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Kusukela emingakhini yobudala futhi kungani umntwana eba namaphupho amabi?
Amaphupho amabi kwesinye isikhathi ayenzeka kusukela onyakeni owodwa, abe yinsakavukela kusukela ezinyangeni eziyi-18… Qaphela ukuthi zibaluleke ngokuphelele ekulinganiseni kwengqondo yengane: ochwepheshe bezengqondo abaningi bayakuqinisekisa lokhozivumela ingane ukuba ikhulule umuzwa wecala futhi ikhulule izifiso zayo engazi lutho.
Kodwa ngengane yethu, the baphuphe ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuhlukanisa neqiniso. Kunokuba ahleke ebusweni bakhe lapho esicela ukuthi sibheke ukuthi impisi enkulu embi ayicashile yini ekhabetheni likasokisi, asizame ukumthola. chazaukuthi iphupho nje elibi leli asimcele ukuthi alisho.
Umntwana uba nokwesaba ebusuku kusukela emingakhini?
Eminyakeni efanayo, ukwesaba ebusuku kungenzeka, ngokuvamile ekuqaleni kobusuku ngokungafani namaphupho amabi, futhi lokhu ngezinye izikhathi kungase kujabulise kakhulu. : ingane yethu iyayaluza, iyaklabalasa, iyajuluka futhi inhliziyo yayo ishaya ngesivinini... Lezi ziqephu zingathatha imizuzu emibili kuya kwengamashumi amathathu. Ezikhathini eziningi, ingane yethu iyancipha futhi iqhubeke nokulala njengento engelutho, ngaphandle kokukhumbula lutho ngakusasa.
Nakuba ngezinye izikhathi evula amehlo, ingane iyaphila futhi ilele ngempela, futhi kumelwe sikugweme ukumvusa. Ochwepheshe bezingane batusa kulezi zimo ukuba sihlale nomntwana ukuze siqinisekise ukuphepha kwakhe, ukubeka isandla sethu ebunzini lakhe, esihlathini sakhe noma esiswini sakhe uma kungenzeka, sikhulume kahle kakhulu futhi sizame ukusibuyisela phansi ngendlela evamile.
Kungani ingane yami ivuka imemeza?
Izizathu zamaphupho amabi ezingane zethu namaphupho amabi azibaleki. Lezo ezesabisayo zasebusuku zingaxhunyaniswa nofuzo, ngokomzimba (isifuba somoya, imfiva evuthayo, i-apnea, njll.), ingcindezi noma isenzakalo esithile, noma ukuphuza imithi.