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Ukuzalwa ekhaya ngokusebenza
Zalela ekhaya, ngokwesatshiswa ngokuphelele, nombelethisi wakho kanye nobaba. Yilokho kuphela. Lo mbono ukhanga omama abaningi bakusasa. Ukuze wenze lesi sinqumo unolwazi, okokuqala udinga ukwazi ukuthi ukuzalwa ekhaya kuhamba kanjani.
Bobabili abazali besikhathi esizayo kufanele bakhuthazeke futhi baqiniseke. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukukhuluma ngakho kusengaphambili nomngane womshado, ukuze ucabangele lokhu kuzalwa ndawonye. Ngokuqaphela ukuthi mhlawumbe omunye uzobe, ngesinye isikhathi noma kwesinye, esabophekile ukuba ayobeletha esibhedlela sokubeletha. Into yokuqala: thola eduze nasekhaya UMbelethisi okhululekile noma udokotela obelethela ekhaya, futhi ngubani othathe umshwalense odingekayo. Kwezinye izifunda, lokhu kungaba umsebenzi onzima. Isu elisebenza ngempumelelo kakhulu: ukukhuluma ngomlomo… Ungaxhumana nombelethisi okhululekile. Angase asibhekise komunye wodadewabo, noma udokotela, obelethela ekhaya.
Ukufeza le phrojekthi futhi ukuze lokhu kuzalwa kwenzeke ngaphansi kwezimo ezingcono kakhulu, umbelethisi okhethiwe kufanele akhuthaze ukuzethemba okuphelele, kubalulekile. Ikakhulukazi njengoba ngeke sibe ne-epidural. Ngasohlangothini lwakhe, uchwepheshe kufanele ezwe ukusekela kombhangqwana futhi abalalele.
Ukulandelela kwezokwelapha kokuzalwa ekhaya
Kusukela kungxoxo yokuqala, umbelethisi kufanele atshele abazali bakusasa zonke izimo ezizokwenza kube nzima ukubelethela ekhaya. Impela kufanele iyekwe uma kwenzeka ukukhulelwa okungamawele, ukwethulwa kwebele, usongo lokubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi, umlando wokuhlinzwa, umfutho wegazi ophezulu noma isifo sikashukela sikamama. Kulokhu, owesifazane nosana lwakhe badinga ukugadwa okujulile kwezokwelapha nokunakekelwa okukhethekile okufanele kunikezwe esibhedlela. Njengasewadini yababelethayo, umama ozozala unelungelo lokubonisana nyanga zonke, okuthatha cishe ihora, futhi okungenani ama-ultrasounds amathathu. Iphinde ibe ngaphansi kokuhlolwa okuphoqelekile nokufakazelwe: i-toxoplasmosis, i-rubella, iqembu legazi, izimpawu ze-serum… Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akukho ukwelashwa ngokweqile noma ukweqisa ezivivinyweni. Mayelana nokulungiselela ukubeletha, ungakhetha ukukwenza nomunye umbelethisi uma uthanda.
Usuku lokuzalwa ekhaya
Silungiselela konke ekhaya. Lapho umbelethisi efika, umbelethisi uzodinga umatilasi wepulasitiki, amathawula endwangu ye-terrycloth kanye nendishi. Kokunye, asizikhathazi ngalutho. Ngokushesha nje lapho sishaya ucingo, uzosihlanganyela nemishini yakhe siqu, kuhlanganise nokuqapha ukuze alalele ukushaya kwenhliziyo yomntwana. Sisekhaya, ngakho-ke singakhetha igumbi kanye nesikhundla lapho sifuna ukubeletha khona. Umbelethisi useceleni kwethu ukuze asisekele, asicebise futhi asiphelezele, kuyilapho eqinisekisa ukuthi ukubeletha kuhamba kahle. Angakwazi futhi, uma kwenzeka kuba nenkinga, acele ukuthi sidluliselwe esibhedlela sokubeletha. Ngasohlangothini lwethu, singashintsha izingqondo zethu kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina.
Ukuze lokho kubeletha kwenzeke ngokuqhubekayo ngisho noma kwenzeka kuba nezinkinga, futhi kuqinisekise impilo yethu neyengane yethu, umbelethisi isivumelwano nesibhedlela sokubeletha esiseduze. Lokhu kubalulekile ukuze samukelwe ngaphansi kwezimo ezingcono kakhulu uma kwenzeka ukubeletha kungenakwenzeka ekugcineni ekhaya.
Izinsuku ezilandela ukubeletha
Akunjalo ngoba sisekhaya ukuthi sizophinde siqhubeke nomsebenzi wethu ngokushesha. Ubaba kufanele ahlele ukuba sekhaya okungenani isonto ukuze "athathe indawo" futhi enze imisebenzi yasekhaya. Umbelethisi usinike inombolo yakhe yocingo, singamfonela uma kunenkinga. Uzophinde asivakashele nsuku zonke izinsuku ezintathu noma ezine, khona-ke njalo ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbili noma ezintathu, ukuze siqiniseke ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle, komntwana kanye nathi.
Ukuzalwa ekhaya: kubiza malini?
Ukuzalelwa ekhaya kubiza un kubiza kancane kunokubeletha endaweni yokubeletha yomphakathie, kodwa ngaphansi kwenkampani ezimele. Abanye ababelethisi bashintsha amanani abo ukuze ahambisane neholo lombhangqwana. Ngokuvamile, kukhona phakathi kuka-750 kanye ne-1200 yama-euro okubeletha, lapho ama-euro angu-313 embozwa yi-Social Security. Xhumana nenkampani yakho yomshwalense ohlanganyelwe, ehlanganisa izimali ezeqile.