Ama-Extroverts aphikisana nama-introverts. Izici zabo eziyinhloko zomlingiswa ziwukuthola amandla abo ekuxhumaneni nabanye futhi baveze. Amaphutha abo, okuhlanganisa neqiniso lokungalaleli kakhulu, angacasula ikakhulukazi ama-introverts. 

Kwakuyisazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Carl Gustav Yung owachaza izici ezimbili zomlingiswa: introversion, kanye ne-extraversion. Ama-introverts anamandla abheke ngaphakathi (imizwa nemizwa yawo) kanti ama-extroverts anamandla abheke ngaphandle (abantu, amaqiniso, izinto). I-adjective extrovert ibhekisela kunoma yimuphi umuntu obonakala nge-extroversion (isimo sengqondo somuntu osungula kalula ukuxhumana nabanye futhi aveze imizwa ngokuzithandela). 

I-extrovert izenzakalela, iyaxoxisana, ifuna ukwazi, iyasebenza, iyakha ... I-introvert iyacabanga, ihlaziya, ijulile, igxeka, inokubona kude, iyazwela ...

Ama-Extroverts ngokwemvelo asebenza kakhulu, acacile, anomdlandla, anobudlelwane kunama-introverts agodliwe, ahlakaniphile kubo. Baxhumana kalula. Egunjini eligcwele abantu, bazokhuluma nabantu abaningi ngezinto ezikha phezulu. Baveza imizwa yabo kalula. 

Abantu abaphumayo bayakujabulela ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini yeqembu, njengamaphathi. Ukuxhumana nabanye ukuthi badonsa amandla abo (ngenkathi abantu abangenalwazi bethola amandla abo emcabangweni, isizungu noma nezihlobo ezimbalwa kuphela). 

Basheshe bakhathale esifundweni futhi bathanda ukuthola nokuzilolongela imisebenzi eminingi. 

Abantu abadabukile banamaphutha angacasula labo abangewona ama-extroverts. 

Abantu abakhululekile bavame ukukhuluma kakhulu futhi balalele abanye kancane. Bangenza izinto noma basho izinto ngaphandle kokucabanga futhi ngaleyo ndlela bazwise ubuhlungu. 

Bangase bangabi nambono ngabo futhi bathambekele ekubeni abakha phezulu.

Uma uhlala noma umuntu othandana naye, yazi ukuthi ukuze ajabule, oshade naye udinga ukuzungezwa, ukuchitha isikhathi nabangane noma ngisho nabantu ongabazi, ukuthi udinga izinto zokuzijabulisa ukuze amenze azizwe efanelekile futhi ukuba namandla, nokuba wedwa kungathatha amandla amaningi.

Ukuxhumana nabantu abakhubazekile, 

• Banikeze izimpawu eziningi zokuqashelwa nokunaka (badinga ukulalelwa futhi babonwe)
• Kwazise ikhono labo lokuqala imisebenzi nezingxoxo
• Ungabaphazamisi lapho ukhuluma, ukuze bakwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga futhi bacacise imibono yabo
• Phuma wenze izinto nabo
• Hlonipha isidingo sabo sokuba nabanye abangane babo