Amaqiniso angu-7 mayelana nokungathembeki: okushiwo yisayensi yesimanje

Sazini ngokungathembeki? Wonke umuntu uyabesaba, abaningi bethu bake bahlangana nabo, futhi akekho owaziyo ukuzivikela kubo. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zaseNyuvesi yaseFlorida uFrank Fincham noRoss May basondela endabeni yokuphinga kahle futhi bafingqa ucwaningo ngalesi sihloko. Nakhu abakutholile.

1. Ithiyori yamathuba

Phakathi nonyaka owodwa, cishe u-2-4% wabalingani bangena ebudlelwaneni eceleni. Kuyo yonke impilo yabashadile, ukungathembeki kwenzeka emishadweni engama-20-25%.

2. Ezothando zasehhovisi

U-85% wokukopela kwenzeka kozakwenu noma emsebenzini.

3. Ihlobo impilo encane

Njengokuziphatha kocansi, ukukopela kungaphansi kokushintshashintsha kwesizini. Ikakhulukazi, bafika phezulu ehlobo, ngoba abantu bahamba kakhulu ehlobo, futhi ukuba bodwa kude nomlingani kunikeza amathuba amaningi okuzijabulisa okuyimfihlo. "Okwenzeka endaweni yokungcebeleka kuhlala endaweni yokungcebeleka" kuyizaba ezivamile.

4. Inqubekelaphambili ithinta imvamisa yokukopela

Phakathi kuka-1991 no-2006, ukungathembeki kwanda ngendlela eyinhlekelele, ikakhulukazi emadodeni angaphezu kweminyaka engu-65 ubudala. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zichaza lokhu ngokuvela emakethe yezidakamizwa zokwelapha ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile.

5. Abesifazane abakhohlisayo bavame ukuholela edivosi

Abesifazane baqala ukushintsha kaningi kuneminyaka engu-10-20 edlule. Esigabeni seminyaka yobudala efinyelela eminyakeni engama-45 namuhla, iphesenti lokungathembeki licishe lifane kubo bobabili ubulili. Abesifazane bavame ukuhileleka ngokomzwelo ebudlelwaneni nesithandwa, okuholela ekwehlukaniseni kaningi kunobulili besikhathi esisodwa ngaphandle komshado kwabesilisa abashadile.

6. Ihhabhula esihlahleni samahhabhula

Izingane ezikhulele emikhayeni lapho kuphinga khona zaziphindwe kabili amathuba okuba zibe nezithandwa emshadweni kunabantu abadala.

7. Isikhathi sokusebenza

Zivame kakhulu emibhangqwaneni lapho umlingani oyedwa esebenza kanti omunye engasebenzi.

Iqiniso Lebhonasi: Icala

Kukhona elinye iqiniso - uScott Haltzman, uprofesa wezengqondo eBrown University nomlobi wencwadi ethi Secrets of Happy Husbands, uyaqiniseka ukuthi abakhohlisi abaningi bazizwa benecala futhi baphupha ngokujulile ngokuchayeka.

“Abantu bangase balwele ukulethwa emanzini ahlanzekile ngokunganaki. Amamaki we-lipstick kukhola, vula ama-imeyili kukhompuyutha yomndeni, akuthathi isikhathi eside ukuthola umkhondo, kusho uScott Haltzman. Kuvame ukukhalela usizo. Amambuka amaningi afuna ukuhlukaniswa ukuze ayeke. Kodwa abazi ukuthi bakwenze kanjani."