Uthando phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, uthando njengomzwelo ophilayo ofudumele nokuziphatha okunakekelayo, kunesisekelo esilula: ubudlelwano obumisiwe nokukhetha umuntu ofanele.
Uma ubudlelwano bungasungulwa, uma kwenzeka izingxabano njalo phakathi kwabantu abanothando, ikakhulukazi uma abantu bengazi ukuthi bangaphuma kanjani ekuxabaneni nasekuthukeni - ngesisekelo esinjalo, uthando ngokuvamile aluhlali isikhathi eside. Uthando ludinga izimo ezithile, ubuhlobo obuhle, obuzinzile, lapho kucacile ukuthi yini elindeleke kuwe nalapho omunye enza lokho ofuna ukukubona kuye. Bona →
Isimo sesibili umuntu ofanelekayo, umuntu onezimiso ezithile, imikhuba, izinga elithile nendlela yokuphila.
Uma ethanda ukuvakashela ikakhulukazi imigoqo, futhi yena - ukuya e-conservatory, akunakwenzeka ukuthi nganoma yikuphi ukukhangana okuhlangene kuzobaxhumanisa isikhathi eside.
Uma owesilisa engakwazi ukuhlinzeka umndeni wakhe, futhi owesifazane engakwazi ukupheka noma ukwenza indlu ibe ntofontofo, isithakazelo sokuqala nothando ngeke luphenduke into ende.
Wonke umuntu udinga ukuthola owakhe. Bona →
Lunjani uthando olukhula kulokho
Hlobo luni lothando - ngokuyinhloko luncike kulokho okuyisisekelo salo: i-physiology noma imibono yezenhlalo, imizwa noma ingqondo, umphefumulo onempilo futhi ocebile - noma unesizungu futhi uyagula ... Uthando olusekelwe ekukhetheni ngokuvamile lulungile futhi luvame ukuba nempilo, nakuba lunekhanda eliphambene kungenzeka futhi ongakhetha ukholo. Uthando-ngifuna ngokuvamile lukhula ngaphandle kokukhangwa ucansi. Uthando olugulayo cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi lukhula ngenxa yokunamathelana kwemizwa, uthando luyahlupheka, ngezinye izikhathi lumbozwa ukuthintana kwezothando.
Uthando olulungile lusekunakekeleni ophilayo, hhayi izinyembezi zokuthi ubani ongasekho nolahlekile. Umuntu onothando olufanele uzifunela izimfuno kuqala kuye, hhayi kothandiweyo wakhe.
Uthando lomunye nomunye wethu luwukubonakaliswa kobuntu bethu, futhi okuvamile kwethu kubantu nokuphila, ukuthuthukiswa kwezikhundla zethu zokuqonda kunquma kakhulu uhlobo kanye nemvelo yothando lwethu. Bona →