Ingqophamlando yamashumi amahlanu ingafana nezidubedube empilweni nasezithandweni. Kodwa-ke, isifiso asipheli ngeminyaka, futhi ubulili babaneminyaka engama-50 ubudala bangaba yithuba lokuqala okusha empilweni yabo yezocansi. Ngakho-ke yiziphi izinzuzo zocansi ku-XNUMX?

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umzimba wethu nobulili bethu buyaguquka nendlela yethu yokwenza uthando nayo. Ngempela, asinabo ubudlelwane obufanayo nobulili lapho sineminyaka engama-20, 30 noma engama-50 ubudala. Ekuqaleni kwempilo yethu yezocansi, lapho sineminyaka yokuqala ukuya ocansini, umzimba wethu uncike kakhulu ekusebenzeni kwamahomoni ezocansi. Ubulili nobudlelwano obunomzwelo bese buthathwa njengomhlaba wokutholwa kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho ongakuthola.

Kwabanye, iminyaka ingabonakala njengesithiyo ekuzijabuliseni ngokocansi. Kodwa-ke, njengoba sizobona, le pharamitha ayinalo ithonya ezinkanukweni zocansi nasifiso sobulili. Ngokuphambene nalokho, iminyaka yenza kube nokwenzeka ukuzuza kokuhlangenwe nakho okungcono nasekuzethembeni okuvame ukuphakama kuneminyaka emincane, okwenza kube lula ukunethezeka lapho wenza uthando.

Uma uke waba sebudlelwaneni isikhashana, kungenzeka ukuthi ngemuva kweminyaka ethile, ubone ukwehla kobuningi bobulili. Lokhu kungachazwa ngezizathu eziningana: ukulayishwa ngokwengqondo okuhlobene nezinkinga zempilo yansuku zonke, ukujwayela phakathi kwabashadikazi, ukuncipha komuzwa wothando, njll.

Ngemuva kweminyaka engama-50, kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nokugcina i-libido yakho nokugcina isifiso ngaphakathi kwalabo abashadile. Ukuze wenze lokhu, gxila ebuhlotsheni bakho bothando. Unesikhathi, ngakho-ke unganaki ukunakwa kwansuku zonke: isisa, ukuqabula, ukwanga, njll. Unganqikazi ukumangaza umlingani wakho, ngokumnikeza ithuba lokuzama isikhundla esisha, ngokumnikeza ukubhucungwa inkanuko noma ngokwenza uthando indawo entsha, isibonelo. 

Ngokukhula, ubulili busizakala ngokuhlangenwe nakho okungcono nangokuzethemba okutholwe ngokuhamba kweminyaka. Impela, noma ngabe uyindoda noma ungowesifazane, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi usuvele waba nabalingani abaningi ocansini usuneminyaka engama-50 ubudala. Lezi zigemegeme ezahlukahlukene zikwazile ukondla umuzwa wakho wezocansi kuyo yonke impilo yakho, ngaleyo ndlela zikhulisa ulwazi lwakho lwezocansi . Futhi okufanayo kuya kubalingani bakho. Ngakho-ke, okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kokunye kuyangeza, okukuvumela ukuthi uqonde kangcono izifiso zakho. Ngokufanayo, lokhu kwabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho kungaba yithuba lokukungenisa emikhubeni emisha yezocansi.

Lapho sesineminyaka engaphezu kwama-50, siyawazi umzimba wethu nokuthi usabela kanjani. Ngakho-ke kulula ukwazi ukuthi yisiphi isikhundla esisinika ubumnandi obedlula obunye, ukuthi imuphi umkhuba wezocansi esiwukhethayo noma ukuthi yiziphi izindawo zethu eziyingozi. Ngokuxoxa ngayo nomlingani wakho, kuzokuvumela ukuthi uzuze injabulo kalula futhi unake nezifiso zakhe. 

Kwabesifazane, indlela yokunqamuka kokuya esikhathini, evame ukwenzeka phakathi kweminyaka yobudala engama-45 nengama-50, ingaba yisizathu sokukhathazeka. Kodwa-ke, kufanele wazi ukuthi ungabeka kanjani izinto ngombono futhi ungagxili ezinhlangothini ezimbi. Kuyavunywa, ngezinye izikhathi ukunqamuka kokuya esikhathini kuletha ushintsho emzimbeni wakhe nokushintsha kwemizwelo. Kepha lokhu kwehluka kuyadlula futhi kuyancipha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Ukunqamuka kokuya esikhathini nakho kungadala ushintsho ku-libido kanye nokwehla kwesifiso sobulili. Kepha nalapha futhi, lezi yizinguquko zesikhashana, futhi akubona bonke abesifazane abajwayele le miphumela emibi, ebangelwa isenzo samahomoni. Kungenzeka ukuthi owesifazane abe nobulili obukhulu ngemuva kweminyaka engama-50. 

Nakumadoda, iminyaka ingahlotshaniswa nokulahleka kwe-libido, ithoni, ukwehla kokubekezela, njll. Nokho, lezi zinguquko zomzimba azibathinti bonke abantu besilisa. Kungenzeka futhi ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile ne-urinary, ngenxa ye-benign prostatic hypertrophy. Lesi sifo, esithinta cishe indoda eyodwa kwamabili ngemuva kweminyaka engama-50, sifana nokuvuvukala kwendlala yesinye. Kodwa-ke, kunezindlela zokwelashwa zokuyikhulula.

Ku-50, izitho zocansi zesilisa zihamba kancane futhi zingaphenduli kangako kunangesikhathi usemncane, ngakho-ke kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi zisabela ngokushesha okungatheni nangamandla amancane. Lokhu akusho ukuthi akusakwazi ukwakhiwa isikhathi eside. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona futhi izindlela zokwelapha ezingasiza.