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I-1,5% yobaba abahlala ekhaya eFrance
Obaba abayisikhombisa kwabayishumi bathatha ababo ikhefu lokubeletha eFrance. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bambalwa abanquma ukuyeka ukusebenza izinsuku ezingaphezu kwezingu-11 ukuze banakekele izingane zabo isonto lonke. Ngakho-ke, amaphesenti angu-4 kuphela amadoda anweba ikhefu lawo lobaba ukuze athathe a ikhefu lemfundo yabazali. Futhi ngokusho kwe-INSEE, inombolo ye obaba bekhaya (evame ukubizwa nge-PAF) yehlela ku-1,5%! Nokho, ngokocwaningo olwenziwa nguSarenza ngo-2015 (1), amadoda angama-65% azobe ekulungele ukuba amadoda ekhaya. Okubi kakhulu ukuthi bambalwa abangalokotha. Ikakhulukazi uma wazi ukuthi kunzima kanjani ukuthola omama ibhalansi yokuphila komsebenzi eyanelisayo, uma kucatshangelwa ukuntuleka kwezindawo zokufundela izingane, ukungabaza kwezinkampani ukwenza amahora azo abe lula noma ukunikeza ukusebenza ngocingo. Yini evimba obaba ekukhetheni izingane esikhundleni sehhovisi? Ukwesaba ukungachumi. Ngokocwaningo olwenziwe nguSarenza, u-40% wabo wesaba ukuba nesithukuthezi ekhaya noma abazizwa bengakwazi ukungasebenzi ...
Indlela efanele yokuthola okuningi ezinganeni zakho
Ingxabano echithwa obaba bekhaya ngokushesha. URieg uneminyaka engama-37. Wawuyeka umsebenzi wakhe ukuze anakekele u-100% wengane yakhe yesibili unyaka, futhi akazange achithe izinyanga eziyi-12 evilapha, kude nakho… Wahleka: “Ngakwazi ngempela ukuqonda ukuphila kwansuku zonke komkami. ! »Futhi qedela« Yisikhathi esiyingqayizivele nesinamandla, kufanele usiphile ngokugcwele. Ngaphambili, ngagcina ngichitha isikhathi esincane nendodakazi yami enonyaka owodwa ubudala, futhi ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa sisekhaya, sakwazi ukuphinde sakhe ubuhlobo bangempela. Kodwa ukukhetha kokuhlala ekhaya kubaba nakho kwesinye isikhathi kuphendula a ingqondo yezomnotho. Ukuntuleka kwemisebenzi noma iholo eliphansi kakhulu kunelikamama kungase kubangele imibhangqwana ukuba izihlele ngale ndlela futhi ngale ndlela yonge izindleko zokunakekela izingane kanye nengxenye yentela. Kulokhu, qaphela ukudumazeka, ngoba ukuphatha impilo yansuku zonke yezingane kudinga amandla amakhulu nokubekezela amahora angu-24 ngosuku. Futhi amakhefu kanye ne-RTT awekho!
Amathiphu okuba ubaba wekhaya ojabule
U-Benjamin Buhot, owaziwa nangokuthi u-Till the Cat, umbhali we-PAF odume kakhulu kuwebhu, ugcizelela isidingo sokuba ubaba wekhaya ngokuzithandela hhayi ngokuphoqwa. Kungenjalo, obaba bangase bantule rulwazi lwezenhlalo emehlweni alabo ababazungezile. Ikakhulukazi uma besabheka imali njengophawu lwempumelelo ... Kungase futhi kubeke engozini ibhalansi yombhangqwana. Umama ophishekela umsebenzi wakhe ngesivinini esigcwele futhi othembele kumlingani wakhe womshado ukuze afundise izingane kanye nokuphathwa komuzi, kufanele avume ukuphathisa abanye imisebenzi ngeshwa namanje ethathwa ngokuthi “eyabesifazane”. Ngamafuphi, kuthatha okuningi ukuba nomqondo ovulekile nokwethembana. Omunye ugibe okufanele ugwenywe: isizungu. Obaba abahlala ekhaya, ikakhulukazi uma benomsebenzi lapho ukuthintana kwabantu kwakuvamile kakhulu, babenesithakazelo sokuhileleka ezinhlanganweni zabazali namanye amaqembu abazali ukuze baxoxe ngemibuzo yabo futhi bagcine ukuxhumana nezwe elibazungezile. Abanye obaba benza ukukhetha okuphakathi futhi behlise ijubane empilweni yabo yobungcweti ukuze banakekele izingane zabo, kodwa futhi baphishekele ezinye izinjongo zabo siqu: ukwakha ibhizinisi, ukuqeqeshwa kabusha, iphrojekthi yokudala ... Kulokhu, umsebenzi wokuhlala ekhaya. ubaba ukhona inguquko futhi hhayi ukukhetha impilo yeminyaka ezayo. Ukuzindla njengombhangqwana?
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(1) Ucwaningo oluthi “Ingabe amaphrofeshinali anobulili ngokwamadoda?”, Olwenziwa i-Sarenza ngokubambisana ne-Harris Interactive ngesikhathi soSuku Lwabesifazane, phakathi kwabesilisa abangama-500 abaneminyaka engu-18 nangaphezulu.