Abathandi njengosuku lokuqala, imibhangqwana egcina iminyaka yobulili egculisayo ngemuva komhlangano wayo iyamangala futhi ivelele. Ungasigcina kanjani isifiso ngokuhamba kwesikhathi? Ziyini izimfihlo ezisondelene zombhangqwana ohlala njalo? Izeluleko namathiphu okwenza uthando ngaphandle kokubhoreka…

Uma imfihlo yezithandani ezihlala njalo ingalele kuphela ebangeni lokuya ocansini nasekuqiniseni kothando, abashadayo abangenzi uthando babhekana nezithiyo zobudlelwano okunzima ukuzinqoba, futhi kwesinye isikhathi zibulale. Ukubhanga kwezocansi njengesithako sokuphila isikhathi eside akunakugwenywa, kepha ufika kanjani lapho?

Usimende wabashadikazi, ubulili buyashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi: uthando luyabuna, ukukhathala kuyangena futhi impilo yansuku zonke ithatha indawo ngemuva kweminyaka embalwa yokuhlala ndawonye. Kodwa kweminye imibhangqwana, isifiso sibukeka simelana nokuhamba kwesikhathi. Umdlalo wokubukeka, i-caresses evuthayo, amagama ambalwa abhedayo: isasasa linjengezinsuku zokuqala zobudlelwano. Enza kanjani le mibhangqwana ehlala izithandani?

Phula inqubo yobulili obukhulu

Ukugcina noma ukuvuselela isifiso, lo mbhangqwana uphinde uzivuselele usuku nosuku. Imidlalo evusa inkanuko, izikhundla ezintsha zocansi, izindawo ezingajwayelekile nemikhuba ye-libertine: ekufuneni ucansi olungakhathali, zonke izinto ezintsha zilungile ukuzama. Shintsha izinjabulo zokuphinde sitholane futhi nibe ngabathandi futhi: isinyathelo esenziwe owesilisa noma owesifazane kungenzeka simangaze umlingani futhi sizuzise lo mbhangqwana.

Hlala ubukele isithandwa sakho

Lezi zithandani ezihlala othandweni ziyakuqinisekisa: ayikho into ebaluleke njengokulalela nokuxhumana. Ukwenza uthando njalo, owesilisa nowesifazane kumele bavuse umona wozakwethu, ngokuvuselela omunye ngokuya ngezidingo zakhe. Ngenkathi amanye amadoda engavulwa ngocansi olunolaka, abanye bazokhetha isilinganiso sothando. Siyabona ukuthi isifiso sabesifazane sikhuthazwa kakhulu ngabazwayo ngenkathi indoda isebenza ngokubukeka. Kepha yonke imibhangqwana yehlukile, futhi kukuzakwethu ukuthi banake izidingo zomunye nomunye.

Thuthukisa isimo sezulu sothando kulaba abashadile

Ukuzinakekela, ukufuna ukujabulisa abanye, ukuncoma, ukuyenga nokugcina izikhathi zokusondelana: iresiphi yobulili obuhlala njalo nayo isuselwa esimweni esihle sothando. Abathandi banentshisekelo yokubeka izithandani zabo phambili kuzona eziza kuqala, ukuqhubeka nokutholakala… nokufiselekayo.

Ukuhlala abathandi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa

Kuyo yonke impilo njengembhangqwana, imicimbi eminingi icasula ibhalansi futhi yenze buthaka isifiso sobulili, futhi phakathi kwayo ukufika kwengane. Ungaqhubeka kanjani nokuya ocansini ngenkathi ukhulelwe? Abanye besifazane banenkanuko yokocansi ngokweqile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwabo, abanye kunalokho bazizwa besindwa ngamakhilogremu abo, futhi bekhathele. Kusezindodeni ukuthi zikhuthaze lesi senzo ngokuthatha izilawuli… Kepha amanye amadoda abona ukukhulelwa komlingani wabo njengokubhidliza kwengqondo esifisweni sabo. Lesi kungaba yisikhathi sokuthi owesifazane aphakamise izikhundla lapho umlingani wakhe engenaso isisu sakhe ngaphambili. Lezi zithandani zingazama nezinye izindlela ngaphandle kokungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane noma zigxile ekudlaleni kwangaphambili: i-fallatio, ukushaya indlwabu, ucansi lwendunu… Ubulili balezi zithandani bungavuselelwa futhi ngokungapheli.

Ukuvumelanisa ezocansi nezingane

Ngokufika kwezingane, abathandi baba abazali. Futhi lesi simo esisha kaningi sinomthelela ngokwengqondo: owesifazane ubona umlingani wakhe njengoyise wengane yakhe, futhi nezocansi ziyahlupheka. Ukuze ubhekane nakho, amathiphu ambalwa anele: bhuka kusihlwa noma ngempelasonto ngaphandle kwezingane njalo, yenza uthando ngaphandle kwekhaya lomndeni futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, uncome omunye osendimeni yakhe yokuba ngumzali ukumfisa. 'okuningi kakhulu.

Ingabe uya ocansini kaningi kangakanani ukuba ube yisilinganiso? Lo mbuzo, abesilisa nabesifazane abaningi babuza. Imvamisa - evunyelwe - yezocansi yimibhangqwana yaseFrance iphakathi kwezikhathi ezimbili nezintathu ngesonto. Kepha lesi silinganiso asinokwethenjelwa impela futhi sibheka umehluko obalulekile. Ngaphandle kokudlulela ngokweqile, kungakhathalekile ukuthi isenzo socansi sivama kangaki: izithandani ezenza uthando ngaphandle kwesibopho kungenzeka zingakhanyi ngokuphila kwazo isikhathi eside, kanti abathandi abaguqula ubulili babo bahambisane nesifiso sabo kungenzeka ukuthi baqhakaze. Inqobo nje uma ushukumisa lesi sifiso usuku nosuku…