I-Psychology

Endlini engajwayelekile nasezweni angalazi akukhululekile. Njalo manje uyesaba ukwenza iphutha. Okugqamayo yilokhu okubizwa ngamasiko, kodwa angiwazi...

Phakathi neminyaka yakhe encane, u-Kostya washintsha imisebenzi eminingi. Hhayi ngoba engumuntu wezingxabano - isimo emakethe sasishintsha ngokushesha. Okokuqala, umfundi afunda naye esikoleni wamyenga ngokuhlela enkampanini enyathelisayo, ayeyihola ngokwakhe. Kwabonakala kuyinhlanhla engakaze ibonwe - ubudlelwano buhle, ukwamukelwa okuhle kuqinisekisiwe. Ekuqaleni, kwaba kanjalo. Amadili omndeni, izimpelasonto ezivamile.

Kodwa indaba yaqala ukuwohloka ngokungabonakali. Abazange baphawule nokuthi basuka kanjani ekushicileleni izincwadi baye ekwenzeni izincwajana, base beya emabhejini emikhosi nezingqungquthela.

Kwakungasekho ukujwayelana komndeni emsebenzini olandelayo, nakuba isitayela singokwentando yeningi. Kanye nomphathi, indoda engaphansi kwamashumi amahlanu, wonke umuntu wayeku-"wena". Wasebenza, wacasuka, wakhipha ngezwi eliphansi, sengathi umema itiye. Kwabe sekuba nenkampani ebaluleke kakhulu, futhi ubudlelwano kuyo babunzima kakhulu, buhambisana nezikhundla. Lo mthethonqubo, nokho, wakhokhelwa kakhulu.

Futhi konke kuzolunga. Kodwa isiphetho saphakamisa u-Kostya esikhundleni senhloko yomnyango wenkampani enkulu. Abantu beza nolwazi lwabo, okuhlanganisa nendlela yokuxhumana eyamukelwa emsebenzini wabo wangaphambili. Zontathu izindlela ezejwayelekile zebhizinisi bezilapha. Nokho, manje yena ngokwakhe waba isishayamthetho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi indlela oyikhethayo, ukuhlekwa usulu ngabanye, ukuphoxwa abanye, ukungaqondi kahle kwabanye akunakugwenywa. Kungaba kanjani?

Udinga ukwazi ukuzivumelanisa nawo wonke umuntu, kuyilapho ungakhohlwa ngezinzuzo zecala

Isitayela siyavumelana nezimo, umuntu ngamunye kanye nesiko ngesikhathi esifanayo.

Kuyadingeka ukuthi uphendule ekulindelwe omunye, hhayi ukulahlekelwa wena futhi ufeze umgomo wakho. Njengoba eyindoda ekhululekile, uPushkin wenza umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu ngalokhu.

Ezincwadini, wayejwayele ukujwayela indlela yokuxhumana, ekhumbula umbuthano wezithakazelo zakhe, ekhumbula ukuthanda kwakhe nokubikezela. Futhi uma kunesidingo, mayelana nesikhundla sakhe senhlalo. Ukhuluma nomngane wakhe oseduze uNashchokin: "Sawubona, Pavel Voinovich othandekayo ...".

Kumkakhe: "Wena, mkami, awunaki kakhulu (ngabhala igama ngenkani)." Usayina incwadi eya ku-Benckendorff, ebuka zonke izifenqo zenkulumo, kodwa elingisa ubuqotho: “Ngomuzwa wenhlonipho ejulile nokuzinikela okusuka enhliziyweni, nginelungelo lokuba, umbusi onomusa, Ohloniphekile, Ohloniphekile, inceku ethobeke kakhulu ...” ku. Isikhathi ngasinye, ubheka ubuhlakani nesilinganiso, akangeni ekujwayeleni noma ekukhonzeni, ulula, ubucayi futhi unobungane. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, yonke indawo - yena, Pushkin.

Lokhu kudingwa yinoma yibuphi ubudlelwano, okuhlanganisa nebhizinisi. Akudingekile ukugxila kuma-stereotypes (nakuba upende noma imininingwane ingaba usizo kumodeli ngayinye), kodwa phuma kuwe, esimweni sakho sengqondo kubantu. Ukukhumbula inzuzo yembangela.

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