Okuqukethwe
UFred: "Ngangesaba ukungakwazi ukuqinisekisa ngokomzimba".
“Ngangivele nginezinye izingane ezimbili, ngizalwa emshadweni wokuqala, ngesikhathi kuzalwa u-Antony. Kumelwe ukuba umkami wangikholisa ngoba ngesaba ukungakwazi ukuhambisana nezigqi ezibekwa usana. Yebo, nginolwazi olwengeziwe, kodwa ukukhala kwengane kuhlale kungicindezela kakhulu. Futhi-ke, ngizizwa ngiphumile esinyathelweni ngoba abanye babangane bami banezingane esezizimele. Ngenhlanhla, nakuba ukukhula kwami kungikhathaza kancane, ubusha bomkami nomdlandla kuyahambisana nakho. “
UFred, ongubaba wengane yakhe yesithathu eneminyaka engu-45 ubudala.
UMichel: Ayikho iminyaka yokuba nezingane
“Salinda iminyaka engaphezu kweshumi ngaphambi kokuba sibe nengane yethu yesine. Sasikhathazekile ngokuthi kungenzeka singathetheleli lapho esakhula njengoba sasinjalo nezingane zakubo. Ekugcineni, wonke umndeni umphatha njengendlovukazi encane. Mhlawumbe ngimbekezelela kakhudlwana, kunabadala bakhe, futhi nginikela isikhathi esiningi kuye. Lapho sinquma, abantu abaningi babengakuqondi lokho esasikukhetha. Abanye baphumele obala basola ukuthi bafuna ama allowances. Kodwa manje sengiyazi ukuthi ayikho iminyaka yokuba nezingane, uma kuwukujabula. “
UMichel, uyise wengane yakhe yesine eneminyaka engu-43 ubudala.
U-Eric: Ngiyaziqhenya ngokuba ubaba osemusha oneminyaka engu-40
U-Eric usanda kuba nengane yesibili eneminyaka engu-44 ubudala.Umlingani wakhe uGabrielle uyafakaza:
“Ukuba ngubaba ‘ephuzile’ akuzange kubonakale kuxakile noma kuxakile kuye njengoba azalwa yena ngesikhathi uyise eneminyaka engu-44 ubudala. Kwakusadingeka aqiniseke ngoba wayesenendodakazi eneminyaka engu-14 ubudala, ezalwa emshadweni wokuqala, isehlukaniso sakhe sasisaqhubeka futhi wayesaba ukuvuma ukuthi ahlaselwe. Kodwa, ekugcineni, u-Eric uyaziqhenya ngesimo sakhe sokuba ngubaba osemncane. Indodana yethu yazalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi kakhulu futhi yasingatha isimo ngokuthula, ngokwengxenye, ngicabanga, ngenxa yeminyaka yayo nolwazi lwayo. Namuhla, uhlala ekhona ukuze adlale naye futhi uhileleka kakhulu… ngaphandle kwangaphansi kwezingqinamba! “
UJean-Marc: Imfundo epholile yamadodakazi ami
UJean-Marc unguyise wezingane eziyisithupha, ezintathu zokugcina ezazalwa eneminyaka engu-42, 45, ngaleso sikhathi engu-50. Umkakhe uSabrina uthi:
“Emadodakazini ethu amabili okuqala, kwakungadingeki ngimkholise. Kodwa okwesithathu waqala ngokunqaba ngoba umndeni wakubo wawumtshela ukuthi usemdala ngempela ukuthi angaba nenye ingane. Lapho ezalwa, wamnakekela kakhulu ukuze nami ngijabulele lezi ezimbili ezinkulu. Ungubaba wekhekhe futhi uyavuma ukuthi ubafundisa ngendlela epholile kunabadala bakhe, abazalwa emshadweni wokuqala. Ikakhulukazi njengoba engavamile ukuba sekhaya ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe, kungazelelwe, uvele avume izinto eziningi lapho ekhona. “
Bheka futhi ifayela lethu elithi "Ubaba uvame ukuhamba"
Erwin: kulula ukuba ubaba uma uneminyaka engu-40 uma ungabukeki ulingana nawe
“Nginomlingisi osemncane, oseke waqeqesha abadlali bebhola abancane iminyaka eyishumi. Lokhu kuba ngubaba ongasekho akuyona inkinga kimina ngoba angibonakali ngilingana nami futhi, noma kunjalo, amehlo abanye angishiya ngingenandaba. Ngigxile kakhulu emfundweni yezingane zami. Ngiphinde ngathatha ikhefu labazali nganciphisa nesikhathi sami sokusebenza ukuze ngibe sekhaya nabo ngoLwesithathu. Ngamafuphi, ngizizwa ngingcono kakhulu endimeni yami njengobaba futhi ngizama ukuyifeza ngokusemandleni. “
U-Erwin, uyise wezingane ezintathu ngemva kweminyaka engu-45.
Bheka futhi ikhasi lethu Lomthetho elithi “Ikhefu Labazali”