Umbhalo wokuqala ovela ochungechungeni lokubhekwa kwesisekelo sosizo "Shintsha Impilo Eyodwa" mayelana nokuthi abafana namantombazane bahlala kanjani manje ezindlini zezintandane zaseRussia " - ishicilelwe ngokuhlanganyela ne-portal Snob.ru. Isihloko Ekaterina Lebedeva.
U-Lera wangena ekamelweni ehamba nge-angular, eshubile kancane. Ngokungaqinisekanga, wahlala etafuleni, wagoba amahlombe akhe, wambheka ngaphansi kwezipho zakhe. Ngabona amehlo akhe. Ama-cherries amabili acwebezelayo. Ukubheka okunamahloni kodwa okuqondile. Ngenselelo. Futhi ngokuthinta ... ithemba.
Endlini yezintandane eningizimu-ntshonalanga yesifunda saseMoscow, size no-opharetha wesikhwama sethu sosizo "Shintsha Ukuphila Okukodwa" ukudubula umzuzu omfushane, owodwa nesigamu, ifilimu mayelana no-Valeria oneminyaka engu-14 ubudala. Siyethemba ngempela ukuthi i-videoanketa izosiza le ntombazane esikhulile kakade ukuthola umndeni omusha. Nakuba ukwenza lokhu, asibhekane nakho, akulula.
Kuyiqiniso, kodwa iningi lethu licabanga ngentsha-amakhaya ezintandane, uma kungenjalo ekugcineni, khona-ke ngokuqinisekile hhayi kwasekuqaleni. Ngoba iningi lalabo asebekulungele ukwamukela izingane ezihlala ezintandaneni emindenini yabo badinga imvuthuluka kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ifika kweyisikhombisa kakhulu. Umqondo ucacile. Ngezingane kubonakala kulula, kunethezekile, kujabulisa ngokwengeziwe, ekugcineni...
Kodwa ku-database yesisekelo sethu, cishe isigamu se-videoannkets (futhi lokhu, ngomzuzu, cishe amavidiyo ayizinkulungwane ezine) yizingane ezisuka ku-7 kuya ku-14 ubudala. Izibalo zizwakala njengezinkomishi ezibekwe phansi othayela, zibhidliza amaphupho abazali abangaba abantwana bokuthola izingane emakhaya ezingane: ohlelweni lwezikhungo zezingane, amagama entsha athatha iningi lemigqa yebhange ledatha. Futhi ngokwezibalo ezifanayo ezinzima, intsha inempendulo encane phakathi komama nobaba abangaba khona.
Kodwa uLera akadingi ukwazi lutho ngezibalo. Isipiliyoni sakhe sempilo yomuntu siqu sikhanya kaningi kunanoma yiziphi izibalo. Futhi lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kubonisa ukuthi yena nontanga yakhe abavamile ukuthathwa emindenini. Futhi izingane eziningi ngemva kweminyaka eyishumi ziphelelwa yithemba. Futhi baqala ukuzenzela izinhlelo zabo zekusasa ngaphandle kwabazali babo. Ngamafuphi nje, bayazithoba.
Ngokwesibonelo, kanye noLeroy, sasifuna ukuthwebula i-video yomfundi afunda naye. Umfana omuhle onamehlo akhanyayo - "ingcweti yethu yekhompuyutha," njengoba othisha bakhe bembiza kanjalo - wavele washwaqeka lapho ebona ikhamera. Waqhuqha. Waqinisa amahlombe akhe azacile. Wavala amehlo ngaphakathi wavikela ubuso bakhe ngebhokisi lephazili elikhulu.
“Kufanele ngiye ekolishi ezinyangeni eziyisithupha!” Ufunani kimi vele? – wamemeza ethukile futhi wabalekela isethi. Indaba evamile: intsha eyandayo, esiza ukuzoyithwebula ukuze uthole i-videoanket, iyenqaba ukuhlala phambi kwekhamera.
Ngabuza abafana abaningi: kungani ungafuni ukwenza, ngoba kungakusiza uthole umndeni? Bathule baphendule. Bafulathele. Kodwa eqinisweni abakholwa. Abasakholwa. Ezikhathini eziningi, amaphupho abo kanye nethemba lokuthola ikhaya kuye kwanyathelwa, kwadatshulwa, futhi kwapheshulwa othulini emagcekeni asezindaweni ezihlala izintandane ngomsindo ogelezayo. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi ubani okwenzile (futhi njengomthetho, yonke into incane): othisha, omama babo noma obaba abakhulisa izingane zabo, abababalekela bona, noma mhlawumbe babuyiselwe ezikhungweni ezingakhululekile nazo. amagama asomile njengeqhwa ngaphansi kwezinyawo zawo: "ikhaya lezintandane", "isikole okuhlalwa kuso", ” isikhungo sokuvuselela umphakathi»...
"Kodwa ngiwathanda kakhulu amahhashi," u-Lera ngokuzumayo uqala ukuzitshela ngamahlonyana futhi wengeze ngokungazwakali: "O, kubi kanjani phela." Uyesaba futhi akakhululekile ukuhlala phambi kwekhamera futhi azethule kithi. Kuyesabeka, kungathandeki futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ngifuna, ukuthi ufuna ukuzibonakalisa kanjani ngokungenakubekezelela ukuze othile ambone, abambe umlilo futhi, mhlawumbe, ngolunye usuku abe ngowokuzalwa.
Ngakho-ke, ikakhulukazi uma kudutshulwa, wayegqoke izicathulo zemikhosi ezinezithende eziphakeme kanye nebhulawuzi elimhlophe. “Ubekulinde kakhulu, ezilungiselela futhi ekhathazeke kakhulu, awukwazi ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi ubefuna umthathe ngevidiyo kangakanani!” – Uthisha kaLera wangitshela ngokuhleba, futhi uyagijima futhi amqabule ngesineke esihlathini.
- Ngithanda ukugibela amahhashi futhi ngiwanakekele, futhi lapho ngikhula, ngifuna ukukwazi ukubaphatha. - Intombazane e-angular, edidekile ifihla amehlo ayo kancane kancane kithi njalo ngomzuzu - ama-cherries amabili acwebezelayo - futhi ayisekho inselele nokungezwani emehlweni ayo. Kancane kancane, dash by dash, baqala ukuvela nokuzethemba, kanye nenjabulo, kanye nesifiso sokuhlanganyela okwengeziwe futhi ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka konke akwaziyo. Futhi u-Lera uthi umatasa nokudansa nasesikoleni somculo, ubuka amafilimu futhi uthanda i-hip-hop, ubonisa ubuciko bakhe obuningi, amadiploma nemidwebo, ukhumbula ukuthi washutha kanjani ifilimu embuthanweni okhethekile nokuthi wabhala kanjani umbhalo - othinta inhliziyo. indaba ngentombazane eyashonelwa ngunina wayishiyela isongo somlingo njengesikhumbuzo.
Umama kaLera uyaphila futhi ulokhu exhumana naye. Esinye isici esibonakala singenangqondo ngokuphelele, kodwa isici esidabukisayo esitholakala yonke indawo yokuphila kwentsha eyizintandane - iningi labo linezihlobo eziphilayo. Obani abaxhumana nabo futhi okuthi, ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene, bakuthola kulula uma lezi zingane zingahlali nabo, kodwa ezindlini zezintandane.
- Kungani ungafuni ukuya ezindlini zokutholwa? - Ngibuza u-Leroux ngemuva kokuthi esevule ngokuphelele, walahla izilinganiso zokuzihlukanisa kwakhe futhi waba intombazane elula, ehlekisayo futhi elwa kancane.
- Yebo, ngoba abaningi bethu banabazali - - uphakamisa isandla sakhe ephendula, ngandlela-thile ulahlekile. “Nangu umama. Wayelokhu ethembisa ukungithatha, futhi ngaqhubeka ngikholwa futhi ngikholelwa. Futhi manje yilokho! Hhayi-ke, ngingenza malini?! Ngamtshela ngolunye usuku: noma ungiyise ekhaya, noma ngizobheka umndeni wokutholwa.
Ngakho uLera wayephambi kwekhamera yethu yevidiyo.
Intsha esezindlini zezintandane ivame ukubizwa ngokuthi isizukulwane esilahlekile: izakhi zofuzo ezimbi, abazali botshwala, njalonjalo. Amakhulu ezinto. Izixha zemibukiso eyakhiwe. Ngisho nothisha abaningi bamakhaya ezintandane bayasibuza ngobuqotho ukuthi kungani sishutha intsha ngevidiyo nhlobo. Phela, nabo "kunzima kakhulu" ...
Akulula ngempela nabo. Umlingiswa osungulwe, ukujula kwezinkumbulo ezibuhlungu, "Ngiyafuna - angifuni", "ngizokwenza - ngeke" futhi usukhulile kakade, ngaphandle kweminsalo ebomvana kanye namabhuni kashokoledi, umbono wempilo. Yebo, siyazazi izibonelo zemikhaya yokutholwa ephumelelayo enentsha. Kodwa kanjani ukuheha ukunakwa okwengeziwe ezinkulungwaneni zezingane ezindala ezivela ezintandaneni? Thina basesisekelo, uma sikhuluma iqiniso, asikasazi isiphetho.
Kodwa siyazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi enye yezindlela ezisebenzayo ukusho ukuthi lezi zingane ZIKHONA, futhi okungenani zidwebe izithombe zabo zevidiyo ezinemivimbo emincane, enomoya, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uzinika ithuba lokuzitshela ngokwabo futhi wabelane ngamaphupho abo futhi. izifiso.
Kodwa-ke, ngemva kokuqopha izinkulungwane ezimbalwa zentsha ezindlini zezintandane kulo lonke elaseRussia, siyazi into eyodwa futhi esiqinisekile: ZONKE lezi zingane ziphelelwa yithemba, kuze kube seqophelweni lobuhlungu obusukela kwezibhakela ezigoqiwe, izinyembezi ezizigwinya, ziya emakamelweni azo okulala, zifuna ukuhlala kuwo. imindeni yabo.
Futhi uLera oneminyaka engu-14 ubudala, osibheka ngenselele, bese enethemba, ufuna ngempela ukuba umkhaya. Futhi sifuna ngempela ukumsiza ukuthi ayithole. Futhi ngakho siyibonisa ku-videoanket.