Ukubhangqana kwezithandani kungenza ukwazi ukuphila isikhathi eside

Ukubhangqana kwezithandani kungenza ukwazi ukuphila isikhathi eside

Ukubhangqana kwezithandani kungenza ukwazi ukuphila isikhathi eside

Vuselela u-Ephreli 2012 - Isaziso kulabo abafanele ubuhlobo obungenazo izingxabano: ukucindezela intukuthelo kunganciphisa isikhathi eside sabantu abashadile!

Ngemuva kwesifundo1 okwenziwa ngokumangazayo ngonyaka ka-2008 emibhangqwaneni engu-192 edolobhaneni elincane eMichigan, e-United States, ingozi yokufa ingaba ngaphezulu kwabalingani abakha izithandani lapho intukuthelo icindezelwa khona futhi nengxabano igwenyiwe.

Lesi siphetho siwumphumela weminyaka eyi-17 yokubukwa lapho imibhangqwana yahlukaniswa ngokwezimo zengqondo ezikhonjiswe ngabashade ezimweni ezingqubuzanayo.

Phakathi kwemibhangqwana engama-26 eyakhiwe ngabalingani ababegwema ukungqubuzana noma ababekhuluma okuncane, amathuba okuthi bobabili abashadile abafa ngaphambi kwesikhathi ayephindwe kane kunalawo lapho okungenani oyedwa kulaba ababili abashadayo ayehlala ezwakalisa ulaka lwakhe.

Ngokuqondile, emibhangqwaneni engama-23% "ngaphandle kwezingxabano", bobabili abashadile bafa ngesikhathi socwaningo bebhekene no-6% kweminye imibhangqwana. Ngokufanayo, ama-27% wemibhangqwana "engenazimpi" yalahlekelwa ngumlingani, uma kuqhathaniswa ne-19% phakathi kweminye imibhangqwana. Le miphumela yaqhubeka ngisho nangemva kokuhlukanisa ezinye izinto eziyingozi zokufa.

Umehluko phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane

Ngesikhathi esifanayo (ngo-1971 kuya ku-1988), ama-35% wabesilisa abangabashadikazi lapho kwakungekho ukuxoxa ngamazwi okuqinile bafa, uma kuqhathaniswa ne-17% phakathi kweminye imibhangqwana. Kwabesifazane, bangu-17% abahlala emibhangqwaneni engenazo izingxabano, uma kuqhathaniswa no-7%.

Ngokusho kombhali walolu cwaningo, ukuxazululwa kwezingxabano njengezithandani kuyinkinga yezempilo yomphakathi ngoba ngokuyicindezela, intukuthelo yengeza kweminye imithombo yengcindezi futhi inegalelo ekufinyezeni impilo.

“Ngenxa yokuthi izingxabano azinakugwenywa, i-crux yindlela umbhangqwana ngamunye oxazulula ngayo: uma ungayilungisi inkinga, usengozini,” kuphetha u-Ernest Harburg, uprofesa wezengqondo e-University of Michigan.2.

Shiya ubuhlungu benhliziyo!

Kodwa-ke, akuzona zonke izingxabano zabashadikazi ezixazululwayo… Kodwa-ke, ukuze kuvunyelwe abasebenzi bayo ukuthi balulame ekuhlukaneni, inkampani yezokumaketha yaseJapan - iHimes & Co - ibanikeza ikhefu, isikhathi salo esixhomeke kubudala babo.

Kumqashi, ukuhlukana kwezothando kudinga isikhathi sokuphumula "njengalapho ugula". Isibonelo, labo abaneminyaka engama-24 nangaphansi bangathola usuku olulodwa ngonyaka, kuyilapho labo abangama-25 kuye kwabangu-29 bengathola izinsuku ezimbili. Izinhliziyo eziphukile ezineminyaka engama-30 nangaphezulu zinelungelo lokuphumula izinsuku ezintathu unyaka ngamunye.

Mhlawumbe ngolunye usuku ubude baleli khefu buzobalwa ngokuya ngobukhulu… bombhangqwana!

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1.Harburg E, uKaciroti N, et al, Izinhlobo Zokubambisana Kwabashadile Ezithukuthelisayo Zingase Zisebenze Njengebhizinisi Lokuthinta Ukufa: Ukutholwa Kwangaphambi Kwesifundo Esilindelekile, Ijenali Yokuxhumana Komndeni, NgoJanuwari 2008.

2. Ukukhishwa kwezindaba okukhishwe ngoJanuwari 22, 2008 yi-University of Michigan School of Public Health: www.ns.umich.edu [kufinyelelwe ngoFebhuwari 7, 2008].

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