Okokuqala, ake sichaze amagama. Amaphupho nezifiso - kungaba yinoma yini, ngisho nokungenakufezeka. Imigomo icace kakhudlwana, iyabonakala futhi iyabambeka, futhi izinhlelo sezisondele nakakhulu ekufezeni, lezi yizinyathelo eziya emigomweni emikhulu ngisho namaphupho.
1. "Izifiso eziyi-100"
Kunzima ukuthi abaningi bethu bafise okunye okunye, kunzima ukuphupha, kukhona uhlobo oluthile lwe-block yangaphakathi, i-stereotypes ivame ukusiphazamisa, njengokuthi "Bengingangifanele", "ngeke neze ifike. iqiniso”, “Ngeke ngibe nalokhu ” njll. Udinga ukuqeda ngokuphelele konke ukufakwa okunjalo ekhanda lakho.
Ukukhulula amandla ezifiso zakho - ngamanye amazwi, ungesabi ukuphupha - bhala uhlu olukhulu, olukhulu lwezinto ezingu-100. Bhala ngokuphelele konke okufikayo engqondweni yakho: kusuka kumshini wokujula amanzi omusha ukuya ohambweni lokuzungeza umhlaba noma ukuzilolongela i-vipasana esigodlweni samaBuddha. Uma kubhalwa izifiso ezingu-40-50 ohlwini bese kuba nzima ukuqhamuka nento entsha, vele uzitshele ukuthi lona umsebenzi okumele uqedwe ukuze uqhubeke, bese ubhala-bhala-bhala. "Umoya wesibili" uvula ngemuva kwezifiso ze-70-80, futhi kakade kunzima kwabanye ukuma emgqeni we-100.
2. Umsebenzi wakho
Cabanga ngomsebenzi wakho kulo mhlaba. Yini ofuna ukuyinika abantu? Yini ofuna ukuyizuza? Kungani uyidinga? Kuwusizo kakhulu ukucabanga impilo yakho eminyakeni engu-30-40, ngaphansi kwaziphi izimo nezimo ozozizwa ukuthi ukuphila kuyimpumelelo. Cabanga kuqala ngomphumela, mayelana nendlela ofuna ukuzizwa ngayo, futhi uhlobanise umgomo ngamunye nale mizwa, ukuthi ukugcwaliseka kwayo kuzokusiza yini ukusondela ebuntwini bakho bangempela kanye nesiphetho sakho.
3. Imigomo yeminyaka embalwa ezayo
Okulandelayo, bhala phansi imigomo yeminyaka emi-3-5 ezayo ezokusondeza ekufezeni umsebenzi wakho.
4. Imigomo ebalulekile ngesizini
Manje sekuyisikhathi sokucabanga ukuthi yimiphi imigomo ozoqala ukuyisebenzisa njengamanje, kule ntwasahlobo. Siphakamisa ukudweba imigomo ngezinkathi zonyaka: ubusika, intwasahlobo, ihlobo, ikwindla. Kodwa, sicela uqaphele ukuthi imigomo ingashintsha kakhulu phakathi nonyaka, ngoba nathi sihamba njalo. Nokho, ukuba nenjongo evamile nokuba khona kwemigomo kwenza ukuphila ngokwako kube nenjongo. Lapho usabalalisa imisebenzi usuku lonke noma isonto, zama ukulandela umthetho “wezinto ezibalulekile”. Okokuqala, hlela okubalulekile, okuphuthumayo futhi ongakufuni kakhulu. Uma wenza okunzima kwasekuqaleni, kukhishwa ukugeleza okukhulu kwamandla.
5. Uhlu “lwemizila yansuku zonke”
Ukwenza amaphupho abe yiqiniso, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza okungenani okuthile ekuqondeni kwabo. Qala ngokubhala uhlu lwezinto ezincane okufanele zenziwe njalo. Isibonelo, uma ufuna "ukugxila kakhulu futhi uqaphele," udinga ukungeza ukuzindla ohlwini lwakho lwansuku zonke lwezinto okufanele uzenze. Futhi lolu hlu lungaqukatha okungenani izinto ezingu-20, ukuqaliswa kwazo, njengomthetho, akuthathi isikhathi esiningi, kodwa kukusondeza emigomweni emikhulu. Ekuseni nakusihlwa, udinga ukugijima ohlwini ngamehlo akho ukuze uzikhumbuze ngalokho okusele okufanele kwenziwe noma ukuhlola ukuthi konke kwenziwa yini.
6. Yithi cha ekuzibambezeleni okungapheli
Ukuqhubekela phambili ezinhlosweni zakho, into eyinhloko ukuqala endaweni ethile, futhi ukuze ungabi namahloni ekusetshenzisweni kwabo, kubalulekile ukugxila kulokho okubaluleke ngempela okwamanje.
Okokuqala, udinga ukuhlela ngokucacile isikhathi sakho: kusihlwa, cabanga ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezikulindele ekuseni ukuze ungaguquki embhedeni, okufanayo kusebenza kusihlwa. Sonke isikhathi samahhala kufanele sihlelwe ukuze singachithi ngengozi “ekusefeni i-inthanethi” nokunye “okumosha isikhathi”.
Okwesibili, uma lolu daba lungenziwanga nhlobo, kodwa lubhalwa kabusha kuphela kusuka kwelinye i-glider kuya kwelinye, ungase ungabi nogqozi olufanele lokuliqedela, zama ukuthola kulokhu okuthile okuzohambisana nemigomo yakho, into ezokwenza kungcono, zama ukuzitholela inzuzo ekusetshenzisweni kwayo, futhi, kunjalo, qhubeka ngaphandle kokulibala.
Okwesithathu, izinto ezilenga emkhathini nesikhathi zithatha amandla amaningi, ngakho-ke zibekele isikhathi esiqondile. Zitshele ukuthi uzokwenza lokhu imizuzu eyi-15 kuphela, setha isibali sikhathi, beka ifoni yakho kude bese uhamba. Ngemva kwemizuzu engu-15, cishe, uzohileleka futhi ulethe udaba ekupheleni.
7. Izimfihlo ezimbili zokwenza yonke into yenziwe
Kunezindlela ezimbili eziphambene, kodwa ngayinye yazo ifanele izinhlobo ezahlukene zamacala.
a) Gxila kulokho okwenzayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukusetha isibali sikhathi, ubeke ifoni yakho kude, futhi wenze okudingayo ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa yinoma yini. Le ndlela ifanele amacala adinga ukuzibandakanya kwakho ngokugcwele.
b) Ukwenza izinto eziningi. Kunezimo ezingase zihlanganiswe kahle, ngoba zibandakanya izitho ezihlukene zokubona. Ungalungiselela kalula futhi ulalele izinkulumo ezilalelwayo noma izincwadi ezilalelwayo ngesikhathi esifanayo, ufunde incwadi bese ulinda emgqeni, uhlele imeyili futhi wenze imaski yezinwele, ukhulume ocingweni bese upheqa esiphakelini sezindaba, uphawule ukuthi uzobuyela ini kamuva, njll.
8. Into esemqoka yinqubo
Uyazi ukuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu ekuhleleni nasekufinyeleleni imigomo? Akuwona umphumela, hhayi iphuzu lokugcina, kodwa inqubo. Inqubo yokufinyelela imigomo iyingxenye enkulu yokuphila kwethu, futhi kufanele ilethe injabulo. Umphumela, yiqiniso, ubalulekile, kodwa ... zikhumbuze ngezikhathi ezithile ukuthi ujabule manje, futhi ukuze uthole injabulo awudingi ukulinda ukugcwaliseka kwakho konke-konke-zonke izifiso. Jabula ngalokho okwenzayo okwamanje: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha indawo yeholide noma izipho zabathandekayo, ukusebenza kuphrojekthi noma ukubhala incwadi. Injabulo yisimo somqondo esingancikile osukwini ekhalendeni, ukuthi ingabe usuvele ufinyelele ukuphakama okuphezulu esibhakabhakeni noma uya emgomweni wakho ngezinyathelo ezincane. Injabulo isendleleni yokufinyelela imigomo! Futhi sikufisela injabulo!