Ukugujwa kokuzalwa okungakazalwa kuwumkhuba omdala kakhulu emazweni amaningi. Ngokwesibonelo, e-United States, amaNdiya angamaNavajo akwenza kwaba umkhuba wangempela wokudlula. Okungokomoya okuncane, i-baby shower sonke esiyaziyo yaqhuma e-United States ngemva kweMpi Yezwe II, ngesikhathi sokukhula komntwana.

E-France, lesi simo asinaso isilinganiso esifanayo nese-United States, kodwa siya sithandwa kakhulu. Kancane kancane. Ishawa kababa incane kakhulu, noma ngabe nayo iyakhula, ilandela isibonelo saseMelika.

Ukuba umzali kungesinye sezikhathi ezingenakucimeka empilweni, okuwufanele umgubho. Ingahlelwa ingane yokuqala kanjalo nalaba abalandelayo. Phela, lokhu kushintsha kwesimo kuyizaba eziphelele zokuya ephathini.

Kungani kufanele ubaba eshaweni?

Umgomo weshawa kababa ukugubha ubaba wesikhathi esizayo, ukwabelana ngenjabulo yakhe, ukuletha (kulabo asebevele bekhona) iseluleko sochwepheshe, ukuqeda noma yikuphi ukwesaba. Abaningi baphinde basebenzise ithuba lokubhejela igama noma ubulili bomntwana. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kungase kube isikhashana ukuveza ukuthi ulindele ingane yomfana noma intombazane.

Ngokuvamile ihlelwa inyanga eyodwa kuya kwezimbili ngaphambi kokufika komntwana waphezulu. Kodwa abanye bakhetha ukwenza amaphathi ngemva kokuzalwa, ikakhulukazi labo abakholelwa ezeni. Kungase kuhlelwe ubaba noma kube isimanga ukuthi izihlobo zakhe, abangani, ozakwabo, noma umndeni amnika kona. Uma kuyisimanga, kungcono ukwazisa umama ozoba khona.

Iphathi ingaba yincane, ingabi nokuzithoba, noma ihlelwe ngokwemithetho yobuciko, ibe nobukhazikhazi obukhulu. Ngakho-ke kudinga ukulungiswa okwengeziwe noma okuncane. Abanye baze bahlele impelasonto nabangane abakwelinye izwe kulo mcimbi.

Ukukhetha itimu 

Kufanele uqale ngokukhetha itimu. Isiza se-joliebabyshower.com sinikeza izibonelo eziyinkulungwane nesisodwa:

• Bambi;
• INkosana Encane;
• Nkosazana ;
• Itimu enemibala: emhlophe negolide, i-mint nensomi, njll.;
• Iqhwa nama-flakes, amafu nezinkanyezi, njll. 

Igumbi lokuhlobisa

Uma ingqikithi isikhethiwe, umhlobiso uzohlelwa ngendlela efanele. Hlela amabhaluni, amabhaluni amaningi. “Intombazane” noma “Ngumfana” amagoda ezimbali, ama-pacifiers, izibani, i-confetti eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma ephinki… Yiba nobuchule.

I-buffet yomcimbi

Yiqiniso, kuzoba khona okuthile okudlayo. Ngokuvamile okumnandi (okugcwele amaswidi, amakhekhe) kanye nohlangothi olunosawoti olunoshizi noma izingqwembe zenyama ebandayo zihlale kulula ukuzilungiselela futhi zisebenza ngempumelelo. I-Ditto ye-barbecue. Kuyadingeka futhi ukunikeza iziphuzo, ukuze kungabikho muntu ogcina ephelelwe amanzi.

Ingabe ishawa kababa ivinjelwe kwabesifazane?

Ayikho imithetho, kukuwe. Ekugcineni, ungakhohlwa ikhamera, ukuze immortalize lezi zikhathi.

Siza ku-daddy shower ukuze sizijabulise. Akubuzwa ukuthi uzithathele phezulu.

Umsebenzi ongcono kakhulu? “Shintsha inabukeni likanodoli ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka”. Ukuqeqeshwa okuhle kwezinyanga ezizayo. Ngokusobala akunconywa ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe adlale i-basketball, kodwa ilungele ubaba wesikhathi esizayo. Kungukuzilolonga okuhle, okujabulisayo kwakho konke lokho kulahlwa kwamanabukeni angcolile kudoti ozodinga ukukuthola ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezizayo.

Eminye imidlalo edumile

Gcwalisa amabhodlela ezingane ngamanzi noma ngejusi yezithelo. Umuntu wokuqala othulula ibhodlela lakhe uyawina. Noma hlela umjaho wezinqola uvale amehlo, noma uwujikijele ngamanabukeni amanzi. Ungaphinda ucele isivakashi ngasinye ukuthi sibuyise isithombe sakhe noma ingane yaso encane. Ubaba wakusasa kuzomele athole ukuthi ubani.

Ishawa kababa ngokusobala yithuba lokugezela ubaba wesikhathi esizayo ngezipho. Kunezindawo eziningi ezinikeza imibono, abathandekayo abangenalo ugqozi bazothola imibono eyinkulungwane neyodwa yezipho.

Nasi isibonelo sesipho ongakwazi ukuthola "ikhithi yokusinda kubaba wesikhathi esizayo", lapho umenywa khona ukuthi ugibele izimanga eziningi "ukumsiza ukuba abe nesineke: amaduku, into ongayibamba, amagama aphikisanayo , ukushintsha umshini wekhofi, i-paracetamol… ”Ukuze uhlale usezingeni eliphezulu, unganikeza nengane izingubo. Ngasohlangothini lwakhe, ubaba wesikhathi esizayo angakwazi futhi ukubonga izivakashi zakhe ngokuza nesipho esincane.