Sawubona, bafundi abathandekayo besayithi! Namuhla sizokhuluma ngalokho okushiwo uhlobo lomuntu we-hyperthymic. Sifunda izici zakhe eziyinhloko zomlingiswa, kanye nezinsiza nokulinganiselwa.
Isici esiyinhloko
Lokhu kugqamisa umlingiswa kungokujabulisa kakhulu nethemba phakathi kwabanye. Abantu abanjalo cishe bahlale bejabule, bakhuthele futhi babhekana kalula nobunzima, ababubona njengethuba lokuba namandla nokuqina.
Imvamisa bafinyelela ukuphakama okuhle emisebenzini yabo, njengoba belangazelela umsebenzi futhi bathathe isinyathelo, bazizame emisebenzini ehlukene noma bamane benze imisebenzi abayabelwe yona ibe nzima.
Ngokuvamile baphakathi kokunakwa, kunzima ukungaqapheli umuntu okwazi ukwenza izinto eziyikhulu ngesikhathi esisodwa phakathi nosuku, kuyilapho ekwazi ukuxhumana nawo wonke umuntu ongena endleleni yakhe.
Ngendlela, bangabaxhumanisi abahle kakhulu, abakwazi ukudonsa ngengxoxo, bajabule. Bazi amahlaya amaningi futhi banamancoko.
Kodwa akuzona zonke izinto eziphelele njengoba kubonakala ekuqaleni. Uhlobo lomuntu lwe-hyperthymic lungaphula imithetho, imithetho, izindinganiso zokuziphatha, njengoba lungakwazi ukubhekana necala nokuzisola.
Unembeza awuthuthuki, isifiso sokuzijabulisa siyabusa, ngisho noma imiphumela yezenzo iba buhlungu. Akafuni ukucabanga ngobubi, ngakho ukulungele ukuzifaka engozini engenasizathu.
Ukucabanga kuyashesha, ngakho bangamawala, bayakhuluma. Ukuzijabulisa ngokweqile ngezinye izikhathi kukhathaza abathandekayo, okuwela phezu kwabo umthwalo wemfanelo wonke, okunganakwa yi-hyperthyms. Imicabango iyagxuma, ayikwazi ukuhlala isikhathi eside esihlokweni esisodwa, uma nje ithola isithukuthezi.
Lolu hlobo lubonakala ngendlela efanayo ekuhlukaniseni izilinganiso zomlingiswa, kokubili ngokusho kukaLeonhard noLichko. Izibonelo ezicacile: umlingisi oyinhloko wefilimu ethi "Truffaldino waseBergamo", owakwazi ukuqasha inceku kubantu ababili ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngenkathi ehlela nokuphila kwakhe siqu. Noma uJimm Carrey, ngaphezu kokuba ubuntu be-hyperthymic kuye ngokwakhe, futhi wembula ngokugcwele izici ze-psychotype kumafilimu i-Mask ne-Ace Ventura.
Detstvo
Izingane zinomsindo futhi zinonya. Ngemuva kwabo udinga iso neso, njengoba bengazizwa benamahloni futhi bajwayelane kalula nabantu abadala, befuna ukushintsha amagama ambalwa.
Izingane zesikole zivame ukweqa amakilasi, ngoba ziya esikhungweni semfundo nsuku zonke, ngoba kudingekile - azikwazi.
Nakuba ukufunda kulula kubo, ulwazi olusha lubanjwa ngokushesha. Ingabe uyazazi izindaba ezimayelana nabafundi abaqala ukufunda izinto ezibonakalayo ngobusuku bangaphambi kokuhlolwa? Ngakho-ke, ngasikhathi sinye, i-hyperthyms ikwazi ukuyidlulisa ngokuphelele.
Intsha ibonakala ingenandaba ngokuphelele futhi inganaki, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi eminyakeni yayo kufanele kakade ibe nezibopho ezincane, imisebenzi. Futhi nakuba cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi besesimweni esihle sengqondo, bayakwazi futhi ukuzwa ukudabuka, bazama nje ukungakubonisi kwabanye.
Imizamo yabantu abadala yokubajwayeza ukuyala noma ukunciphisa intando yabo iphetha ngezingxabano ezinkulu. Ngoba, naphezu kokuzijabulisa, bayashesha ukucasuka.
Bangaba luhlaza, bamemeze, bakhulume kabuhlungu, kodwa ngokoqobo ngemva komzuzu bayazola. Okusho ukuthi abaqoqi ukushuba, abathuli ngenhlamba.
Ababubekezeleli isizungu, bahlale bedinga ukukhulumisana, okungenani okunye. Uma kungenjalo, amandla abangawakhiphi ngaphandle aqala ukucekela phansi impilo yabo futhi abaphushele ezenzweni zokuxhamazela.
Ngokwesibonelo, baziphatha kabi ngokuthandana. Ukuxhumana nomuntu ongaziwa emgwaqeni omnyama akuyona neze inkinga kumuntu onalokhu kugqamisa umlingiswa. Akacabangi nakancane ukuthi ukujwayelana okunjalo kungaba yingozi kuye.
Ukomela i-adventure, ukukhulumisana kuvame ukuholela eqinisweni lokuthi osemusha onjalo uphakathi kwabantu abaphila impilo ye-asocial. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi kusukela esemncane uzama utshwala, ugwayi, izidakamizwa.
Yiqiniso, ukuzijabulisa okunjalo akuvamile ukuba umlutha. Nalapha futhi, ngenxa yokuthi unesithakazelo sokufunda ngezwe, yingakho engahlali isikhathi eside eqenjini noma enkampanini eyodwa kuphela.
Umsebenzi wobungcweti
Naphezu kwesikhundla sokuphila esisebenzayo kanye nempumelelo ezuzwa yi-hyperthym ngenxa yesifiso esingenakuphikwa sokwenza nokuthuthukisa, usabeka ingozi yokuzithola esesimweni esinzima, isibonelo, ukuletha ibhizinisi lakhe ekuqoqweni.
Futhi konke ngoba akavamile ukuqeda izinto. Ngokuvamile ulahlekelwa isithakazelo phakathi nendlela, futhi akukho lutho olungamenza asebenze emsebenzini obekwe ngaphambili.
Ngakho-ke, impumelelo yomsebenzi ayiwona umphumela womsebenzi wakhe onzima nobuhlungu, kodwa lokho akutholayo ngenxa yokuba sengozini kwakhe. Kusho ukuthi uyakwazi ukubeka yonke into engcupheni, abeke engcupheni yokusala emgwaqeni uma kwenzeka elahlekelwa. Kodwa, uma unqobile, kuyoba yinhlanhla engelona iqiniso.
Akakwazi ukunikela impilo yakhe yonke emsebenzini owodwa, futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, endaweni eyodwa. Ngemva kokufunda indawo eyodwa, ulahlekelwa isithakazelo kuyo futhi ngokushesha ushintshela embonini ehluke ngokuphelele, enquma ukuzizama ebhizinisini elisha. Futhi, okumangazayo kakhulu, uyakwazi ukuthola umphumela oyifunayo.
ubuhlobo
Empilweni yomndeni, abantu abane-hyperthymic accentuation of character abajwayeleki kakhulu. Imizwa iqhuma ngaso leso sikhathi, ezinsukwini ezimbalwa bayabona ukuthi sebethandana futhi bahlela umshado, kodwa ngomzuzwana baphole kakhulu futhi bashintshele komunye umuntu. Nokuzizwa ukuthi bamthanda ngenhliziyo yami yonke.
Ukuphila kuyabakhathaza, ngakho-ke, banesithukuthezi, bazozama ukubheka ukuzijabulisa, indawo yokuphuma. Ngokuvamile, ukuze ugcine umlingani emndenini, kuyadingeka ukuthi ukwazi ukudala izingxabano ukuze uzithakazelise ukuze uhlale useduze.
Izinga eliphansi lomthwalo wemfanelo liholela eqinisweni lokuthi bangase bakhohlwe ukuthatha ingane esikoleni noma enkulisa. Noma, lapho beye esitolo, futhi behlangana nomuntu ojwayelekile, bazolahleka naye izinsuku ezimbalwa, ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi umndeni awuqondi ukuthi kwenzekeni.
Ngakho, nabo, nakuba engazinzile, kodwa kumnandi. Ubudlelwano bunikeza imizwa eminingi emihle, yonke imihlangano iyiholide. Babheka kahle, ekhanda labo kunemibono eminingi yokwenza i-banal date engavamile, kangangokuthi ikhanda labo lijikeleza ngenxa yobuningi bemizwa.
Bangabangane abahle, njengoba bezosiza ngaphandle kokungabaza umzuzwana. Noma bebafonela phakathi kwamabili bacele ukuthi beze kwenye indawo edolobheni.
Indlu ivame ukugcwala izivakashi, ezilungele ukuzibona nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sosuku. Lokhu kuvame ukuholela ezingxabanweni nomlingani womndeni. Akubona bonke abanelisekile ngokuthi kufika abantu abangabazi ngokuphelele emzini wakhe futhi ngezinye izikhathi bahlala isikhathi esingenamkhawulo, bephila sengathi basehostela.
Uma ubacasula ngeke bafihle ububi. Bazomane baveze abangakuthandanga, futhi bazoqhubeka nokuxhumana sengathi akwenzekanga lutho.
Ukuhamba kalula, udinga nje ukukhuluma ngohlobo oluthile lohambo, njengoba sebezopakisha izikhwama zabo futhi bashayele abangani ukuze bahlale behambisana nabo.
Izincomo
- Nikeza ingane yakho ithuba lokukhulula amandla. Uma imibuthano ehlukahlukene ikhathaza ezinye izingane, ngokuphambene nalokho, izonikeza amandla nesisusa sokuthuthukisa. Yebo, futhi uzokwenza inkinga encane uma ethanda ezemidlalo nokudala.
- Mphathise ngezindaba zenhlangano, isibonelo, makashuthe ividiyo yokuhalalisela omunye wamalungu omndeni, lapho wonke umuntu omaziyo ethi izifiso ezifudumele zokuhlonipha usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa. Ngokuvamile, akufanele umphoqelele ukuthi enze lokho angakuthandi, okungukuthi, ukwenza umsebenzi onzima. Dala izimo kuye, lapho, ngokuphambene nalokho, ezokwazi ukubona amandla akhe.
- Uma unalo mlingiswa, qiniseka ukuthi uyangena emidlalweni, uzindle, ubhukude, ugijime. Kubalulekile hhayi kuphela ukuqaphela amandla aqoqiwe, kodwa futhi nokufunda ukuphumula.
- Thola incwajana ozobhala kuyo imibono yakho, izinhlelo kanye nemizwa enqwabelene. Kuyadingeka ukuthi kancane kancane uzijwayeze ukukhombisa, okungukuthi, ukuzibandakanya ekuzazini. Lokhu kuzokwandisa izinga lokuzithiba, isiyalo.
Ukugcwaliswa
Futhi yilokho kuphela okwanamuhla, bafundi abathandekayo! Sincoma ukuthi uzijwayeze ngazo zonke izinhlobo ezikhona zokugcizelela izinhlamvu ukuze unqume ukuthi ungowakuphi.
Yebo, futhi ulwazi olunjalo luzosiza ekusunguleni oxhumana nabo nabanye abantu abahlukile kuwe, okuyinto ngezinye izikhathi imbangela yokungaqondi nokungqubuzana.
Ungaqala, isibonelo, ngokugcizelela okuphambene ngokuphelele ne-hyperthymic. Abantu abanjalo, ngokuphambene nalokho, bahlale becindezelekile futhi bedangele, yingakho ngokuvamile “bawela” esimweni sokucindezeleka.
Zinakekele futhi ujabule!
Indaba ilungiswe isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, i-Gestalt Therapist, uZhuravina Alina