Okuqukethwe
Hlela yonke into ngaphambi kokuhamba… noma cishe!
Yenza impilo yakho ibe lula ngokuhamba kalula ngangokunokwenzeka. Yenza uhlu oluningiliziwe lwalokho ozodinga ngokuphelele. Thatha amarekhodi ezempilo, amakhophi omazisi, amaphasipoti ... Khumbula ukuthatha isethi yosizo lokuqala enemithi eyisisekelo yokushiswa yilanga, ukulunywa yizinambuzane, izinkinga zesisu, isifo sokunyakaza ... wena emazingeni okushisa endawo oya kuyo ukuze uhlele izingubo ezifanele, kanye nemvula efudumele imvunulo, uma kwenzeka ... Ungakhohlwa ingubo yokulala nemidlalo okufanele ihlale izingane - ikhonsoli yegeyimu, ithebhulethi noma i-smartphone yakho ingakongela uhambo lwakho, kodwa kwenze kucace ukuthi lokhu kusesikhathini sohambo kuphela! Letha okuthile okuzothatha izingane esimweni sezulu esinemvula: imidlalo yebhodi enizoyidlala ndawonye, amakhasi okufaka imibala, amakholaji, izincwadi ezinezithombe ukuze bahlale bematasa. Thatha ama-DVD abawathandayo uwabuke kanye nawo. Tadisha umzila wakho ngokuningiliziwe, hlela amakhefu ukuze welule imilenze yakho, futhi ubambe kancane ukuze udle futhi uphuze.
Yekela
Bonke omama (kanye nobaba) emhlabeni banemithetho engaphatheki egcizelela ukuphila kwansuku zonke komndeni. Amaholide yithuba lawo wonke umuntu ukuthi aphefumule kancane, aguqule indawo ahlala kuyo kanye nesigqi. Ungazikhathazi ufuna yonke into ilungiswe ngendlela obungenza ngayo ekhaya. Kulungile uma ingane yakho ilala ku-stroller yayo emthunzini ngenkathi uqeda ukudla isidlo sasemini. Asikho isidingo sokuzizwa unecala uma izingane zidla kancane kunokuvamile! Ungadla isidlo sasemini kamuva uma uya ohambweni, weqa isihlwathi, udla kakhulu, udla isemishi njengesidlo, uphume ubusuku obunye noma ezimbili nomndeni niyobona iziqhumane noma nidle u-ayisikhilimu. Yamukela okungalindelekile nokusha. Ungayisoli indoda yakho ngokuletha ama-crisps ane-barbeque-flavour, ama-pizza, nama-dessert creams uma ufuna okuluhlaza nezithelo.
Nika izingane amandla
Izingane ziyakuthanda ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini yasekhaya, ziyaziqhenya ngokusiza ngokuba wusizo. Ungangabazi ukubanikeza izibopho. Ukubeka izinto zokusika, izibuko namapuleti etafuleni kungaphakathi kwengane eneminyaka engu-2½/3 ubudala. Uma kukhona ukuphuka, bazoqonda ngokushesha ukubaluleka kokulawula ukunyakaza kwabo. Izingubo zasehlobo zilula ukugqoka, zivumele ukuba zikhethe izingubo zabo futhi zigqoke zodwa. Bageze futhi basule izingubo zabo zokubhukuda ezimanzi kanye namathawula lapho bebuya olwandle. Banike isikhwama abangabeka izinto namathoyizi abafuna ukukugibelisa. Bazoba nesibopho sokuziqoqa ngaphambi kokuhamba. Amaholide yisikhathi esihle sokuba bafunde ukugeza bebodwa futhi baphathe ngokuzimela ukusetshenziswa kwebhodwe kanye / noma izindlu zangasese zabantu abadala..
Ukudambisa ukungezwani
Ukuthi siseholidini akusho ukuthi ngeke sisaxabana. Eqinisweni, kufana nonyaka wonke, kubi nakakhulu, ngoba sindawonye amahora angu-24 ngosuku! Lapho enye isekupheleni kwentambo yayo, ibiza enye ukuze ithole usizo futhi ihambe kancane ukuze iphefumule futhi ihlise umoya. Enye indlela ekhululayo iwukubhala phansi noma yini ekubambayo, uthulule isikhwama sakho, ungazihloli, bese uklebhula iphepha ulilahle. UsuyiZen futhi! Ningadinwa isiphithiphithi enicikwa yila maholidi abolile, ningakhonondi nakancane ithuba ngoba liyathelelana. Wonke umuntu uqala ukububula! Kunalokho, zibuze ukuthi yini ongayishintsha ukuze uzizwe ungcono. Uma ucasukile noma ucasukile, veza imizwa yakho kumuntu wokuqala, esikhundleni salowo nalowo othi “Uyavilapha, unobugovu” ngokuthi “Ngicasukile, kuyangidabukisa”. Lezi zindlela eziyisisekelo zizokhanyisa umoya weholide.
Jabulela izinsuku zakho
Kusukela kwasekuseni, buza wonke umuntu: “Yini ongayenza ukuze wenze usuku lwakho lube luhle namuhla, ukuze ujabule?” Zibuze nawe umbuzo. Ngoba uma kumnandi ukwenza imisebenzi ndawonye, singakwazi futhi ukuhlela imisebenzi ngamaqembu kanye nomuntu oyedwa. Khumbula ukukuhlelela nje ikhefu lansuku zonke, ukuzilungisa izinwele noma ikhefu lokuphumula, ukulala emthunzini, ukugibela ibhayisikili ... Hamba uyocwilisa olwandle ekuseni kakhulu noma ekupheleni kosuku, ngamafuphi, ungakwenzi lokho. awunciphi indawo encane yokubaleka yedwa, uzojabula kakhulu ukuthola isizwe sakho.
Dlala ukushintshanisa kusukela ekuqaleni
Indoda yakho inenjongo eqinile yokubuyela kwezemidlalo, ivilapha ukufunda izinto ezivusa amadlingozi, ilale… Ngamafuphi, icebo layo iwukusebenzisa ngokugcwele amaholide. Ngenkathi unakekela abancane abanamathele ngokoqobo eziketini zakho futhi bafuna ukunakwa kwakho unomphela? Akunakwenzeka ! Uma kungenjalo, uzobuya ekhaya uvela eholidini uzizwa uthambile futhi ukhungathekile. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, chazela ubaba ngomoya ophansi ukuthi nawe useholidini, ukuthi uzosebenza ngokuhlukile, 50% wena, 50% yena. Mchazele ukuthi uthembele kuye ukuthi agade izingane, azihambise, aqoqe amagobolondo asolwandle, awabuke lapho ubhukuda futhi enze izinqaba zesihlabathi ngawo kuyilapho ushisa ilanga ngokuthula noma uyothenga noma ugijima. Sabalalisa imisebenzi, omunye uyothenga futhi omunye alungise ikhishi, omunye uzolungisa igumbi lokuphumula, omunye ahlanze izitsha, omunye anakekele okugeza futhi omunye aphathe isikhathi sokulala ... ajabulise izingane nabazali.
Phumula, lala...
Zonke izinhlolo-vo zibonisa, abayisishiyagalolunye kwabayishumi abavakashela eholidini bakholelwa ukuthi injongo yeholide iwukuba balulame ekukhathaleni okunqwabelene phakathi nonyaka.
Izingane nazo zikhathele, ngakho phumuza umndeni wonke. Lala lapho uzwa izimpawu zokuqala zokuthi udinga ukulala, thatha isihlwathi, futhi uvumele abancane nabadala bavuke sekwephuzile futhi bayodla ukudla kwasekuseni. Akukho ukujaha, kungamaholide!
Yenza impilo yakho ibe lula
Uma usulapho, khetha ukudla okulula, ama-brunch ekuseni, amasaladi axutshwe, ama-picnics emini, izitsha ezinkulu ze-pasta, ama-barbecues, ama-pancake nama-pancake kusihlwa.
Akukho okukuvimbayo, ngezikhathi ezithile, ukuthi wenze isidlo sakusihlwa ngo-19 ebusuku futhi udle isidlo sakusihlwa uwedwa ngo-21pm Thenga ngezikhathi ezithile ukudla okuphekiwe kwesifunda emakethe kanye nemifino efriziwe esitolo ukuze ugweme imisebenzi yasekhaya ...
Hamba ngedethi yothando ngezikhathi ezithile
Ukuba abazali akusho ukudweba umugqa empilweni yakho yomshado. Zinikeze umoya ohlanzekile, phathisa ingane yakho kumzanyana ukuze aphume ayodla nesithandwa sakho noma azikhiphe nabangane. Hlola nehhovisi lezokuvakasha ukuze uthole uhlu lwabazanyana basendaweni futhi ubone abambalwa ukuze uthole lelo gugu elingavamile olithembayo. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungazisebenzisi lezi zindlela zokweqa ukuze ukhiphe wonke amafayela “azwelayo” obungenaso isikhathi sokubhekana nawo phakathi nonyaka ahlehla abe umugqa (umama wakho, izingane, umsebenzi wakho, abangani bakho, ukuvuza endlini yokugezela, njll.). Thatha ithuba lalezi zikhathi zakusihlwa zasehlobo ezipholile futhi ujabulele
injabulo ukukuthola ubuso nobuso, kalula nje.
ULudivine, unina kaLéon, oneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, u-Ambre et violette, oneminyaka engu-2 ubudala: “Sixhaphaza abantwana ngaphezu kwakho konke”
“Sisebenza kakhulu, ngakho amaholidi awokuthi sijabulele izingane zethu. Senza konke ndawonye futhi kuhle. Kodwa ebusuku, silala njengezingane ! Bonke omagazini basho njalo : amaholide isikhathi esikahle sokuthi izithandani zifudumale ngokocansi ! Kodwa asikho esimweni sokugangile, ikakhulukazi ngokushiswa yilanga ! Futhi njengawo wonke unyaka, sikhathele futhi sicindezelekile, sizizwa sinecala kakhulu… Kuyinselele yangempela futhi isikhathi ngasinye, siyaziqinisekisa ngokuzitshela ukuthi sizoba ohambweni lothando “maduze”. “