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Amabhulogi obaba ayanda!
Wonke umuntu uyawazi amabhulogi omama, lezi zikhala zezingxoxo lapho omama babelana khona ngezinjabulo zansuku zonke nezithiyo zempilo yomndeni wabo. Eminyakeni yakamuva, obaba batshale imali kule niche ethembisayo. Igama lakhe ngu-“Till the cat”, “Je suis papa”, “Papa poule” futhi bazimisele ukwenza amazwi abo azwakale ensimini osekunesikhathi eside yahlala ingeyabesifazane. Lesi sizukulwane sobaba abangavinjelwe, i-Till the cat, ezichaza ngokuthi "i-daddy blogger dinosaur", cishe yambona ezalwa. Eminyakeni engu-8 edlule UBenjamin Buhot wanquma ukuba ngubaba wekhaya futhi kwakungokwemvelo ukuthi afune ukukhuluma ngomsebenzi wakhe omusha, ongelula ngaso sonke isikhathi.. Eyengwe ngaleso sikhathi inkambiso ethi “Umama omubi”, laba omama abahlakaza amazwi amahle okuba ngumama, uBenjamin ube esetshela ubaba wakhe ngendlela engathandeki nethoni enethemba eliqinile. Okokuqala ifundwe omama, Lize ikati lisheshe lamukelwe obaba abajabulela ukuqashelwa ekugcineni ngokuba umzali wabo. UBenjamin Buhot futhi uthola imilayezo eminingi evela kobaba abalingwa ulwazi lukababa ohlala ekhaya futhi abambonga ngokuyihlahlela indlela.
Obaba abapholile abafuna ubaba wabo ngokuzwakalayo nangokucacile
The obaba amabhulogi zihambisana ngokuphelele nalesi sizukulwane esisha sobaba abapholile nabazethembayo. “Ukubhuloga kuyindlela yalaba baba abasebasha yokukhuluma namanye amadoda ngobubaba nazo zonke izinxushunxushu ezizibangelayo”, kugcizelela uBenjamin Buhot. Kusukela ekuzalweni kwenkosikazi yabo kuya kukhilimu wakamuva wokuqubuka kwenabukeni ngokusebenzisa inkosazana yabo inkanuko ye-Frozen, Obaba 3.0 babhekana ngqo nazo zonke izifundo ezithakaselwa obaba… nomama. Abanye bakhuluma ngokuphila kwabo kwansuku zonke, abanye bakhuluma ngalokho abakutholile, imikhiqizo yokuhlola. Ku-"", u-Olivier ulandisa ngosizi lwakhe njengobaba osemusha ekufundeni. Unikeza iseluleko esiqondile ekukhetheni izinto zokunakekela izingane namathoyizi ezingane. Ukuze ahehe abafundi, uphinde athembele kokuqukethwe okuhlekisayo futhi ngezinye izikhathi okungenamsebenzi: "Izikhathi ezingu-10 zesizungu lapho unezingane", "izizathu ezingu-8 ezinhle zokuqamba amanga ezinganeni zakho". I-Multi-cap, ingatholakala esiteshini se-YouTube samadoda amaningi ngamavidiyo asebenzayo. Ubani owathi amadoda awalungile ukukhuluma ngamanabukeni alahlwayo? "", u-Aka Sébastien Thomas, uyavuma ukuthi udidekile ngokuphelele ngamadodakazi akhe amabili. “Ngakho-ke kwadingeka ngifunde ukuthi u-Hello Kitty wayengubani, umbala obomvana wawungumbala wokuqala nokuthi ufakwa kanjani ama-tight. Ngiphinde ngaba umlandeli we-Kindergarten… ”, uxwayisa ngaso leso sikhathi kubhulogi yakhe. Ukuthinta, uvusa ukuzijabulisa kwakhe "nabesifazane abathathu" bakhe ngomzwelo futhi ngaphandle kokuzithatha ngokungathi sína. “” Futhi akanalo ulimi ephaketheni lakhe. Futhi kusezithombeni lapho lo baba osemncane wendawo yonke ahlanganyela nathi ngezwe elimangalisayo lobuzali.
Ithoni ehlukile, isifiso esivamile: yazisa abazali
Ithoni, ukubukeka okuhlukile, mhlawumbe icala elincane kunanomama kanye nokuzenzakalela okwengeziwe, yilokho okwenza i-DNA yalawa mabhulogi obaba. Awukho umbango komama kwazise imvamisa yibona ababenza baziwe. Ndawonye, ngokuphambene nalokho, baphindaphinda ngokungapheli i-blogosphere yabazali abazali namuhla abangasakwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle kwayo. Obaba bedijithali ngokusobala babelana ngezigigaba zabo ku-Facebook, Instagram, Twitter. Isibonelo, uSimon Hooper, uyise wamantombazane amane (omdala eneminyaka engu-9, omncane kunabo bonke abangu-6 namawele unyaka ongu-1), unababhalisile abangu-478 ku-akhawunti yakhe ye-Instagram, enikezelwe emndenini wakhe. Ubaba ohlezi ekhaya ulandisa ngempilo yakhe evamile yansuku zonke ezithombeni, azenza zisonte.
Njengabanye omama, abanye baqala iziteshi zabo ze-YouTube njenge. Namuhla u-Benjamin Buhot ushiye isigqoko sakhe sikababa ohlala ekhaya ngenxa yesomhleli wewebhu nombhali (Le journal de moi… Papa, Larousse). Ngoba umlingo wokubhuloga futhi ukuthi ikuvumela ukuthi ubuyele kweminye imisebenzi ngokuhambisana nezifiso zakho. Ku-twitter, i-Till the cat ihlanganisa umphakathi okhulayo wabazali abasha, kodwa hhayi kuphela. Ukhuluma ngesikole, imidlalo, kodwa ne-TV, umculo, ukupheka… izihloko ezijwayelekile. “Asikwazi ukuhlala singu-100% webhulogi yethu kuze kube phakade, ngaphandle kwalokho sigcina sesihamba emibuthanweni,” usho kanje. Izingane ziyakhula, ukukhathazeka kuyashintsha. Sekuyisikhathi eside ngifake amanabukeni namabhodlela. “