Okuqukethwe
“Themba, kodwa qinisekisa,” kusho isisho esidumile. Ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza kwethu, konke kuzohamba nge-topsy-turvy: abangaphansi bazophuthelwa iphrojekthi ebalulekile, futhi umyeni uzokhohlwa ukukhokha izikweletu zendlu. Kodwa ngokuzama ukulandelela yonke into, sisebenzisa inani elikhulu lamandla nesikhathi. Nawa amasu ayi-7 okusiza ukugqashula umkhuba wokulawula.
“Awusoze wazi ukuthi yini ekulinde ekhoneni,” kusho izindela ezingamaBuddha. Ziningi izinto ezingaphandle kwamandla ethu futhi esingenakho ukuzilawula. Izimo zemvelo, ikusasa (kokubili elethu kanye nelaso sonke isintu), imizwa nezenzo zabanye abantu - sizama ukuzilawula, sichitha isikhathi namandla. Ungakuyeka kanjani ukukwenza?
1. Thola ukuthi yini ongayithonya
Awukwazi ukuphoqa umngane womshado ukuba ashintshe, awukwazi ukuvimbela isiphepho, awukwazi ukulawula ukuphuma kwelanga, imizwa nezenzo zezingane, ozakwabo, abantu obajwayele. Ngezinye izikhathi okuwukuphela kwento ongakwazi ukuyilawula nhlobo izenzo zakho nesimo sakho sengqondo kulokho okwenzekayo. Futhi kungalesi sici lapho kunengqondo ukusebenza.
2. Badedele
Izwe ngeke liwe uma ingane ikhohlwa incwadi ekhaya, uma umyeni engabizi inkampani yokuphatha. Bazikhohliwe - bazophuma bona, lezi izinkathazo zabo, futhi asikho isidingo sokuthi ukhumbule lezi zinto ezincane. Futhi uma ungawahlanyisi amehlo akho kamuva ngala mazwi: “Ngangazi ukuthi uzokhohlwa,” khona-ke lokhu kuzobanikeza amandla nokholo kubo ngokwabo.
3. Zibuze ukuthi ukulawula okuphelele kuyasiza noma kuyathiya
Wesabani? Kwenzekani uma «udedela izintambo»? Ingabe lokhu ngempela ukukhathazeka kwakho? Imaphi amabhonasi oyitholayo ngokuzama ukulawula yonke into? Mhlawumbe uma ususa umsebenzi othile ohlwini, uzoba nesikhathi esiningi samahhala. Ingabe uyaqonda ukuthi okuwukuphela kwento ongaqiniseka ngayo ukuthi sonke siyofa ngolunye usuku, futhi okunye kungaphezu kwamandla ethu?
4. Chaza umkhakha wakho wethonya
Awukwazi ukwenza ingane umfundi ongcono, kodwa ungamnika amathuluzi okuba umholi phakathi kwabalinganayo. Awukwazi ukuphoqa abantu ukuthi bajabulele iphathi, kodwa ungakha umoya ofudumele, wokwamukela ephathini. Ukuze ube nethonya elengeziwe, kufanele ulawule ukuziphatha kwakho, izenzo. Yisebenzise ngokugcwele. Uma wesaba ukuthi othile angenza okuthile okungalungile, veza ukwesaba kwakho, kodwa kanye kuphela. Ungazami ukuthonya abantu abangafuni.
5. Hlukanisa phakathi kokucabanga ngezinkinga nokubheka izixazululo
Ukuhlala udlala futhi ingxoxo wayizolo ekhanda lakho nokukhathazeka ngemiphumela eyinhlekelele yomsebenzi kuyingozi. Kodwa ukucabanga ngendlela yokuxazulula inkinga kuyasiza. Zibuze ukuthi wenzani manje - ukhombisa noma ucabanga ukuthi ungasilungisa kanjani isimo? Zama ukuthatha ikhefu ekukhathazekeni kwakho imizuzu embalwa. Khona-ke gxila emicabangweni ekhiqizayo.
6. Funda ukuphumula
Vala ifoni yakho ngezikhathi ezithile, ungayi ku-inthanethi, ungayibuki i-TV. Cabanga ukuthi usesiqhingini esiwugwadule, lapho - bheka futhi bheka - kukhona zonke izinsiza nemikhiqizo edingekayo. Ungalindi iholidi, funda ukubekela eceleni imizuzu embalwa yokuphumula phakathi nesonto. Funda incwadi, zindla, vakashela i-sauna noma isaluni yobuhle, wenze umsebenzi wokuthunga, ube nepikiniki ngokwemvelo.
I-7. Zinakekele
Ukudla okunempilo, ukuvivinya umzimba njalo, ukulala ngokwanele, ukwenza okuthandayo, ukuzilibazisa yizinto okufanele ube nazo ekuphileni kwakho. Lokhu kuyinto ongeke ukwazi ukuqhubeka ngaphandle kwayo, uphendule ngokwanele ekucindezelekeni futhi ubone amathuba amasha okungenzeka alinde ekhoneni. Akunandaba ukuthi ubhekene nezikhathi ezinzima noma, ngokuphambene, unenkathi “ekhanyayo”.