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Igunya: Iziyalezo Zobaba
Ukukhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa nokwakhiwa kwengane yakho, okokuqala kubalulekile ukumnikeza indawo ezinzile, enothando futhi evikelekile. Ukudlala naye, ukumbonisa ukunaka, ukuchitha isikhathi naye, uhlakulela ukuzethemba kwengane yakho nokuzethemba, lokho kuwuhlangothi “lomngane kababa”. Ngale ndlela, ingane yakho izofunda ukugomela, ukuhlonipha yona kanye nabanye. Ingane enesithombe esihle izokuthola kulula ukuthuthukisa ingqondo evulekile, uzwela, ukunaka kwabanye, ikakhulukazi ezinye izingane. Ngaphambi kokuthi ukwazi ukuziqinisa, kumele uzazi kahle futhi uzamukele njengoba unjalo, ngamakhono akho, ubuthakathaka namaphutha akho. Kufanele ukhuthaze ukuveza imizwa yakhe nokubonakaliswa kokuthanda kwakhe. Kufanele futhi umvumele abe nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe ngokuvuselela ilukuluku lakhe, ukoma kwakhe ukuthola, ukumfundisa ukuba enze izinto ngaphakathi kwemingcele enengqondo, kodwa futhi umfundise ukwamukela amaphutha akhe nobuthakathaka bakhe.
Igunya: misa imikhawulo enengqondo futhi engaguquki
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kuyadingeka ukugxila imingcele enengqondo futhi ehambisanayo ngokuba engaguquki futhi eqinile emigomeni ethile engenakuphikiswa, ikakhulukazi ngokuphathelene nokuphepha (ukuhlala eceleni komgwaqo), inhlonipho (ukubingelela, ukuvalelisa, ngiyabonga), inhlanzeko (ukugeza izandla ngaphambi kokudla noma ngemva kokuya endlini yangasese), imithetho yokuphila emphakathini (ungathayiphe). Kuwuhlangothi oluthi “bossy daddy”. Namuhla, imfundo ayiqinile njengoba yayinjalo esizukulwaneni noma ezimbili ezedlule, kodwa ukuvumela ngokweqile kuye kwabonisa imingcele yakho, futhi kuya kugxekwa kakhulu. Ngakho-ke kufanele sithole isisetshenziswa esijabulisayo. Ukubeka phansi imingcele, ukusho ngokucacile ukuthi yini enhle noma embi, kunikeza ingane yakho izilinganiso futhi kuyivumela ukuba izakhe. Abazali abesabayo ukuba nesandla esiqine kakhulu noma abangabavikeli noma yini ingane yabo, ukuze kube lula noma ngenxa yokuthi abatholakali kakhulu, abazenzi izingane zabo zijabule.
Igunya: Amathiphu ayi-10 awusizo angakusiza nsuku zonke
Sebenzisa amandla akho ukuphoqelela lokho okubaluleke ngempela kuwe (nika isandla sakho ukuze uwele, uthi ngiyabonga) futhi ungabi namahloni mayelana nokunye (ukudla ngeminwe yakho, isibonelo). Uma ufuna kakhulu, uzifaka engozini yokudikibala ngokuphelele ingane yakho engase izehlise ngokuzizwa ingakwazi ukukwanelisa.
Hlala uchazela ingane yakho imithetho. Okwenza umehluko phakathi kobushiqela nokuziphatha okudingekayo ukuthi imithetho ingachazwa enganeni futhi iqondwe. Zinike isikhathi sokuchaza, ngamagama alula, imithetho nemikhawulo ngemiphumela enengqondo yesenzo ngasinye. Isibonelo: “Uma ungagezi manje, kuzofanele ukwenze kamuva, ngaphambi nje kokulala futhi ngeke sibe naso isikhathi sokufunda indaba.” Uma ungelula isandla ukuwela umgwaqo, imoto ingase ikushaye.” Ngeke ngifise ukuthi kwenzeke okubi kuwe ngoba ngikuthanda kakhulu. “Uma ukhipha amathoyizi ezandleni zale ntombazanyana, ngeke iphinde ifune ukudlala nawe.” “
Funda ukuyekethisa futhi : “Kulungile, awuwabeki kude amathoyizi akho manje, kodwa kuzodingeka ukwenze ngaphambi kokuba ulale. Izingane zanamuhla zinikeza umbono wazo, zama ukuxoxisana. Kudingeka zicatshangelwe, kodwa-ke kuxhomekeke kubazali ukubeka uhlaka futhi banqume njengesinyathelo sokugcina.
Yimani niqine. Ukuthi umntwana weqa, kuyinto evamile: uhlola abazali bakhe. Ngokungalaleli, uyaqinisekisa ukuthi uhlaka lukhona. Uma abazali besabela ngokuqinile, izinto zizobuyela kwesijwayelekile.
Hlonipha izwi elinikezwe ingane yakho : okushiwoyo kumele kubanjwe, noma ngabe umvuzo noma ukuncishwa.
Phambukisa ukunaka kwakhe, mnike omunye umsebenzi, esinye isiphazamiso lapho ephikelela ekucasuleni engcupheni yokunyathela noma ekukhomba ekuvinjweni okuyinyumba.
Mdumise futhi umkhuthaze lapho enza ngokwemithetho yakho yokuziphatha, ebonisa ukwamukelwa nguwe. Lokhu kuzoqinisa ukuzethemba kwabo, okuyobavumela ukuba babhekane kangcono nezinye izikhathi zokudumazeka noma zokukhungatheka.
Khuthaza imihlangano nezinye izingane ezingontanga yakhe. Kuyindlela enhle yokuthuthukisa ukuhlalisana kwakho, kodwa futhi ukumbonisa ukuthi nezinye izingane, kufanele zilandele imithetho ebekwe abazali bazo.
Yiba nesineke, hlala njalo kodwa futhi uzitike ukhumbule ukuthi nawe wawuyingane enenkani. Okokugcina, qiniseka ukuthi wenza okusemandleni akho futhi ukhumbule ukuthi ingane yakho ilwazi kahle uthando onalo ngayo.
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“Ekhaya, sihlanganyela igunya, ngamunye ngendlela yakhe. Angiyena umashiqela, kodwa yebo, ngingaba negunya. uma udinga ukuphakamisa izwi noma ukulibeka ekhoneni, ngiyakwenza. Angikho nhlobo ekubekezeleni okungenamkhawulo. kulokhu, ngisafunda esikoleni esidala. ” UFlorian, ubaba ka-Ettan, oneminyaka emi-5, no-Emmie, oneminyaka engu-1 ubudala