Ingane ngemuva kwe-40

Kushintshani ukuba ngumama eneminyaka engama-40?

Inhlanhla encane, ukubekezela okukhulu

Ubunzima bokuqala: ukukhulelwa. Lapho uneminyaka engu-40, ngokuvamile kuthatha isikhathi eside ukukhulelwa, okungenani unyaka. Kusukela kule minyaka empeleni, owesifazane unamathuba angu-10% okuvundiswa, okusho ukuthi ngaphansi ngokuphindwe kathathu uma kuneminyaka engu-25 ubudala. Kodwa lezi yizilinganiso kuphela. Eqinisweni, bangaki abesifazane abaneminyaka engu-40 noma engu-42 ababekhulelwe esikhathini esingaphansi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha ngemva kokuyeka ukuvimbela inzalo?

Ubunzima besibili: udlule ingqophamlando ye-trimester yokuqala. Kule minyaka, ukuphuphuma kwesisu ekuqaleni (ukuphazamiseka ekuthuthukiseni iqanda ngisho nangaphambi kosuku lokuya esikhathini) kuvame kakhulu. Ngakho ngemva kweminyaka engama-40, u-30% wokukhulelwa aweqeli esigabeni senyanga yesibili. Umbuzo, ukuguga kwama-oocyte agcinwe kuma-ovari kusukela ngenyanga yesine yokuphila kombungu! Futhi iminyaka emihlanu noma eyishumi ngaphezulu, lokho kubalwa, kuma-oocyte futhi.

Iminyaka iyahamba, pho?

Ukukhulelwa usumdala sekuyinsakavukela umchilo wesidwaba. Isibalo sabantu abazalwa ngemuva kwama-40 siphindeke ngaphezu kokuphindwe kathathu ku-XNUMX edlule iminyaka! Ezimweni ezingu-15%, kuba okokuqala, kodwa isikhathi esiningi, umndeni okhulayo. ” EFrance, imibhangqwana eminingi inquma ukwenza okwesithathu noma okwesine, ingasaphathwa eyemizi eqanjwe kabusha! ", Kuvusa uProfessor Michel Tournaire, inhloko yewodi yababeletha esibhedlela iSaint-Vincent-de-Paul, umbhali wencwadi ethi Injabulo yokuba ngumama - Ukukhulelwa ngemuva kweminyaka engama-35. Futhi-ke, kalula, iminyaka iyashintsha! Owomntwana wokuqala ufinyelela eminyakeni ecishe ibe ngu-30 kwabesifazane, ngakho-ke, lesi sakamuva sizophuma kamuva nje kanye neminyaka embalwa edlule. 

Ukukhulelwa sekwephuzile, kuyimfashini!

UMadonna wazala uLourdes eneminyaka engu-39 kanye nendodana yakhe uRocco eneminyaka engu-41. U-Isabelle Adjani wayenomfana wakhe wokugcina, uGabriel-Kane, eneminyaka engu-40 ubudala. U-Lio wabeletha amawele akhe u-Garance no-Léa eneminyaka engu-37 ubudala, futhi wathola ingane yakhe u-Diego eneminyaka engu-41. Lapho uphila impilo yenkanyezi ... izingane ziza kamuva! Nakuba kuvamile namuhla, lokhu kukhulelwa sekwephuzile akufanele kuthathwe kalula! Badinga ukunakwa okukhethekile futhi abesifazane abakucabangelayo kufanele bazibuze imibuzo efanele ngaphambi kokuba baqale. : “Bazosabela kanjani abaseduze kwami? "," Ngizobamba ngokomzimba? »,« Ngiyakwazi yini ukuthatha umehluko ongaka ngeminyaka phakathi kwami ​​nengane yami? “…

Ukwamukela ukukhulelwa kwakho sekwephuzile 

Kwabadala. Bangase bafihle injabulo yabo lapho bethola ukuthi ukhulelwe. Bazocabangani abangani? Futhi-ke, kancane ekhaya, kubanga umsindo! Ungakhathazeki, lapho umfowethu noma udadewabo omncane esezelwe, bazothanda ukumtotosa ...

Indodana ehambisanayo. “Akazinaki izingozi azithathayo! “,” Akungabazeki ukuthi kuyingozi … “… Ukukhathazeka kwabanye, ukwahlulela kwabanye … akulula kumama wesikhathi esizayo ukuthi abhekane nokusabela okuthile. Gxila kakhulu enhlalakahleni yakho neyomntwana!

Ukuba nomntwana kamuva, yiziphi izinzuzo?

Sifakwe kangcono. Okokuqala ebuhlotsheni bakhe, kodwa nasemsebenzini wethu ngakho-ke, ekhaya! “Laba omama bakusasa banesimo esingcono senhlalo nomnotho. Kulula kubo ukwamukela kancane ”kugcizelela uProf Tournaire.

Sihlakaniphe kakhudlwana. “Eminyakeni engu-40, ukuphatha kahle ukukhulelwa kwakho. Abesifazane abaneminyaka engu-40 ubudala bathatha izinyathelo zokuqapha kakhulu kunomama abasebancane… mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi bayabazi ubucayi bendaba futhi banolwazi oluthe xaxa! ” 

Sithatha ukukhathala kwakhe ngamahlaya! “Uma ngibabona befika ehhovisi lami, bangamafulethi! Ziba buhlungu lapho zivuka, lapho ziyolala, kodwa zibeke ukumamatheka okukhulu kulezi zinhlungu. Bakhuthazeka kakhulu, mhlawumbe…”

Elinye ilungelo lobudala: ngemva kweminyaka engu-35, sinamamaki ambalwa, ngoba isikhumba sivuthiwe! (Lezo yizindaba ezinhle njalo okufanele uzithathe!)