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Unodoli, into ebalulekile yokudlala impilo yansuku zonke
Ngesikhathi esendleleni eya ekhaya nonina, kwakungamabomu ukuthi u-Lorine, 2 nohhafu, ashiye unodoli wakhe ebhentshini esigcawini. “Lapho ngilandela izinyathelo zami ngiyolanda ithoyizi, indodakazi yami yangenela. Wabamba unodoli, wawubuyisela ebhentshini futhi wababaza ngokuqinile: – Wedwa! Kwakubonakala kusho lukhulu kuye. Isigameko sase senzeke ngayizolo. Ukuze ngidambe inkinga yezinyembezi engangizizwa ngivela, ngazama ukuthola okwengeziwe. U-Lorine wagcina esengitshela: – Ngingedwa, njengoTata. ” Lesi senzakalo senza u-Erika nomyeni wakhe baqaphile, abathola lokho ababengenakukucabanga: phakathi nosuku, umuntu owayenakekele indodakazi yabo izinyanga ezimbalwa emzini wabo wayengekho njalo, emshiya yodwa, isikhathi somjaho noma ikhofi. Ubufakazi obugcizelela ukuthi ukudlala ngonodoli akulona ize.
Ungaphazamisi umdlalo wakhe!
Enganeni, ukudlala ngonodoli akulungiseleli umsebenzi wayo wesikhathi esizayo wokuba ngumama noma ubaba. Leli yithuba lokuphinda adlale iziqephu zempilo yakhe yansuku zonke ukuze aziqonde kangcono, azibuze, azithambe, azenze esiteji. Nokho, ungathathi yonke into ngezinga lokuqala: ungethuki uma ingane yakho iphuzisa umgezi wayo inkomishi lapho eyifake ebhavini layo noma uma ethatha isixubho sikasawoti ekhishini lakhe elincane ukuze ayikhafulele izinqe. Umdlalo umahhala, ukuthinta kwesinye isikhathi kuba nzima, futhi umcabango ubusa kakhulu ngisho noma ugqugquzelwa yiqiniso. Ngenkathi unake ingane yakho, yivumele idlale ngendlela ethanda ngayo ukuze izwakalise futhi ihlele izigaba ezikufunayo. Mvumele aphendule ishubhu mbumbulu yeketchup ibe ishubhu mbumbulu ye-liniment, ungaphazamisi futhi ungenelele kuphela uma ekucela. Ukudlala ngonodoli okungokomfanekiso kuyibhizinisi elibucayi elidinga ukugxilisa ingqondo, ubuhlakani kanye nobumfihlo. Izikhathi eziningi ngalezi zikhathi, ingane yakho encane izodinga nje ukwazi ukuthi awukho kude, futhi ukuhlangabezana namehlo akho kanye ngesikhathi ukuze uzizwe uqinisekisiwe futhi "ugunyaziwe" ukudlala. Ukuba khona kwakho ngobuhlakani kubaluleke kakhulu uma edinga ukuzikhulula ngokomzwelo ngokuveza imizwa yentukuthelo, ukwesaba, umona noma ukungakhululeki asevele wabhekana nakho noma wakubona: “Ubungeyena unodoli omuhle, ngithukuthele. Uthukuthele kakhulu! ” Uma umlalela, ingabe unomuzwa wokuthi uklabalasa ngokuphindwe kashumi kunawe lapho uthathwa? Uphonsa unodoli wakhe phansi lapho kusobala ukuthi awuzange wenze lokho naye? Indlela ozizwa ngayo njengomuntu omdala nalokho obhekana nakho useyingane kuyizinto ezimbili ezihluke kakhulu. Zibuze uma umbona ewusizo, kodwa ungabuzi ukuthi yini ayidingayo ukuze ayiveze ngaphandle futhi ayisho ngomlomo. Ungamceli ukuthi ayeke. Ungamtsheli ukuthi unehaba. Ngisho kuncane ukuthi ukhohlakele. Udlala indima nje. Uma eqonda ukuthi kufanele abe nesimo sengqondo esingenasici ngonodoli wakhe, ukuthi uqondisa ezinye zezenzo zakhe, azizwa engenele noma engavumi, umdlalo wakhe uzokhawulelwa futhi ekugcineni uzowulahla. Ngakho vele uhloniphe ingane yakho futhi umethembe: ngokuphinda achaze izinto ngendlela yakhe ngendlela yomdlalo, ulawula imizwa ethile, ahlehle, ngezinye izikhathi adlulele ngale kwezimo okungenzeka ukuthi, kuze kube yileso sikhathi, zingamdalela inkinga.. Ingane edlala ngonodoli iyingcosana evuthwayo futhi ikhule, eyenza futhi iphendule.
Kusukela kumbukeli kuya kumlingisi wengane
Ukuntuleka kokuzimela, ukukhungatheka kanye nokuzithoba emiyalweni kanye nesigqi sempilo yabantu abadala kugcizelela impilo yansuku zonke yengane encane. Ukuthi igunya lakho uliphila kahle noma kabi, uncike kuwe kukho konke. Kulo mongo, ukudlala ngonodoli kusho ukuthatha amandla amancane, ukushiya ukubuka noma ukungenzi lutho ukuze uhileleke ngokugcwele kuzo zonke lezo zinto ezibekelwe abantu abadala noma labo abadala kunawe. Ngakho, i-pitchoun enezinyanga ezingu-18 ubudala engakaze igone umfowabo omncane iyojabulela ukuthwala igeza layo emagumbini amane endlu noma ukuzenza sengathi iyamncelisa. Ingane eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala esabekwa etafuleni elishintshayo izikhathi ezinhlanu noma eziyisithupha ngosuku izoba nenjabulo enkulu ekuguquleni izindima futhi inikeze usana lwayo inabukeni elihlanzeke kakhulu: “Uchamile? Woza! ” Ukwenza kahle noma ukuba nomuzwa wokwazi ukuvala inabukeni, ukusetshenziswa kokhilimu ezinqeni kanye nemvumelwano ehambisana nakho, yeka injabulo kumntwana osacathula. Cishe eminyakeni emi-3 noma engu-4 ubudala, esikoleni kusukela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku, uzokujabulela ukuphinda enze ingxenye yekilasi ekhaya futhi akhumbuze abafundi bakhe abancane ngemithetho yokuhlala ndawonye. Kuhlanganisa, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, labo akuthola kunzima ukuzihlanganisa: “Bambaneni izandla niye enkantini; Ungashayi amaqabane akho; Ungawudabuli umdwebo kaKevin! ” Izimo zizoguquka ngokuya ngeminyaka, indawo kanye nokuvuthwa.
Unodoli ongadabuki futhi ongamomotheki
Kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-15-18, ukuze ingane yakho ikhule ngokukhululekile kulolu hlobo lomdlalo, faka umntwana onawo. Noma ekujuleni kwebhokisi lakhe lokudlala (kufanele akwazi ukuyithola kalula), noma ngokuqondile ezingalweni zakhe: angase angayifuni, angayidingi ngokushesha, hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Isithombe sosana olufanele noma unodoli ongaphansi kweminyaka engu-5-6 ubudala: "ingane" noma ingane encane efana naye, ayilula kakhulu noma isindayo kakhulu, ayincane kakhulu noma inkulu kakhulu, kulula ukuyiphatha nokuyiphatha. Okusho ukuthi akekho unodoli omkhulu ongamhlaba umxhwele noma abe nobunzima bokuwuthwala yedwa, akekho u-Barbie onesithende, u-One Piece noma izibalo zesenzo se-Ever After High, ingasaphathwa eye-Monster Highs ehloselwe i-tweens. Usana olufanele noma unodoli akufanele abe nesimo sobuso esimakiwe noma: akufanele adabuke noma amamatheke, ukuze ingane iveze kuye imizwa nemizwelo ayikhethile. Futhi njengoba nje umuntu omdala kungafanele aqondise ukudlala kwengane, unodoli akufanele atshele omncane: “Ngigone; nginike ibhodlela; Ngiyozela, uphi umbhede wami? ” Isikhathi sokudlala sizofinyezwa futhi sibe mpofu. Esikhundleni salokho khetha amanani aphephile afana nonodoli bakwa-Waldorf ozozenza wena noma uthenge ngokuchofoza ku-fabrique-moi-une-poupee.com, www.demoisellenature.fr, www.happytoseeyou.fr. Kukhathalogi yezinhlobo ezisatshalaliswa kabanzi ezifana ne-Corolle, khetha amamodeli alula afana ne-Bébé Câlin nesudi yayo yokushayela yasebusika ene-Velcro (kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-18) noma Ingane Yami yakudala (kusukela eminyakeni engu-3 ubudala), lolu hlu ngokusobala aluphelele.
Izingubo nezesekeli zivumelaniswe namakhono akhe
Kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-15 kanye neminyaka emide kakhulu, khetha futhi amamodeli afana neRubens Babies kusukela ku-brand Rubens Barn amehlo evaliwe, angashiyi muntu ongenandaba nekhala labo eliphendukile, imilenze ekhonjiwe kanye namathanga agcwele. Zithande noma uzizonde ikakhulukazi esitolo se-inthanethi se-Oxybul, lapho besanda kwenza khona i-debut yabo ekupheleni kuka-2014. Phakathi kwabancane, bawine wonke amavoti: 45 cm ubude ngesisindo esincane esingu-700 g, ama-diapers. ukuklwejwa futhi ungalimazi ngaphandle kobunzima ngezandla ezincane zezingane kanye nekepisi lokugeza lapho ukugoqa khona ingane yendwangu ngokuphazima kweso, lapho ezinye izinhlobo zemikhiqizo ziqhubeka nokuthengisa izingubo ezithungwe emzimbeni wamathoyizi noma eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ukuze zigqoke. ngomncane. Izingubo kufanele ngempela zivumelane namandla engane ukuze ingahlangabezane nobunzima obukhulu ngenkathi idlala, futhi ngaleyo ndlela ingakwazi ukuzinikela ngokugcwele emdlalweni "wokuzenzisa". Ama-cardigans anezinkinobho eziyishumi adinga ubuciko obukhulu, okuzoba okwakamuva. Ngokuqondene nezinsiza, into efanayo: kuze kube yiminyaka engu-3-4 ubudala, izingane zidinga izinto eziyisisekelo ezingezona ezincane kakhulu. Uma kuzoncipha futhi kungabi yinkimbinkimbi, umdlalo nomqondo owudalayo ucebe kakhulu! Asikho isidingo sokuchitha imali eshisiwe: isitsha sepulasitiki esithengwe esitolo sizoba silungele ukugeza. I-mattress yangempela ye-bassinet noma i-cot ebekwe phansi izoba yinto ekahle ukuthi ingane encane ilale unodoli wayo ngaphandle kobunzima. Usuyitholile: ukudlala ngonodoli osacathula akufanele nanini kube isivivinyo esingenakunqotshwa kumakhono amahle emoto, ingasaphathwa isifundo semfashini noma ikilasi lokunakekela izingane. Isikhala nje senkululeko sokudlala kabusha impilo yansuku zonke, ukusungula amathuba futhi uhlale uye phambili.
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