Ingabe uyi-extrovert noma i-introvert? Awuziboni kunoma iyiphi yalezi zici zomlingiswa? Ungase ukhathazeke.

Ishicilelwe ekuqaleni kwawo-2010, igama elithi ambiversion lichaza abantu abangewona ama-extroverts noma ama-introverts, kodwa kunalokho ingxube yakho kokubili. Umuntu ovumelana nezimo ongamela iningi labantu.

Kuze kube yileso sikhathi izici zobuntu zazibonakala zihlukaniswe izigaba ezimbili: ama-extroverts nama-introverts. Imiqondo emibili eyethulwa ekuqaleni kwawo-1920 ngudokotela wengqondo waseSwitzerland uCarl Gustav Jung encwadini yakhe ethi Psychological Types (ed. Georg).

I-Ambiversion iveza umbono omusha ngezici zobuntu. Umuntu onama-ambivert usenkabeni yemibono emibili ebekwe phambili nguDkt. Carl Gustav Jung. Udakiwe futhi uyazithulela.

Ikakhulukazi bayaguquguquka futhi bayavumelana nezimo, laba bantu bafaneleka kakhulu kunabanye ukuqonda abantu futhi bazivumelanise nezimo zomphakathi.

Kwakuyisazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nomongameli wangaphambili we-American Sociological Association uKimball Young owaqala ukusebenzisa igama elithi “ambivert” encwadini yakhe ethi Source Book for Social Psychology (ed. Forgotten Books) eyanyatheliswa ngo-1927.

Leli gama liphinde lavela ngo-2013 ocwaningweni olwenziwa ngu-Adam Grant, umcwaningi wase-University of Wharton ePennsylvania futhi lwanyatheliswa kumagazini i-Psychological Science. Ngemva kokubheka kabanzi abasebenzi abangamavolontiya be-340, ucwaningo lugqamisa iqiniso lokuthi "ama-ambivertes azuza ukukhiqiza kwebhizinisi okukhulu kunama-extroverts noma ama-introverts" ngakho-ke angaba abathengisi abangcono. Ezivumelana nezimo, kungaba lula ukuzifunda, kungakhathaliseki ubudala noma izinga lokufunda.

Ngokwemvelo bahlanganyela embonweni eguquguqukayo yokuxoxisana nokulalela, ama-ambiverts angase aveze ukuzethemba okwanele kanye nogqozi lokuncenga futhi avale ukuthengisa kodwa athambekele kakhulu ekulaleleni izithakazelo zamakhasimende awo futhi mancane amathuba okuthi abonakale eshiseka ngokweqile noma egabadela. ”, imininingwane ka-Adam Grant esiphethweni socwaningo lwakhe.

Uma ubuntu obulinganisiwe be-ambivertes bubonakala bunikeza izinzuzo kokubili ezingeni lochwepheshe nelomuntu siqu, umcwaningi nokho ugcizelela ubunzima obuvamile kulaba bantu ukuze bakhombe imithombo yabo ehlukene yokuzaliseka.

Intatheli yaseMelika kanye nombhali uDaniel Pink uklame isivivinyo semibuzo engamashumi amabili ekuvumela ukuthi ubale izinga lakho lokumangala ngokuphendula ngokuthi: amanga ngokuphelele, kunalokho amanga, ukungathathi hlangothi, kunalokho vuma, vuma ngokuphelele. Phakathi kwamaphuzu ashiwo, singabala ikakhulukazi:

• Ingabe ngithanda ukuzidonsela ukunaka?
• Ingabe ngizizwa ngikahle eqenjini futhi ngithanda ukusebenza njengeqembu?
• Ingabe nginamakhono amahle okulalela?
• Ingabe ngivame ukuthula lapho ngiphakathi kwabantu engingabazi?

Ama-Ambivertes azokwazi ukuhlehla phakathi kokuthambekela kwemvelo kwama-introverts nama-extroverts, kuye komongo wesimo noma isimo sawo samanje.

Ukucabangela izici zomlingiswa zibe izigaba ezimbili ezihlukile - i-extraversion kanye ne-introversion - kuzofana nokubuka isayense yengqondo ngendlela kanambambili. Ubuntu ngabunye bugcwele ama-nuances we-introversion kanye ne-extraversion eguquguqukayo ngokuya ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene zokuphila kwethu.

Ngo-1920, emsebenzini wakhe othi Psychological Types, uCarl Gustav Jung usevele wahlukanisa izinhlobo zezengqondo eziyi-16 ezichazwe ngokomqondo obusayo - umcabango, intuition, imizwa, imizwa - kanye nokuma komuntu okungaziwa noma okuhlukile. “Ayikho into enjenge-introvert emsulwa noma i-extrovert emsulwa. Umuntu onjalo angagwetshwa ukuchitha impilo yakhe endaweni yokukhoseliswa,” kugcizelela yena.

Ngakho-ke ingabe sonke singama-ambiverts? Kungenzeka. Kumakholomu e-Wall Street Journal, u-Adam Grant, ulinganisela ukuthi ingxenye, ngisho nengxenye eyodwa kwezintathu yabantu izokhungatheka. Esihlokweni esishicilelwe esizeni sakhe, uFlorence Servan-Schreiber, oneziqu ze-transpersonal psychology futhi oqeqeshwe ku-Neuro Linguistic Programming, uyachaza: “Wonke umuntu uzofunda ukuzinakekela ngokuvumelana nesimo sakhe sengqondo. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi iziphambano nezingxube ziyohlala ndawonye. Yile ndlela engikhetha ngayo ukusebenza ngedwa, endaweni ethule yegumbi elifudumele kulezi zinsuku, kodwa ngiyakujabulela ukukhuluma phambi kwegumbi eligcwele ubuso obungajwayelekile. ”