Okuqukethwe
- Imodeli yokuhlonza ... ngayinye
- Ubaba ufuna umfana
- Ubaba unesineke esengeziwe ngendodakazi yakhe
- Intombazane noma umfana: ubaba unesibopho esihlukile
- Intombazane noma umfana: ubaba akazizwa ngendlela efanayo
- Ubaba unikeza indodana yakhe inkululeko eyengeziwe
- Ubaba unakekela ingane yomfana kalula
- Ubaba unothando olukhethekile ngendodakazi yakhe
Imodeli yokuhlonza ... ngayinye
Kusukela ekuqaleni, ubaba uyena ovula umbhangqwana womama nomntwana. Ilinganisa ukwakheka kwengqondo kwezingane zakhe ngokududuza umfana wakhe ngobulili bakhe kanye nokuba "isambulo" sendodakazi yakhe. Ngakho ubaba udlala indima ebalulekile ekwakhiweni kobunikazi bobulili bomntwana. Kodwa indima ehluke kakhulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umfana noma intombazane. Imodeli yokuhlonza yomfana wakhe, lona uzofuna ukufana naye, uyisibonelo esihle sendodakazi yakhe, leyo azoyifuna ngemva kokuthomba.
Ubaba ufuna umfana
Ngokuvamile ubaba uphatha kabi indodana yakhe kunendodakazi yakhe. Lona wazi kahle kamhlophe ukuthi angamnxenxa kanjani kuyilapho umfana evame ukuya lapho kungqubuzana khona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinga lemfuneko elibekwe kumfana liqinile, kulindeleke okwengeziwe kuye. Ubaba uvame ukutshala indodana yakhe ngomsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni, ukuze aziphilise, anakekele umndeni… umqondo womondli usabalulekile nanamuhla.
Ubaba unesineke esengeziwe ngendodakazi yakhe
Ngenxa yokuthi akakhiqizi izinto ezifanayo kubo bonke ubulili, ngezinye izikhathi ubaba uvame ukuba nesineke kakhulu ngendodakazi yakhe. Ngisho noma engahlosile, ukwehluleka kwendodana yakhe kuyobangela ukudumala kuyilapho okwendodakazi yakhe kunozwela nesikhuthazo. Kuvamile ukuthi ubaba alindele imiphumela eyengeziwe endodaneni yakhe, futhi ngokushesha.
Intombazane noma umfana: ubaba unesibopho esihlukile
Ubudlelwano obakhiwe nomzali bungobulili. Ingane ayenzi ngendlela efanayo noyise noma unina futhi ubaba akanaso isimo sengqondo esifanayo ngokobulili bengane yakhe. Lokhu akumvimbi ukuthi akhe isibopho sangempela esiyohlala ukuphila kwakho konke. Iqala ngemidlalo. Kungumbono nje, kodwa ngokuvamile ukugebenga nokuxabana kugcinelwe abafana kuyilapho amantombazane enelungelo lemidlalo ethule, ehlanganiswe ngokufanayo nokuhlasela kwethenda “i-guilis”. Njengoba izingane zikhula, futhi ukuhlonza ubulili kubanda, ukusondelana kwakhelwa ohlangothini olulodwa ebudodeni futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi ngobuhle.
Intombazane noma umfana: ubaba akazizwa ngendlela efanayo
Zombili izingane zakhe zimenza aziqhenye njengezinye… kodwa hhayi ngezizathu ezifanayo! Akabeki amathemba afanayo endodaneni yakhe nasendodakazini yakhe. Ngomfana, kusobala ukuthi uhlangothi lwendoda luhamba phambili. Unamandla, uyakwazi ukuzivikela, akakhali, ngamafuphi uziphatha njengendoda. Ukuthi ungumholi, noma ungumhlubuki, akumjabulisi.
Ngendodakazi yakhe, kunalokho umusa, umehluko, ububi obumlothile. Intombazane encane edlala ngothando futhi ezwelayo, njengesithombe anaso sabesifazane, imenza aziqhenye. Umdlali webhola lombhoxo ngokumelene ne-prima ballerina, iziyalo zesayensi ngokumelene nezifundo zobuciko ...
Ubaba unikeza indodana yakhe inkululeko eyengeziwe
Lona mhlawumbe umehluko omkhulu ekuphathweni kobaba: ngenkathi ezabalaza ukuvumela ukuphuthelwa kwakhe kukhule, uvame ukuphusha indodana yakhe ekuzimele. Lesi simo sitholakala kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwansuku zonke. Epaki uzokhuthaza indodana yakhe ukuthi izithule ku-slide esikhulu kuyilapho ingasidedeli isandla sendodakazi yakhe, ngisho noma kusho ukusonteka nxazonke. Esikoleni, ukukhala kwendodakazi yakhe kungase kuyizwele kakhulu lapho izizwa inamahloni uma indodana yayo izwakalisa ukwesaba noma usizi lwayo.
Ngokuvamile, uvikela indodakazi yakhe kakhulu kunendodana yakhe, azohlala eyikhuthaza ukuba ihlasele ingozi, ethatha isisho sikaKipling esithi "uzoba yindoda, ndodana yami"
Ubaba unakekela ingane yomfana kalula
Kuvumelana ngazwi linye, obaba bakhululeke kakhudlwana ukunakekela umfanyana wabo kunentombazanyana yabo. “Izinto” zamantombazane ziyabadida, bayangabaza ukuziwasha noma ukuzishintsha, abazi nhlobo ukwenza i-duvet futhi bayazibuza ukuthi kungani lamabhulukwe amafushane ehlobo elidlule abe mafishane kangaka kulobu busika! Ngomfana, kusobala, ukhiqiza izimpawu zokushukuma komzimba abelokhu ezazi. Yonke into inengqondo kuye, umfana ugqoka “ngokuvamile”, umane akame izinwele zakhe, singasakazi ukhilimu (kahle yilokho akucabangayo)… Ibhulukwe, ipolo shirt, ijezi, lilula, lifana naye!
Ubaba unothando olukhethekile ngendodakazi yakhe
Uthando ngokungangabazeki lujulile kubo bonke abantwana, kodwa izimpawu zobubele azifani ngempela. Ethandeka kakhulu nengane kungakhathalekile ubulili bayo, ubaba uvame ukubeka ibanga nendodana yakhe lapho isikhulile. Uyaqhubeka nokwenza isithandwa sakhe esincane sigxume ngamadolo lapho eqala ukufaka “ukwanga” kwamadoda nendodana yakhe. Nokho, izingane nazo zibamba iqhaza kulo mkhuba. Amantombazane amancane ayakwazi ukuncibilikisa ubaba wawo, amthandela njalo kanti abafana ngokushesha bagcinela umama wabo lobu bumnandi.