Ukuthola indlebe elalelayo, ngaphandle kokwahlulela, futhi ebona ngesikhathi esifanayo ubunzima bomndeni nesikole… iphupho. Lokhu kusekelwa komusa kukhona ngenxa yongoti bengqondo yezingane. Ngokusekelwe ekusithekeni kochwepheshe, baletha umbono ongathathi hlangothi ezinkingeni zansuku zonke, kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya ebusheni, futhi banikeze umoya omuhle wokuphefumula.

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esigxile ebuntwaneni. Isihloko sesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane siyidiploma ekhishwe umbuso. Ukuze usebenzise lo msebenzi, kufanele ube usuqede okungenani iminyaka emihlanu yezifundo zasenyuvesi ku-psychology, ezigunyazwe idiploma yesifunda (DE) ezingeni le-master's 2, enobuchwepheshe bokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane.

Ngokungafani nodokotela wengqondo yengane, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yengane asiyena udokotela. Akakwazi neze ukunquma ukwelashwa kwezidakamizwa. Ukuze siqonde ubunzima bengane, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yengane singasebenzisa izivivinyo ezithile, okuhlanganisa nesilinganiso se-intelligence quotient kanye nokuhlola ubuntu. Lezi zivivinyo zidinga isigunyazo esikhishwe umbuso.

Noma uthintane nodokotela wezengqondo wezingane? 

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kungaboniswana naye emsebenzini wangasese, esibhedlela, ezikhungweni zezokwelapha nezenhlalo, noma ngezikole, ngoba kukhona ochwepheshe bezengqondo besikole. Ezakhiweni zomphakathi, futhi ngaphansi kwencwadi kadokotela ohambelayo, izinsizakalo zayo zimbozwe umshwalense wezempilo. Ekhabhinethi elikhululekile, bangabuyiselwa ngama-mutuals athile.

Kukhona nama-psychotherapists kanye nama-psychoanalysts agxile ebuntwaneni. Imvamisa kuba ngodokotela, odokotela bengqondo noma ochwepheshe bezengqondo abasebenza ezikhungweni ezizimele noma ngaphansi kobuholi benhlangano yobungcweti.

Uma umsebenzi we-psychoanalyst ulawulwa kahle, lowo we-psychotherapist uhlala ungacacile. Ngaphambi kokuphathisa ingane yakho kudokotela wezengqondo ongeyena isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo noma udokotela wengqondo, kungcono ukuthola ngokuqeqeshwa kwakhe, amadiploma akhe awatholile nangokukhuluma ngomlomo.

Lapho ithimba lengane liqala ukubona iziphazamiso eziqhubekayo:

• ukubambezeleka ekuthuthukisweni kwayo;
• ushintsho ekuziphatheni noma kwi-physiology (ukulahlekelwa isisindo, ukuzuza kwesisindo);
• ubunzima bokulala noma ukulala;
• ukubambezeleka kwenkulumo, ukuthula kungazelelwe, ukungingiza;
• ukuchama okungavamile (ukuchama embhedeni). 

Ubuhlungu obunjengobuhlungu besisu obuphindaphindiwe noma ubuhlungu bekhanda kufanele futhi bungabazwe. Uma izimbangela ezingokomzimba seziqediwe ngenxa kadokotela okhona, kungase kube nembangela ye-psychic. Ingane eyisisulu sokuxhashazwa esikoleni, ngokwesibonelo, ingase ikhononde nge-colic noma imigraines. Angeke akwazi ukukhuluma ngale ndaba nabazali bakhe, wumzimba wakhe ozomkhulumela.

Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zezingane nazo zinikeza ukwesekwa entsheni:

• ukucindezeleka okuhlobene nesiqondiso sesikole;
• ukuziphatha okuluthayo noma okuyingozi empilweni yabo;
• ukucindezeleka, imicabango yokuzibulala;
• ukulawula ukucindezeleka ukuhlolwa;
• ugqozi ekufundeni;
• ukuzethemba, hlakulela ukuzethemba.

Kungaba futhi insiza enhle kubazali abafuna iseluleko mayelana nalokhu:

• ukukhubazeka kokufunda;
• indawo yabazali;
• izibopho zomndeni;
• ukulila.

Futhi-ke ukuxoxa ngokucindezeleka okubangelwa ubhubhane noma ukusiza ukuthola amagama afanele ukuze udlule kulesi sikhathi esiphazamisayo kubo bonke.

Ingakanani intengo yeseshini?

Ukubonisana kuyahlukahluka phakathi kuka-40 no-80 € kuye ngesikhathi esidingekayo, iminyaka yengane kanye nendawo yokubonisana. Kuye ngesidingo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yengane sisikisela inani elincane lezikhathi zokuxazulula le nkinga, kodwa leli nani lezikhathi likulungele isiguli.

Umndeni unganquma noma nini ukumisa ukubonisana noma ukushintsha ochwepheshe uma lokhu kungahambisani nawo. Kufanele uzizwe uqiniseka. Udokotela okhona angadlulisela komunye uchwepheshe wolwazi lwakhe.

EFrance, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zesikole ezingama-3500 zisebenza enkulisa yomphakathi nasezikoleni zamabanga aphansi. Ababizwa “ngochwepheshe bengqondo yezingane” kodwa futhi banolwazi olunzulu emkhakheni wobuntwana.

Ayihlinzeki ngokulandelela okungokwengqondo kodwa ingaba indlebe yokuqala elalelayo futhi ngaphandle kokwahlulela ukuxoxa ngobunzima bomfundi nomndeni wakhe.

Inzuzo yalo chwepheshe ukuthi ukhona ngaphakathi kwezindonga zesikole futhi unomphela ovamile. Ngakho-ke kulula ukubonisana naye futhi ungaphansi kokuyimfihlo njengozakwabo.

Uyatholakala ukuthi akhulume:

• izinkinga ezikhubaza umntwana;
• izilingo zokuphila (umfowethu noma udadewabo noma umzali ogulayo, ukushonelwa, njll.);
• yazisa umndeni ngokucindezeleka kwengqondo, njll.

Lo chwepheshe usebenza eduze namathimba okufundisa, futhi ungumlamuleli onelungelo phakathi kwesikhungo semfundo nomndeni. Izinkinga zokuziphatha zingahlotshaniswa nezinkinga zesikole, futhi ngokuphambene, izinkinga zesikole zingabangelwa isimo somkhaya.

Ngakho-ke lo chwepheshe wenza kube nokwenzeka ukwenza ukuxhumana phakathi kwalaba ababili nokucabangela ingane nomndeni wayo ngendlela ephelele. Ngokuya ngokucabanga kwakhe, uzobe eseqondisa umfundi nomndeni wakhe kuchwepheshe noma inhlangano engabasiza esikhathini eside.