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Ukuzalwa ekhaya ngokusebenza
I-epidural, i-episiotomy, i-forceps… abawafuni! Omama abakhetha ukubeletha ekhaya bafuna ngaphezu kwakho konke ukubalekela izwe lasesibhedlela abathola lisetshenziswe ngokweqile.
Ekhaya, abesifazane abakhulelwe bazizwa sengathi balawula ukubeletha, hhayi ukuhlupheka. “Asiphoqi lutho kumama ozozala. Angakwazi ukudla, ukugeza, ukugeza okubili, ukushaywa umoya engadini njll. Ukuba sekhaya kumvumela ukuba akuzwe ukuzalwa kwengane yakhe ngokugcwele nangendlela abona ngayo. Silapha nje ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi konke kuhamba kahle. Kodwa nguye okhetha isikhundla sakhe noma onqumayo lapho eqala ukusunduza, isibonelo, "kuchaza uVirginie Lecaille, umbelethisi okhululekile. Inkululeko nokulawula okuhlinzekwa wukuzalwa ekhaya kudinga ukulungiswa okuningi. “Akuwona wonke umuntu wesifazane ongabelethela ekhaya. Kufanele ube nokuvuthwa okuthile futhi wazi ukuthi i-adventure enjalo imele ini ”
E-Netherlands, ukuzalwa ekhaya kuvame kakhulu: cishe ama-30% wezingane azalelwa ekhaya!
Ukuzalwa ekhaya, ukubhekwa okuthuthukisiwe
Ukubelethela ekhaya kugcinelwe omama bakusasa abanempilo ephelele kuphela. Ukukhulelwa okuyingozi kakhulu akufakiwe. Yini enye, cishe u-4% wabantu abazalelwa emakhaya baphelela esibhedlela ! Umama wesikhathi esizayo ofuna ukubeletha ingane yakhe ekhaya kufanele alinde kuze kube yinyanga yesishiyagalombili yokukhulelwa ukuze athole ukukhanya okuluhlaza kumbelethisi. Ungakucabangeli ukuzalelwa ekhaya uma ukhulelwe amawele noma amawele amathathu, uzokwaliwa! Kuyoba okufanayo uma ingane yakho inikeza i-breech, uma ukuzalwa kulindeleke ukuba kube ngaphambi kwesikhathi, uma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukukhulelwa kudlula amasonto angu-42 noma uma uhlushwa umfutho wegazi ophakeme, isifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa, njll.
Kungcono ukuvimbela ukubeletha phezulu
“Ngokusobala, asizibeki engozini ngesikhathi sokubeletha ekhaya: uma inhliziyo yengane ithatha kancane, uma unina elahlekelwa igazi eliningi noma uma nje umbhangqwana ulicela, siya esibhedlela ngokushesha. », Kuchaza u-V. Lecaille. Ukudlulisa okufanele kuhlelwe! Abazali kanye nombelethisi ohamba nabo kulolu hlelo lokusebenza kufanele yazi ukuthi iyiphi iyunithi yokubeletha okufanele uye kuyo uma kwenzeka kuba nenkinga. Ngisho noma isibhedlela singakwazi ukwenqaba owesifazane obelethayo, kungcono ukucabangela ukubhalisa esibhedlela sokubeletha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwakhe nokwazisa ukusungulwa ukuthi ucabangela ukuzalwa ekhaya. Ukuvakashela ngaphambi kokubeletha nombelethisi esibhedlela nokwenza i-aphoyintimenti nodokotela obulala izinzwa enyangeni yesishiyagalombili kukuvumela ukuthi ube nefayela lezokwelapha elilungile. Kwanele lula umsebenzi wodokotela uma kwenzeka ukudluliselwa okuphuthumayo.
Ukubelethela ekhaya: umzamo weqembu wangempela
Esikhathini esiningi, ngumbelethisi kuphela osiza umama obelethela ekhaya. Wakha ubuhlobo obuseduze kakhulu nabazali bakusasa. Cishe bangamashumi amahlanu kubo eFrance abazalela ekhaya. Ababelethisi bodwa banikeza ukwesekwa okuphelele. Uma konke kuhamba kahle, umama ozozala angase angamboni udokotela izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye!” Ababelethisi baqinisekisa ukulandelelwa kokukhulelwa: bahlola umama ozayo, baqaphe inhliziyo yengane, njll. Abanye baze bagunyazwe ukwenza ama-ultrasounds. Ukolweni, "umsebenzi wethu omningi uwukulungiselela ukuzalelwa ekhaya nabazali. Ngalokho, sixoxa, kakhulu. Sizinika isikhathi sokubalalela, sibaqinisekise. Umgomo uwukubanikeza zonke izikhiye ukuze bazizwe benekhono lokuletha ingane yabo emhlabeni. Kwesinye isikhathi, ingxoxo idlulela ngale: abanye bafuna ukukhuluma ngezinkinga zabo zobudlelwane, ezocansi ... izinto esingakaze sikhulume ngazo ngesikhathi sokubonisana ngaphambi kokubeletha esibhedlela, ”kuchaza u-V. Lecaille.
Nge-D-Day, indima yombelethisi ukuqondisa ukubeletha nokuqinisekisa ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle. Asikho isidingo sokuthemba noma yikuphi ukungenelela: ama-epidural, ama-infusions, ukusetshenziswa kwe-forceps noma izinkomishi zokumunca akuyona ingxenye yamakhono akhe!
Uma ukhetha ukubelethela ekhaya, kuhilela ubaba! Amadoda ngokuvamile azizwa njengomlingisi ngaphezu kwesibukeli: "Ngijabule futhi ngiyaziqhenya ngokubhekana nalokhu kuzalwa ekhaya, kubonakala kimi ukuthi ngangikhuthele, ngiqinisekisiwe futhi ngikhululekile kunokuba ngabe sasisewodini lababeletha" , utshela uSamuel, umngane ka-Emilie kanye noyise kaLouis.