Okuqukethwe
Ukutholwa kwamazwe ngamazwe isinyathelo ngesinyathelo
Thola ukugunyazwa
Ukuthola ukugunyazwa Kuhlala kuyisinyathelo sokuqala esibalulekile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthola kwelinye izwe noma e-France. Ngaphandle kwakho, ayikho inkantolo ezosho ukutholwa, okungeke kube semthethweni. Ukugunyazwa kukhishwa UMkhandlu Jikelele womnyango wakho ngemva komthethosisekelo wefayela, futhi ngemva kwezingxoxo nosonhlalakahle kanye nodokotela bengqondo.
Khetha izwe
Uma unquma ukuyokwamukela phesheya, kunemibandela embalwa esebenzayo. Kukhona, futhi lokhu akuyona into encane, ukuhlobana esingaba nakho ngesiko noma izinkumbulo zokuhamba. Kodwa kufanele futhi sicabangele amaqiniso aphathekayo. Amanye amazwe avulekele kakhulu ukutholwa kanti amanye, amazwe amaSulumane ngokwesibonelo, aphikisana nakho. Abanye ohulumeni banombono onembe kakhulu ngabazokhethwa futhi bamukela imibhangqwana kuphela. Iphrofayili yengane ofuna ukuyikhulisa nayo ibalulekile: uyamfuna umntwana, unamahloni ngokuhluka kombala, usukulungele ukuthatha ingane egulayo noma ekhubazekile?
Ukuzinakekela noma ukuphelezelwa
Kunezinyathelo ezahlukene ongazithatha uma ufuna ukuzamukela. Kungenzeka ukuthi ungadluli kunoma yisiphi isakhiwo futhi uye ngqo ezweni lapho ufuna ukuthola khona ingane, kungukutholwa komuntu ngamunye. Isikhathi eside, iningi labantu baseFrance lakhetha lesi sixazululo. Lokhu akusenjalo namuhla. Ngo-2012, ukutholwa komuntu ngamunye kwakumelela u-32% wokutholwa. Bancipha kakhulu. Ngakho-ke ezinye izindlela ezimbili zingenzeka. Ungadlula ku-a i-ejensi yokutholwa egunyaziwe (OAA). Ama-AAO anegunya lezwe elithile, futhi ahlelwa umnyango. Okokugcina okungenzeka ukuphendukela ku i-French adoption agency (AFA), eyakhiwe ngo-2006, engakwazi ukwenqaba noma yiliphi ifayela kodwa, eqinisweni, linohlu olude lokulinda.
Khokha, yebo, kodwa yimalini?
Ukutholwa phesheya kuyabiza. Kuyadingeka ukuhlela izindleko zefayela okudinga ukuhumusha, ukuthengwa kwama-visa, intengo yokuhamba endaweni, ukubamba iqhaza ekusebenzeni kwe-OAA, okungukuthi izinkulungwane ezimbalwa zama-euro. Kodwa futhi, ngokungafanele, “umnikelo” ekhaya lezintandane okungabuye kubekwe inani lama-euro ayizinkulungwane ezimbalwa. Lo mkhuba wethusa abanye abakholelwa ukuthi ingane ayikwazi ukuthengwa. Abanye bakuthola kungokwemvelo ukunxephezela lawo mazwe, ukube abecebile, abengeke ngokuqinisekile ayeke izingane zawo zihambe.
Phatha ukulinda okunzima
Yilokhu okuvame ukubonakala kubuhlungu kakhulu kubamukeli: ukulinda, lezo zinyanga, ngezinye izikhathi leyo minyaka lapho kungenzeki lutho. Ukutholwa kwamazwe ngamazwe kuvame ukushesha kunaseFrance. Kuthatha ngokwesilinganiso iminyaka emibili phakathi kwesicelo sokuvunywa nokuhambisana. Ngokuya ngezwe kanye nezidingo zabafake izicelo, lesi sikhathi esinqunyiwe siyahlukahluka.
Yazi i-Hague Convention
ISivumelwano Sase-Hague esagunyazwa yi-France ngo-1993 sinomphumela oqondile wezinqubo zezwe ngalinye elisisayinile (futhi ziningi kakhulu eminyakeni yamuva): lo mbhalo uyakwenqabela ngempela ukutholwa "ngomuntu okhululekile" noma ngenqubo yomuntu ngamunye, futhi ubophezela abafake izicelo ukuthi badlule ku-OAA noma i-ejensi kazwelonke efana ne-AFA.. Kodwa-ke, isigamu sabathumeli baseFrance basamukela ngaphandle kwanoma yisiphi isakhiwo sokusekela.