Okuqukethwe
Abaningi bethu bayavuma ukuthi izinga lezinto ezibonakalayo elihloniphekile lisivumela ukuba sihlele ikusasa ngokuzola nangokuzethemba, sinikeze usizo kwabathandekayo, futhi sivule amathuba amasha okuzazi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ezikhathini eziningi thina ngokwethu siyenqabela inhlalakahle yezezimali singanakile. Kungani futhi sibeka kanjani le migoqo yangaphakathi?
Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi ukwesaba imali ngokuvamile akubonakali, sithola izizathu ezinhle zokuthethelela isimo samanje. Yiziphi izinkolelo ezingenangqondo ezivame ukungena endleleni yethu?
"Isitimela sihambile", noma i-syndrome yamathuba aphuthelwe
"Yonke into ihlukaniswe isikhathi eside, ngaphambi kokuthi kudingeke ukuthi kuhambe", "yonke into ezungezile ingenxa yokufumbathisa", "Ngihlola ngokucophelela amandla ami" - le yindlela esivame ukuthethelela ngayo ukungasebenzi kwethu. “Kwabaningi kubonakala sengathi kwake kwaba nezikhathi ezibusisekile abaphuthelwa kuzo ngesizathu esithile, futhi manje akusasizi ukwenza lutho,” kuchaza isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uMarina Myaus. - Lesi sikhundla sokungenzi lutho senza kube nokwenzeka ukuba ube yingxenye yesisulu, uthole ilungelo lokungenzi lutho. Nokho, ukuphila kusinikeza inhlobonhlobo yamathuba, futhi kukithi ukukhetha ukuthi siwasebenzise kanjani.”
Amathuba okulahlekelwa abathandekayo
Imali isinika izinsiza zokuguqula izimpilo zethu. Izinga lokunethezeka liyakhula, singahamba kakhulu, sithole okuhlangenwe nakho okusha. Nokho, ekujuleni kwemiphefumulo yethu, sinomuzwa wokuthi bangaqala ukuba nomona. “Ngokungazi, siyesaba ukuthi uma siphumelela, bazoyeka ukusithanda nokusamukela,” kuphawula uMarina Myaus. "Ukwesaba ukwenqatshwa nokuphuma ku-loop kungasivimba ukuthi siqhubekele phambili."
Ukukhula kwesibopho
Ibhizinisi elingase libe yindawo yethu futhi kuphela indawo yethu yesibopho, futhi lo mthwalo, cishe, ngeke kwabelwane ngawo nanoma ubani. Kuyoba nesidingo sokuhlale ucabanga ngebhizinisi lakho, ukuthola ukuthi unganqoba kanjani izimbangi, okusho ukuthi izinga lokucindezeleka lizokhula nakanjani.
Imicabango yokuthi asikakalungeli
“Umuzwa wokuthi asikakavuthwa ngokomsebenzi ukuze sifune ukukhushulelwa esikhundleni usikisela ukuthi cishe siholwa ingane engaphakathi ekhululeke kakhudlwana ukuyeka imithwalo yemfanelo yabantu abadala ngenxa yesikhundla esizolile sobusana,” kusho uMarina Myaus. Njengomthetho, umuntu uzithethelela ngokuthi akanalo ulwazi olwanele noma isipiliyoni ngakho-ke akafanelekeli inani elikhulu lomsebenzi wakhe.
Izibonakalisa kanjani?
Singakwazi ukwethula ngokuphelele umkhiqizo noma isevisi yethu, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo wesaba ukuphakamisa isihloko semali. Kwezinye izimo, yilokhu okusivimbayo lapho sifuna ukuqala amabhizinisi ethu. Futhi uma umkhiqizo uthengiswa, kodwa iklayenti alijahile ukulikhokhela, siyasigwema lesi sihloko esibucayi.
Abanye besifazane abasabalalisi bezimonyo bazidayisela abangani babo ngezindleko zabo, bechaza ukuthi kuwumsebenzi wabo wokuzilibazisa. Kunzima ngokwengqondo ukuthi baqale ukwenza imali ngomsebenzi wabo. Sixhumana ngokuzethemba neklayenti, sakha inkhulumomphendvulwano ngokufanele, kodwa-ke, ngokushesha nje lapho kufika ukukhokha, izwi lethu liyashintsha. Sibonakala sixolisa futhi sizizwa sinamahloni.
Yini engenziwa?
Zilolonge kusengaphambili futhi urekhode kuvidiyo ukuthi uzwakalisa kanjani izindleko zamasevisi akho kuklayenti noma ukhulume ngephromoshini nabaphathi bakho. “Zicabange ungumuntu osenebhizinisi eliphumelelayo, udlale indima yomuntu okwazi ukukhuluma ngemali ngokuzethemba,” kusikisela umqeqeshi wokukhuthaza uBruce Stayton. – Uma ukwazi ukudlala lesi sigcawu ngendlela ekholisayo, sidlale izikhathi eziningi. Ekugcineni, uzothola ukuthi ungaxoxa ngalezi zihloko ngomoya ophansi, futhi uzokhuluma ngokuzenzakalelayo ngephimbo elisha.
Asikho isidingo sokwesaba ukuphupha, kodwa kubalulekile ukuhlanganisa iphupho futhi uliguqule libe uhlelo lwebhizinisi, ubhale phansi isu ngesinyathelo. "Uhlelo lwakho kufanele lube oluvundlile, okungukuthi, lufake izinyathelo ezithile, ezincane," kuchaza uMarina Myaus. "Ukugxila esicongweni sempumelelo kungasebenza ngokumelene nawe uma ukhathazeke kakhulu ngokungawufinyeleli umgomo wakho wokunqoba ohlosiwe uze uyeke ukwenza noma yini."
“Ukubona ngeso lengqondo lokho kanye oyidingayo imali ngokuvamile kungase kukusize ekukhuthazeni ukuba uthathe isinyathelo,” kusho uBruce Staton. - Ngemuva kokuthi udwebe uhlelo lwebhizinisi lwesinyathelo ngesinyathelo, chaza ngokuningiliziwe wonke amabhonasi amnandi azolethwa ngamathuba wezinto ezibonakalayo empilweni yakho. Uma lokhu kuyizindlu ezintsha, ukuhamba noma ukusiza abathandekayo, chaza ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi indlu entsha izobukeka kanjani, yiziphi amazwe ozobona, ukuthi ungajabulisa kanjani abathandekayo bakho.