Okuqukethwe
Ukulahlekelwa inkumbulo, ubunzima bokukhuluma, ukudideka ngesikhathi nendawo… Ngokuqaphela lezi nezinye izimpawu zokuwohloka komqondo kubaba noma umama osekhulile, izingane zabo zithola uphawu lokuthi umndeni usuzobhekana nezinguquko ezinkulu. Eyokuqala nokuyinhloko okuwukuzungezisa izindima.
Ukuzibophezela ngokugcwele ngezimpilo zabazali asebekhulile… ngezinye izikhathi asinakho okunye esingakwenza. Ukuwohloka kwenkumbulo, ukucabanga, ukuziphatha - ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kancane kancane kushintsha ubuntu besihlobo esikhulile futhi kuguqule impilo yomndeni wonke phezulu.
Udokotela wezifo zengqondo uKarine Yeganyan uthi: “Kunzima ukuqaphela nokwamukela iqiniso lokuthi umzali akasakwazi ukunquma ukuthi uhlala kanjani futhi kuphi, kanjani futhi nobani kunzima. - Isimo sivame ukuba nzima ngokuphikiswa kwesiguli uqobo. Abaningi babo bavikela ukuzimela kwabo futhi bayenqaba ukwamukela usizo, nakuba bengakwazi ukubhekana nokuphila kwansuku zonke: bakhohlwa ukudla nokuphuza imithi, bacime igesi, bangalahleka noma bakhiphe yonke imali esitolo.”
Izingane ezikhulile ngeke zidinge nje ukuletha uyise noma unina kudokotela, kodwa futhi zihlele inqubo yokunakekelwa iminyaka ezayo.
Sesha ukuvumelana
Kunzima ukushintsha izindima nobaba, izolo ukuthethise ukuthi ubuye late ekhaya, akwenzeki ukuthi ume phambi kukamama onamandla ojwayele ukuphatha umuzi.
"Udlame ngeke lukhonjiswe," uqinisekile uKarine Yeganyan. “Ekuphenduleni ingcindezi, sithola ukumelana kanzima. Ukubamba iqhaza kochwepheshe, udokotela, usonhlalakahle noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kuzosiza lapha, ozosebenza njengomlamuleli, athole izingxabano ukuze uyihlo avume ukuvakashela umhlengikazi, futhi umama wakho anganqabi ukugqoka isongo se-geolocation lapho ukuphuma.”
Esigabeni lapho isihlobo sakho sihluleka khona ukuzikhonza, kufanele wenze ngobuhlakani, kodwa uqiniseke
“Ukuyisa isiguli ekhaya noma senza isinqumo ngokumelene nentando yaso, izingane ezikhulile ziziphatha njengabazali abaphoqelela imithetho enganeni encane: babonisa uzwela futhi babonise ukuqonda, kodwa basamile ngokuqinile, ngoba banesibopho sokuphila nempilo yayo. «.
Asinalo ilungelo lokufuna kuyise noma kumama osekhulile ukuthi: “Yenza njengoba ngishilo,” kodwa ngayo yonke inhlonipho efanele kufanele siphikelele ngokwethu, siqonde ukuthi sinomuntu ohlukile phambi kwethu onombono wakhe siqu, izahlulelo; kanye nolwazi. Ngisho noma lobu buntu buchithwa phambi kwamehlo ethu.
Isicelo sosizo
Kuyoba lula ngathi ukusebenzelana nesihlobo esisebenza kahle engqondweni yethu iba buthaka uma sikuqonda kahle okwenzekayo.
“Lokho umuntu osekhulile akushoyo nakwenzayo akuhambisani ngaso sonke isikhathi nalokho akucabangayo ngempela noma azizwa ngakho ngawe,” kuchaza uKarine Yeganyan. — Ukucasuka, ukufuthelana, ukushintshashintsha kwemizwa, ukumangalelwa (“akuvamisile ukuthi ushaye ucingo, awuthandi”), imibono eyinkohliso (“ufuna ukungixosha, ungifake ushevu, ungiphuce …”) ngokuvamile kuwumphumela wokuwohloka komqondo. . Isithombe sezwe lakhe siyashintsha, umuzwa wokuzinza, ukubikezela nokucaca kuyanyamalala. Futhi lokhu kubangela ukukhathazeka njalo kuye.
Ngokuvamile izingane zivame ukuzinikela ngokuphelele ekunakekeleni abathandekayo, zikholelwa ukuthi umsebenzi wazo wokuziphatha uwukuzinikezela okuphelele.
Isimo sengqondo esinjalo siyakhandla ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo futhi sibhebhethekisa kakhulu ubuhlobo bomkhaya.
“Ukufuna usizo kuyadingeka ukuze ukhuthazelele ukuhlolwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi,” kugcizelela udokotela wezifo zengqondo. — Zama ukugcina impilo yakho inezithakazelo zomuntu siqu nesikhathi samahhala. Hlukanisa izindima zakho ngangokunokwenzeka: abahlengikazi - namakhosikazi, izintombi ... «
Ngohlelo lokuvikela umphakathi, ungakwazi ukufaka umama noma ubaba eqenjini labanakekeli basemini noma ubathumele ekhaya lasebekhulile inyanga yonke — lena indlela engcono kakhulu yokululama. Xhumana nodokotela, ufunde izincwadi. Thola iqembu labantu abanomqondo ofanayo ku-inthanethi: labo abanakekela izihlobo bazokwabelana ngolwazi lwabo futhi banikeze ukwesekwa ezikhathini ezinzima.