Okuqukethwe
Saxoxa no Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo somndeni uNatalia Varskaya.
Isizathu 1: Okulindelwe Okuphezulu
Isibonelo: Ngangifuna ukuya eSpain, kodwa nginemali eyanele kuphela ye-Gelendzhik noma i-Anapa. Futhi akunjalo nhlobo...
Yini okudingeka uyenze ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uyalijabulela iholidi lakho? Bhala phansi amandla akho kanye nobuthakathaka bakho ephepheni. Amakholomu amabili. Kwesokunxele, ubhala ngokwethembeka, isibonelo: “Anginayo imali eningi.” Cabanga ngalo musho. Usetha inani ongayabela iholide. Futhi uyavuma: 1) kuzodingeka ukuthi uqhubeke kusukela kulesi samba; 2) injabulo ngesikhathi samaholide ayincikile kakhulu emalini. Abaningi bahamba ngesabelomali, ngisho namatende, futhi banelisekile. Konke kungaphakathi kwethu: hlobo luni lwemizwa umuntu alethe eholidini, uzochitha isikhathi nomuntu onjalo lapho.
– Kuthiwani uma isimo sezulu sisibi? Akuncikile kumuntu.
- Kufanele sivumelane nathi kanye kuphela: uma singakwazi ukuthonya ezinye izinto (isimo sezulu, izenzakalo zemvelo), kufanele siyeke ukucabanga ngalokhu. Ishawa? Hamba uye echibini. Ingabe likhona ichibi eduze? Bheka ngefasitela futhi uqonde: imvula ngeke ihlale unomphela (Yebo, uma ngobuwula ungazange ukhethe ukuya eThailand ngesikhathi semvula). Mangithi ngiyabonga vele ngokuthi uphefumula eholidini awufani nhlobo nomoya onawo edolobheni elinegesi. Kufanele ekugcineni sizuze umkhuba wokubonga ngakho konke.
Isizathu 2: Angikaze ngithole uthando
Kwabanye, iholidi liwumgomo wokuthola umngane, kodwa namanje akekho.
- Eqinisweni, awudingi ukuba uzinikeze noma yiziphi izinhlelo zeholide, awudingi ukulinda imihlangano enekusasa. Akube njalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane abafuna ukubukeka okungajabulisi - ngokubukeka okuhlaziya, njengoba uGosha eshilo efilimini ethi "IMoscow Ayikholelwa Ezinyembezini."
Isizathu 3: Izintshisekelo azifani
Isibonelo, owesifazane unquma: "Ngizokwenza konke ngendlela ezothakazelisa kakhulu hhayi kimi, kodwa ezinganeni zami, umyeni wami ..." Ekamu eliseduze kwase-Astrakhan, umbhali wahlangana nomndeni obusuka e-Astrakhan. Chelyabinsk kuphela lapho iminyaka engu-13! Umyeni uyadoba, kodwa indodakazi nenkosikazi abazi ukuthi benzeni ...
- Kukhona enye yezinto ezimbili: phumula futhi ujabule, noma umbhikisho. Okokuqala, umfazi angazama ukuthandana nalokhu kudoba, azithathele yena, ngendlela, lokhu kuyinto ejabulisayo ngempela. Ngaba necala lapho umkami ehileleke kakhulu ekudobeni kangangokuthi umyeni wakhe wayengasakwazi ukumhudula. Uma wenzela othandekayo okuthile, kwenze ngenjabulo nangokuzithandela. Akekho odinga izisulu. Ingabe ubaba uyodoba? Kuhle! Futhi mina nendodakazi yami - siye endaweni yokungcebeleka. Ayikho imali ye-resort? Ake sibale ukuthi kuthatha malini kimi nendodakazi yami uma sihamba nawe eduze kwase-Astrakhan, futhi sizame ukuhlangabezana nenani elifanayo ngokuya kwenye indawo.
Isizathu 4: Umehluko phakathi kwamaholide kanye nesimiso somsebenzi
Kubi uma umuntu ebuyela emsebenzini ongawuthandi, ngoba abantu baphuthelwa umsebenzi abawuthandayo ngisho naseholidini, naphezu kwemizwelo ecacile kakhulu.
- Hhayi-ke, uma umsebenzi ungathandwa, udinga ukuthola okuthile okuzokukhanga. Isibonelo, umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa: uzolindela ukuthi ekugcineni uzodansa ngoLwesithathu noma wenze i-floristry ngoLwesine. Khona-ke ngeke kube khona umehluko onjalo phakathi kweholide lapho wenze okuthile khona kanye nesimiso.
- Kuneseluleko esinjalo esivamile: ukuze ugweme ukudangala kwangemva kweholide, udinga ukubuya ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi komsebenzi ...
– Inezinhlamvu ezinengqondo, kodwa hhayi wonke umuntu. Kumuntu, ngokuphambene nalokho, kulula ukusuka emkhunjini ukuya ngqo ebholeni.
Isizathu sesi-5: Ayikho imali esele
Isibonelo: ngemva kweholide, ngangifuna ukuthengela umkami amakha amahle ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, kodwa-ke kuvela ukuthi kusetshenziswe okuningi eholidini kunalokho ababeya khona.
"Myeke umuntu akhulume ngalento, kulungile!" Lena into ewumgomo: uma imali ingekho, kuba lusizi. Ungakwazi ukweluleka ukusabalalisa isabelomali, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu, maye, ongafunda lokhu. Kumele samukele: ayikho imali manje, kodwa izoba khona kamuva. Ungabuyekeza isithombe esivela eholidini: lapha, bathi, ukuthi bekukuhle kangakanani lapha, okusho ukuthi imali ayizange ichithwe. Nakuba ... kunengozi yokuthi othile abuke izithombe bese ecabanga: pho, kungani ngichithe imali yami eyisebenze kanzima ngalokhu? Ukuthi nje abanye bayathanda ukuhogela nokungagculiseki ngakho konke. Lena indlela yabo yokuphila. Banezinto zokuzilibazisa ezingenalutho baze bagcwalise ngokungabi nandaba, ngaphandle kwalokho abaqondi ukuthi yini enye abangakhuluma ngayo nabantu.
Konje
“Elinye lamakhasimende ami laya e-Afrika neqembu labangane,” kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo. - Futhi wazithumela ezinkundleni zokuxhumana: nangu ubhekene nesizinda sempophoma, lapha ngokumelene nesizinda sewa elihle ... Wabe esekhuluma iqiniso: konke mayelana ne-Photoshop, asuse ngayo imigqa emikhulu yezivakashi ngaphambili futhi emva kwakhe. Futhi ngafaka umbala oluhlaza sasibhakabhaka (eqinisweni, bekuguqubele). Nasi isithombe ku-inthanethi. Ngakho-ke ungajahi ukuba nomona izithombe nezindaba ezithandekayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana!
Ukusebenzisa okuhle
– Ekuqaleni, sikhuluma mayelana nokulindela okukhulu, sapenda ephepheni ubuhle nobubi beholide elizayo. Kwaphela kanjalo-ke. Kungenzeka yini ukusebenzisa isimiso sephepha ngemva kweholide?
“Iphepha liyinto ewusizo. Ake sithi umuntu uphatheke kabi ngemva kweholide. Uhlala phansi abhale kukholamu yesokunxele ukuthi kwenzekeni okubi. Isibonelo: "Yonke into yayiyisicefe." Kwenye ikholomu, lalisetshenziswa kanjani leli holide, ngokwesibonelo: “Ngobunye ubusuku ngahlangana nomdidiyeli wezinyokanyoka.” Bese umvumele acabange ukuthi angazisebenzisa kanjani izikhathi ezinhle. Omunye, mhlawumbe, uzobhala ngakho enkundleni yokuxhumana nabantu, omunye uzodweba isithombe - futhi athole amakhono omdwebi kuye. Umuntu uzoqala ukufunda indawo ayejule kuyo. Udinga ukunweba lo muzwa omuhle empilweni yakho.