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ngisebhasini. Bagcwele abantu. Umshayeli, ngokusobala, uyaphuthuma, ngoba ibhasi lethu aligcini nje ngokugijima ngesivinini esikhulu, umshayeli uphinde aqondise phakathi kwezimoto, njengemoto yamaphoyisa evela kumafilimu aseMelika.
Sonke siyagxuma futhi sicishe siwe ezihlalweni zethu singene emaphaseji. Manje, ngicabanga, ngizotshela umshayeli ukuthi akuzona izinkuni ezinenhlanhla. Kodwa ngangiphambi kowesifazane owayegone ingane eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala. Wasukuma wamemeza umshayeli ngolaka: “Kungani ushayela ngesivinini esingaka? Nginengane. Kuthiwani uma iphuka?"
Kuhle, ngicabanga, kodwa masilwe lapha sonke, abantu abadala abangu-30 bayinto engabalulekile, ngokusobala, futhi ngisho naye ngokwakhe nokuphila kwakhe akusizi lutho, into eyinhloko ukuthi ingane ayilimazi.
Ngiphethe ikilabhu yefilimu yamadokhumentari - sibuka amafilimu amahle bese sixoxa ngawo. Ngakho-ke sibuke ifilimu epholile mayelana nabafuduki bezisebenzi, kunengxoxo eshisayo.
Enye intokazi iyasukuma ithi: “Uyazi, ifilimu emnandi le. Ngabheka, angikwazanga ukuzidabula, kwangivula amehlo ezintweni eziningi. Ifilimu enhle kakhulu okufanele iboniswe ezinganeni. ” Ngithi kuye: “Kuthiwani ngabantu abadala, akunjalo?”
“Yebo,” esho ngezwi elinjalo, njengokungathi sisanda kuthola okuthile okubalulekile ndawonye, “ngempela, nakubantu abadala.”
Ngijabula kakhulu uma kunezikhungo ezimbili zokunakwa ezilinganayo emndenini, isikhungo sokuqala ngabantu abadala, okwesibili izingane
Manje ufuna ukudlala umdlalo? Ngizonitshela umusho, futhi niyokwengeza igama elilodwa kuwo. Isimo kuphela yilesi: udinga ukwengeza igama ngaphandle kokungabaza. Ngakho-ke, inkulumo ethi: isisekelo sosizo sosizo (intonation up) ...
Iliphi igama owalisho? Izingane? Kulungile, futhi nginomphumela ofanayo. Abangane bami abayisishiyagalolunye nabo bathi «izingane» futhi oyedwa waphendula ngokuthi «izilwane» ngaphandle kokungabaza.
Futhi manje ngifuna ukubuza: kuthiwani ngabantu abadala? Ingabe sinezimali eziningi zosizo lwabantu abadala eRussia futhi kulula yini ukuthi zisebenze? Impendulo isobala - kunezimali ezimbalwa ngokoqobo zokusiza abantu abadala abagula kakhulu, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuthola imali yokusiza abantu abadala, hhayi izingane.
Ubani ngempela odinga laba bantu abadala?
Ngijabula kakhulu lapho emndenini - ngisho nasemphakathini wonke - kunezikhungo ezimbili ezilinganayo zokunakwa, isikhungo sokuqala ngabantu abadala, okwesibili izingane.
Umngane wami uTanya walihamba lonke elaseYurophu nendodana yakhe eneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala uPetya. Ubaba kaPetya wayehlala eMoscow futhi wayenzela imali. Lapho eneminyaka eyisithupha, uPetya wayezimele futhi enobudlelwane kangangokuthi ehhotela wayevame ukuhlangana nabantu abadala.
Lapho ngolunye usuku sonke sihamba ndawonye sigibele amahhashi, uPetya wathi naye uzogibela, futhi umama wavuma, uPetya wanquma - wamyeka. Futhi nakuba, yebo, wayembhekile ngekhona leso lakhe, wayegibele ihhashi lakhe ngomoya ophansi njengawo wonke umuntu. Okusho ukuthi, akazange abambe phezu kwakhe futhi akazange anyakaze. Ngokuvamile, uPetya nonina, uTatyana, babeyinkampani enkulu komunye nomunye eholidini. Yebo, nami.
U-Tanya, ekuzalweni kwengane, akazange aqale ukuphila enye impilo, akazange aqale ukuzungeza uPetru omncane, njengoMhlaba ompunga ozungeze iLanga elikhanyayo, kodwa kancane kancane wangena kumfana empilweni ayeyiphila ngaphambi kwakhe. . Lokho, ngokubona kwami, uhlelo lomndeni olulungile.
Indoda ayiseyona indoda, ayisenandoda, ayisenamsebenzi, ayisenasithandwa, ayisenandoda. Ungu "baba". Nowesifazane ngokunjalo
Futhi nginabangane lapho ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu abadala nezingane buphambene ngqo nalokhu. Konke ekuphileni kwabo kuhlelwe ngendlela efanele izingane, futhi abazali bazitshela ukuthi bazokhuthazela. Futhi bayakhuthazela. Iminyaka. Manje u-Egor noDasha abaphumuli lapho befuna, kodwa lapho kulungele izingane, lapho ama-animators azofika egijima futhi enze izingane zizizwe kahle. Kuthiwani ngabantu abadala? Umbuzo wami engiwuthandayo.
Futhi abantu abadala abasabalulekile kubo. Manje balondoloza imali yosuku lokuzalwa lwezingane, yokuqasha i-cafe kanye nama-clowns, futhi abazange bazithengele lutho isikhathi eside. Baze balahlekelwa amagama abo, insizwa nentombi eneminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amathathu abasabizwa ngokuthi u-Yegor noDasha. Uthi kuye: “Baba, uzofika ngasiphi isikhathi ekhaya?” “Angazi,” ephendula, “mhlawumbe cishe ngehora lesishiyagalombili.”
Futhi-ke, akasakhulumi ngegama umkakhe futhi akasho ngisho nokuthi "thandekayo" kuye. Uthi “umama” kuye, nakuba, uyabona, akayena unina. Abangane bami balahlekelwe yibo bonke obunikazi babo - futhi indoda ayiseyona indoda, ayisenandoda, ayisenamsebenzi oqeqeshiwe, ayisenasithandwa, futhi ayisenandoda. Ungu "baba". Nowesifazane uyafana.
Yiqiniso, lowo owake wabizwa ngokuthi Dasha akalali kakhulu, uhlala ehlanganyela nezingane. Izifo zakhe uzithwala ezinyaweni, akanaso isikhathi sokulashwa. Uzidela nsuku zonke futhi uphoqa umyeni wakhe ukuba enze okufanayo, nakuba amelana kancane.
Indoda okuthiwa uPapa nowesifazane ogama lakhe linguMama bacabanga ukuthi banikeza izingane okungcono kakhulu, kodwa ngokubona kwami, empeleni bafundisa izingane ukuba zingazinakekeli nganoma iyiphi indlela futhi babeka isibonelo sokuthi bangazibheka kanjani njengendawo engenalutho.
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