawe. “ Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uhlala a uphawu lolwazi uma ngemva kwamasonto amathathu elokhu ebambelele kuwe futhi ememeza. Futhi “Kufanele siqaphele ukuthi ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kwethu kwabantu abadala akusindi ojosaka bezingane zethu! Impela benza isikole sibe nzima ”, uyachaza. Ngakho siyamgona, sithi “zijabulise, sala kahle!” “. Ngenjabulo, ukumazisa ukuthi akukho okubi ngathi.

Izifo "ezincane" okufanele uziqaphele

Kuye ngesimilo somntwana, izinhlobo zokubonakaliswa kwe "Back to school syndrome" hluka. Bonke baveza ingcindezi, ubunzima obukhulu noma obuncane bokunqoba izinto ezintsha kanye nempilo yasesikoleni. Ikantini, ikakhulukazi, ngokuvamile iwumthombo wokukhathazeka kwabancane. Amaphupho amabi, ukuziyeka, isisu esibuhlungu, ikhanda elibuhlungu ekuseni, lezi izimpawu ezibuya kakhulu. Noma, ubehlanzekile kuze kube manje futhi kusenjalo usemanzisa umbhede. Ngaphandle kwesizathu sokwelashwa (noma ukufika kukadade omncane), kuwukusabela kokucindezeleka ukuya esikoleni! Futhi angase angaphumuli, acasuke kunokujwayelekile. Impendulo ivela ku- Nathalie De Boisgrollier: “Ujahidada wayenakile, wayezibambe kahle, futhi ezibamba, ukuze alalele iziyalezo usuku lonke. Udinga ukukhulula ukushuba. Zinike isikhathi sokukhulula umusi. “ Ngakho ukubaluleka amyise esigcawini or ukubuyela ekhaya ngezinyawo emva kukophuma kwesikole ! Kuyasiza ekudambiseni ukucindezeleka.

Sekela imizwa yakho

Okwakudingeka kwaba ukubukela phansi kukathisha noma ukwenqaba komngane wakhe ukudlala naye ngesikhathi sekhefu ngalolo suku, angabi sekilasini elilodwa nomngane wakhe ngonyaka odlule, nansi “Imininingwane emincane” emcasulayo. Ngempela. Nokho, akufanele sicabange ukuthi kubi esikoleni noma kunzima kakhulu kuye. Kufanele uphelezele ingane yakho iye wamukele imizwa yakho. Izingane ezisenkulisa nasekuqaleni kwesikole samabanga aphansi azinalo ulwazi lwamagama noma ukuqaphela okwenzeka kuzo, kuchaza uNathalie de Boisgrollier. “Unemizwa intukuthelo, ukudabuka, ukwesaba, azoyiveza ngokuziphatha kwayo i-somatization noma okungafaneleki kuwe, njengokuhlukumeza ngokwesibonelo. “ Kukithi ukuthi simsize aveze imizwa yakhe ngendlela engenzeka ngayo, ngokusho imizwa yakhe: “Ingabe bewusaba (uthisha, ingane ekushishilizile…)? Gwema ukumtshela ukuthi “kodwa cha, akulutho”, okuphika imizwa kanye nezingozi zokuwenza uhlale. Kunalokho, mqinisekise ngokuthi ukulalela okusebenzayo : “Yebo udabukile, yebo unkosikazi wakho omncane onzima uyakwethusa, kuyenzeka. Khuluma ngolwazi lwakho lwesikole. Futhi uma engasho lutho, uma evinjiwe, mhlawumbe angakwazi ukuziveza ngokudweba.

Ezama ukuthola ukuthi wenzeni esikoleni

Asikwazi ukuzibamba! Kusihlwa, sicishe sadlula emnyango wendlu, siphuthuma kumfana wethu wesikole omusha, futhi ngezwi lenjabulo, sithi odumile “Wenzeni-ke namuhla, tshwele lami?” »… Thula. Siphinde sibuze umbuzo, ngendlela exakile ... Ngaphandle kokuyeka ngisho nokudlala, usinika “umthombo, akukho lutho” olusobala! Sehlisa umoya: kuyakhungathekisa kodwa kungakhathazeki! “Uma kubalulekile ukubuza ingane yakho imibuzo eminingi ukuze uyibonise ukuthi siyaluthanda usuku lwayo, kungokwemvelo ukuthi ingaphenduli, ngoba iyinkimbinkimbi kuye, hlaziya u-Elodie Langman. Lude usuku. Kugcwele imizwa, eyakhayo noma cha, ukuqaphela, ukufunda, kanye nempilo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kuye naseduze kwakhe. Ngisho ne izingane ezikhulumayo noma abakhuluma kalula ngokwanele basho okuncane ngokuqukethwe okufundiwe. “ UNathalie de Boisgrollier uthi: “Eminyakeni emi-3 njengo-7, kunzima ngoba akawazi kahle amagama, noma ufuna ukuqhubekela phambili, noma udinga ukuyeka…”. Ngakho-ke, kuqhume ! Ngokuvamile kuba ngakusasa, ngesikhathi sasekuseni, lapho imininingwane izobuya kuye. Futhi qala ngokuxoxa indaba yakho! Buza imibuzo ethile, izokwazi ukuchofoza! "Udlale nobani?" “,” Sithini isihloko sezinkondlo zakho? »… Futhi ezinganeni, mcele ukuba acule imvumelwano ayifundayo. Okungcono nakakhulu: "Ingabe udlale ibhola noma i-leapfrog?" “Uzokuphendula njalo” oh yebo, ngidanse! “.

Ukulinda akusho ukungenzi lutho

“Uma ingahambi noma unokungabaza, iyadingeka yenza i-aphoyintimenti kusenesikhathi, ngisho kusukela ngo-September, ukuze achazele uthisha izici ezingavamile zengane yakho, nokuthi uyazi ukuthi kunezimpawu ezincane zokungaphatheki kahle, kweluleka u-Elodie Langman. Ukuthi akukona okungathí sina nokuthi kunesikhathi esivamile sokuzivumelanisa nezimo, futhi iqiniso lokuvimbela isikhungo sezinkinga ezincane aliphikisani! Ngempela, lapho inkosi noma inkosikazi iyazi ukuthi ingane usizi, noma bethukile, uzoqaphela. Ngisho nangokwengeziwe uma ingane yakho izwela futhi yesaba uthisha wayo, kubalulekile ukuhlangana nayo. “Lokhu kusiza ukwakha isimo sokwethembana”,kuphetha uthisha!